Will you girls out there marry a man that is 25yrs older than you but very rich and caring or not.HELP PLEASE?

michelebaruch

Just remember that he is only 50 years old, to you being 25 sounds old. But he has many many more years of life to live. His physical desires will last for many years. So if you are thinking that he will keel over soon, he won't.

He will also make sure to have a pre-nuptial agreement. So don't think you will get everything when you are 50, and he is 75.

Now it is in your hands.

racermom

If you have doubts then do not marry!

Yes, things may be fine now and the age difference although large is not a huge deal. However imaging in 15 years.....you will be 40 and he will be 65. You will be just hitting your stride and wanting to do things and go places yet he may be starting or already on the downhill slide.

Royalhinney

Wow! I wouldn't marry a man with that much of an age difference. And the money situation would mean nothing to me.

You have to look at the big picture. What about children? How's his health? Are you going to be his care taker in a few years?

I married a man that was 16 years older than I was when I was foolish and 21. The marriage lasted for 3 years. I came to the conclusion that the age gap was not just a gap, it was the Grand Canyon!

rima

Would you marry him if he had no many??

arm candy, eh? your folks must be proud.....

D....

if you love him and can handle the drama that goes with marrying your suga-daddy...go for it.

Durchai

Ys know 50 is not so old anymore. I think that your question is throwing people off when you say "sugar Daddy" Is that what you truly mean? ONLY with him for the finacial support? If so you need to look farther....into yourself about what love really means. However you also said you loved him and that you have been seeing each other for two years. If it were not for the aga difference would you be hesitating? If not then follow your heart. You will have discrepancies come up because of your different life experiences and a bit of pre-matitail couseling wouldnt hurt (anyone).

Tweety

Every couple I know who has a large age difference is having problems in their marriage. You can't be equals when one is old enough to be your parent, it doesn't work very well. I'll admit there are exceptions, but those are the exceptions, not the rule.

Always Camera Ready

The fact that you mention he's rich lets me know that you really don't love him....you only want his money and what his money can buy you. Believe me he already have you figured out and he's just playing the role because that's what he wants to do at this point in his life.

baestek

It is good that he is taking care of you. And you really seem to have something good. But you must weigh the pros and cons. He is way older than you and rich and apparently well taken care of which means he doesnt need you. And he likes younger women. As you get older, you will become less attractive to him and he may leave you for another younger woman. You are young and needy so you definitely need him to maintain your lifestyle but you are also worried you may be missing out on your youth or some other handsome young man that may think you are gross for dating your dad.
If that old guy dies, and you are not married to him, you get nothing but if you marry him, you get something to take care of yourself with.
Just some thoughts to consider.
Oh yeah, and dont have any kids, they will look like aliens.

lorraine B

What are you really in it for.You said he was rich,Why do we need to know this.It maybe the money you're after.Or do you think you could really love him.Love do not have a # behind it.If you 2 are really in love go for it.Good Luck!

MZ. Latina

If you love him then that is all that matters. But since you are considering his age, you have doubts. When you marry someone if the love is strong there will be no doubts. Make sure you see all your options. He is older have you thought about kids and want your kids tohave their dad around. Have you considered that you may just look to him as a fatherly figure and in time you might realize that and start dating men your age. Just be careful and make sure you have no doubts.

babies4life

I wouldn't do it and I've dated a man 20 years older than me. You suffer because he's probably not someone you can relate to. He probably treats you like you're his daughter. Is he someone you can trust not to run off with someone younger when you get older? What kind of man would you marry if you were the rich girl and you didn't know this guy?

*Miranda*

It kind of strikes me as odd that you would add that your "sugar daddy is rich." Maybe you should re-think things a little. Don't be a gold-digger and marry him for his money. Age is just a number. So if you really LOVE HIM (not his money) go for it.

Tinkerbell

you need to take into consideration that due to his age you will be facing a disaster due to possible health problems. What will you do if he has a massive stroke and winds up in a nursing home and that eats up all of his money. Even with insurance that could cost you up to $340.00 per day. Can you afford to pay that and still have money left over to live on? It is a very hard choice to make. You really need to think about it first and do some serious checking on what his heath is now. Talk to him about this issue and ask him what if. Everything he had before you get married to him will remain his legally so even if he goes on state aid for his care they will attach everything he owns to pay them back for what it cost to keep him there, otherwise you would have to keep him home and care for him yourself and that can be devastating for you.

jassybaby

yeah my mom did and they were together for 28 yrs until death did they part... just make sure that your not just with him 4 the money other wise it might be just 28 weeks

Imagine

If you really think you love him then go for it. You definately should consider his aga and how soon you are going to be heartbroken by death or something like that.
If you feel like you might just be in it for the money or something then you might not want to get too involved before you hurt his feelings.
Ultimately...It's up to you.

Hockey_Babe_Forever

If you really love him, and you want to be with him, go for it!

Valerie I

Well, if you want to marry him because of his money - go ahead. Either you'll be married and he'll pay for you or you'll get divorced and he'll still pay for you.
Would you marry him if you had to support him financially? If the answer to that is no, then you are marrying him for his money, which is OK as long as you realize that. Women have married for worse reasons.

Bethy4

If you love him, then nothing else really matters, not what people see or think and in all actuality, it is none of their damn business. Enjoy your man, enjoy your life with your man, always remember, no matter what your age, tomorrow isn't guaranteed - so you live today to the fullest. God Bless.

guts_spunk_moxie

If you are having considerations about his age, then by all means don't marry him right now. Make sure of your feelings of everything about him, including his age. He is 25 yrs. older than you, do you feel in the future you may want someone around your own age? Don't let money be a deciding factor, it will only cause you grief in the end. Also consider that by him being so much older than you that you could end having to take care of him in his future years if he should develop any illnesses that are age related.

not for now

ok, I'm a 51 yo man, and can out run, out lift, out last nearly every man I know half my age. My grandmother lived to be 100 yo, and if you have someone that age in good shape, he may just out live you! If U love him, go for it. What do U have to lose?

Guy

Do what your heart tells you, not your brain. If you love him and he loves you, then go for it. If you are interested at all because of money and material possessions, then you will lose in the end.

godsownsaint

I wouldn't. So he has money, there are men out there your age with money, and caring and nice. I think later in life you will get tired of someone 25 years older than you and I think older men who want younger women are perverts. Maybe this isn't the case with him, but as he gets older he'll be slowing down and you'll be ready to roll.
I know there is a nice, caring, younger man out there just waiting for someone like you. Don't be in such a hurry, and don't depend on a man for money.

If I were you I wouldn't but the choice is yours.

Good Luck

Dotr

yes marry him w/prenup!!! I am in the same situation and now he is sick and I still take care of him!!! I could left several times, He wants me to inherit his veterns pay. we r not married yet

For the most part i think age is just a number. But saying that i usually think about my own age not being with someone with such a huge gap as 25. I think it does than become an issue. Money doesnt help solve what counts between 2 people. Maybe he is showering you with things because he wants what he doesnt have.

If you can honestly see yourself with him because you love him, no matter what go for it. If he didnt have money would your thoughts change.

joyceeleann

If you love him...go for it. So long as you love him..

holly

It maybe ok at the moment, however as he gets older he wont be able to keep up with you or have the patience for any children you may have who would be the age his grandchildren should be. There is a lot to be considered here take care.

sunshine

sure if you love him ,rich that i would not count on you getting a part of . so do it for love . he did not get his money or have alot from giving it to ones, who may think so ,it is safe from you . so if it is for love great, to get money it will be a dead end road .
we who have, don't let go that easy trust me on this one . a different account in a trust , so many ways to keep it safe i now this one so if you love him sure. if it is for money you have a dead end road i am sure of it.

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