With a marreid man?

h2gj87

Are you two sure that its real love? Because if you two are positive then I must say Go for it! Sometimes we end up with the wrong one to later in life find our true love. If he isnt happy with her anymore then you two need to give each other a chance. Just wait for the divorce. If you really love each other you can atleast wait for him to be single again.

Lucky

Consider this; how long before he does to you what his getting ready to do to his current wife? We all get what we deserve.

joyall57

Get your own man. The poison that brings you together is the poison that will break you. Move on. Let him deal with his own problems.

Could you be loved?

Ok, NO. Lets say, since you have prior knowledge that he is WILLING to cheat on the "one he loves", that you get married to him. Then what? Once he starts cheating on you, you're gonna be paranoid of his every move. KARMA IS A *****.....******

jac

no he wants you to be his bit on the side , he has no respaect just lust

~just_jd~

bet cha money the day will never come ...that he actually leaves his wife. i think he is playing you an keeping you on a string. most married men are real good at that! so make no plans until you actually see the divorce papers in his hand.

nitenurse

Just remember that what goes around comes around,if he is willing to up and divorce is wife for you who is to say he wont do the same to you ...think about it .

Clay

A good man never leave his wife for another woman....so think twice before making a big desicion...thats my advice

young ugs

quit being such a homewrecker.

Denise W

think about it this way: do you really want to marry someone who cheated on his ex-wife?

History only repeats itself.

Biometric

First thing first. Do not get caught up in this mess. He needs to get a divorce first. Im over 46 years old and I have heard it all. If he does not get the divorce and you stay involved, the little girl will have a really tough time with all the drama.

magdaly

your wrong......

KRIS

take a deep breath and pray for the best.
i should let you know that all men say the same thing to the girlfriends. some of them actually do mean it but not many.
don't count your chickens before they hatch!

Davy Crockett

Honey, don't do it, even if he is telling the truth, - which is unlikely, think twice before you break up his family and break the hearts of his wife and daughter. Anyway, if he can do this now, how long will it be before you experience exactly the same problem as his wife?

J.M.C

He's feeding you a bag of crapola. That is just a means to his end, which is to jump your bones. Men will tell you anything you want to hear for a roll in the hay so be aware of that. Whatever else, it will not work. Get your own fella and stay away from the married folks.

Ummm...let's see.... with a married man......married?.... Oh yeah.... That's it ........HE'S MARRIED!
Even if you do submit to lower standards...just remember this: how you get someone is how you must keep them.

Yeti

Sounds to me that you are in love with what he has - marriage, home, daughter.

It would be so cruel to destroy that for him, even if he doesn't realise it just now.

If you were not around would he still stay with his wife or would he be moving out on his own?

This is not about you, its about ruining his daughters future happiness and prospects in life.

U DON'T KNOW ME!!

Yea right he's gonna leave her. They all say that.

If he was really unhappy he would have already left her, and been single and THEN it would have been ok to have been with him.

You should never involve yourself in someone else's marriage.

abbienikol

You need to walk away. Let him make his own decisions without you there. If him and his wife are going to get a divorce great, but the kid is the one getting hurt here

uwhat1001

on a serous note this is bad, but lets keep it real. hes not getting a divorce, nor is he going to marreiy you although you hope he does...life is good in his shoe right now unless of course you deiced to ruin it. just go with the flow girl... it feels better then getting married trust me..

iyamacog

Please dont mess up this child and his wife's life. How would feel in her shoes? And you cant be sure that he's not simply telling you lies. Dontcha wonder what he's telling his wife!?!

foxy4x4_79

They ALWAYS say this but it never happens. I would be upfront with him tell him you love him but your not going to wait for him to leave her. If he wants to be with you he needs to leave her and take care of his "issues" and call you when he is single. Other wise your gonna get hurt. But if he is cheating on her with you, and you hook up with him, he will most likely cheat on you too.......once a cheater, always cheater!

HonestGuy

You are being selfish. Most people now-a-days dont have character or morals. Looks like you want to join those ranks.

Good luck with your SELF.

stafford7176

sweetheart don't even go there, I know he said he will leave his wife for you and he only loves you etc etc; but believe me its a no hope. I have been seeing a married man for 5yrs he is no where nearer leaving the wife and I guess he never will. I was in love with him too now; well I guess its a habit and its better than nothing I'm getting the wrong side of 50 now so who else would want to take me out now an then. please think real carefully before you commit to this man cos sure as hell he ain't gonna commit to you. good luck

Arthur W

Youre about to fall into a very dangerous trap. Married men will tell a girl anything he thinks they want to hear to get what he wants. The key word here is he "wants" a divorce from her, so think whats stopping him and why hasnt he filed for a divorce already? Because he isnt going to, especially with a child involved, itll cost him a fortune to divorce her, so he lies to you so he can have the best of both worlds. Never trust a married man unless he shows up with a final divorce decree in hand. You may be be in love with him but he definitely isnt in love really with you. Just remember words are exactly that and in these cases actions speak louder and that doesnt mean meeting in secluded places at odd times, no phone numbers. If he hasnt given you a working phone number that you can contact him 24 hrs a day without worrying about his wife then run as fast as you can from him or youre headed for a heart break. He will use you as long as you play his game and he needs you. Think about it. Good luck

Maegwynne

Take a step back and let him try to resolve his marriage. Don't be the reason for the marriage to end.
If the marriage does end by itself then maybe you can think about being with him again.

romeo

Look I am telling you from experience it wont be long be for he does the same thing to you you better use your head for thinking instead of the other how would you like it if another woman did this to you oh by the way people do get killed for this just something to think about

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