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steph_the_chef
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If he is unemployed because he's just a lazy bum and he doesn't help around the house to make up for the fact that I am bring in all the income, I'd rather him cheating and useful. As long as he uses digression and does not have our business in the street, embarrassing me, and is still playing his part in the house, Cheating would go over much better then unemployment with me. A worthless man, is a worthless man. And when your man is sitting around the house, not doing anything, you will find your self not feeling attracted to him at all. If he's cheating, you might start to think, what could we be doing differently to fix the flaws in our relationship. Think about it. I have a feeling that the majority of Women so quick to answer this question is not yet married, so their answer may be a bit biased. |
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Shy Girl S
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Pfft, a cheating husband, of course! An umemployed guy can eventually get a job. You can't undo cheating though. |
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bronzebabekentucky
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a cheater
if he is unemployed at Least he isnt porking some other woman! |
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Brandy
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Neither, but if I had to choose one, I'd choose a unemployed husband (a cheating husband would be worse). What good is it to me if he had a job - even making six figures - if he is cheating on me and hurting me and putting me at risk for any number of STDs? |
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mommy2be
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a cheating husband b/c he goes out with other women, an unemployed one i know is still mine and i can rely on him(as long as he is looking for another job its good) |
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moondego
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Cheating............that can be prevented. Unemployment happens to even the most educated. It can also happen to you. |
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eharrah1
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A cheating hubby. My hubby cheated on me a long time ago and he is now unemployed because he broke his foot. Unemployed we can deal with. Normally you are getting money from somewhere, either workers comp or unemployment. But cheating, I had a very hard time getting over it the first time. Only took him back because our kids were little at the time. Since then our marriage has become a lot stronger than before but I still do not trust him 100% and he knows it. I would never take his cheating again. |
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Elle
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Cheating!! You can get over being unemployed by getting a job, and in the future, you will forget about it.
However, cheating wrecks a relationship- it is never the same again, and you can never forget what they have done, trust and respect is gone,
never put up with cheating, its a road to ruin. |
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parisnikkivager
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I hate a cheating husband. That just mean he is not loyalty to you. And doesn't take anything seriously. Which means he is probably cheating on you. |
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Hello
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Cheating!!! |
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Flower Girl
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I would hope for neither but I would have to say a cheating husband. |
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ELLE
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A cheating husband... |
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MRS NICE
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Without a doubt.... a cheating husband |
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Stardust Fairy
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A cheating husband. He is not truthful or faithful. I could not trust him ever again. If he was unemployed it might not be his fault. Then he could get a new job unless he was lazy and did not work. |
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poodle mom
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cheating...no question there |
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JENNIFER G
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Cheating def. The unemployed husband can get a job, the cheater will still be a pig |
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Paige
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a cheating husband for sure |
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daryl
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I just want to answer this one for my girlfriend... A cheating husband ( he may be for given), A unemployed husband is not necessary unemployable.... |
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04/12/2008 :)
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ahh a Cheating husband?
And unemployed guy can always get a job and you will forget that he was unemployed... When a guy cheats! Thats against god, your vows, and if he stopped cheating you will never forget it! |
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Mint_Always
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cheating husband... |
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♥ 2 Miscarriages ♥
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This is a rhetorical question, right? |
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Cookie
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Cheating of course.
Cheating would break your heart. Unemployment doesnt. Help him get a job. |
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MJ
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I would Rather have an unemployed spouse than a cheating spouse.... |
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mable3691214
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Unemployed.
You can leave a man without guilt for being unfaithful. Leave him when hes unemployed and you are a heartless btch. |
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Lila
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A cheating husband. That is the lowest thing he can do. |
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Jellybean had her little bean
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A cheating husband |
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schus_girl
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Wheew - That's a tough one!!! Both are despisable! But I guess the Cheating Husband would be just a tad worse, since unemployment can happen to anyone at anytime through no fault of their own. Where as cheating can be avoided by just not doing it. |
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exoticflava
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I personally detest a cheating husband, but unemployed is up there with it. I just found out my husband has cheated on me through a text message, I Just had his baby girl 3mths ago, and we have 2 boys been together for 13yrs, married 10yrs now I have to sit back and wonder what I have done wrong or what I could have done right. I swear you give yourself completely and look what happens you get a big pile of crap thrown at you. |
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