Women...if u found out ur husband was cheating on u..?

jude

i would not be able to stay with him, it wouldn't be because u didn't love him, it would be because its just too hard to put it back together once they betray u. u would never be able to feel the same about him once u realize he chose someone over u. the ego is a fragile thing, and once it gets hurt its almost impossible to return to anything normal. but every woman has her own reality, some have children and no job, and really feel that they can't leave him.

Lisa

Kick him in the balls. It would make you feel better.

BabeHeart

IF for some reason I'd already given him a 2nd chance and he repeated the behavior, he'd be hearing from my divorce lawyer.

Yeah, some women (and men) do seem to be glutton's for punishment. They think they are "in love" or they fear being single more than staying with the "devil they know". It's a waste of life, but it's their life to waste.

mikossss

i would have to excuse myself if he was cheating.
some women choose to stay because they want to believe the bull that they speak after they test you to see how far you will let them go. if he has the galls to do it to you then what is the point of not doing it again when you already you can get away with it?
i dont think that every man is out there to cheat but women make it so easy, why wouldnt they?

trish s

Not a chance,once would be enough.He'd be gone.............

Minxy

To forgive him a first time is one thing. He wouldn't get another chance after that.

Psycho Therapist

cheating to me, is the end all of trust in a relationship.

to some women, love really is blind. they turn a blind eye rather than deal with all the hurt feelings, or their self confidence is severely shaken, and they feel they can't do any better. Or they are just so scared to try.

I know a woman who has been in an unhappy relationship for the last 20+ years. Just for the financial security. Because she doesn't want to be "poor" or "trashy". This is such odd thinking to me. Reversed even. Wouldn't it make you feel more trashy and poor to need a hand out from someone who really doesn't respect you at all?

sarah

I wouldnt ever tolerate my husband cheating on me......i would KICK him out of my life!! no place for cheatersssssssssss

robert x

Sometimes people just see past the obvious and turn a blind eye to infidelity. Instead being pragmatic and keep the relationship going for the sake of their own health and financial well being.

DreamFlyRunAway

Some people just can't stop cheating. The man I first fell in love with had a chronic cheating problem. He just cannot stop. He just doesn't cheat with ONE girl, he cheats with four women at a time. Even after we broke up, and stayed friends, he always tells me about his latest trophy. People like that need help. But if it was this one woman who he keeps cheating on me with, i'd definetely dump him, even if I had to sleep in a subway station.

Nelly N

A lot of women don't leave because they have nowhere else to go. And some women don't want to get their family and friends involved.
None of us know what we would do until we were in that situation. I feel sorry for anyone thats in that situation

Teri ann Sensible.

My first husband cheated on me 23 years ago I forgave him but he continued so then I divorced him.

maria n

i suppose women stay bbecause they have children and so on..but the husband should return to them and become faithfull otherwise how should smb stay like that..no love..no marriage...

although it looks difficult ..a woman who wants to keep her husband and the father of her child, has to forgive, dress nice, be gentle, and be strong. showing she is strong, and that he must be faithfull, be with her if he wants to keep her, and share some opiniuons..come closer in many things....a woman is weaker and needs a partener, smb strong near her to suport her..and if her husband doesn't want, then God allows us to divorce if we are cheated.so next time a very reliable partener honest and with faith in God must be chosen for marriage..to be all the time near you

love

LOOK WOMAN,THAT IS WHY IS BETTER YOU MARRY A CHRISTINA WHO HAVE THE FEAR OF GOD,DONT MARRY A MAN BECAUSE OF HIS PHISICALL AND PRETENDING ACT,BUT MAKE SURE HE HAS BEEN IN THE CHRISTIAN HOOD FOR YEARS AND STUDY HIM TO BE A GOD FEARING,SO HE DONT CHEAT AFTER MARRIAGE.
AND FOR YOU TO SAY THERE ARE SOME WOMEN WHO ARE LIVING ENDIPENDENTLY,LOOK IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN YOU WONT SAY THAT,COS THE BIBLE SAY THE NEEDS OF THE WOMAN SHALL BE ON THE MAN,AND LATTER SAYS WOMAN BE SURMISIVE TO UR HUSBAND,ITS MEANS YOU WOULD DEPEND ON HIM AND BE SURMISIVE,THEN HE GIVES YOU LOVE IN RETURN.YOU DONT HAVE ANY REASON TO LIVE INDEPENDENTLY.
AND FOR THE CHEATING UNGLY MAN YOU MARRY,PRAY FOR HIM,AND TRY SHOW HIM SOME LOVE AND BE COMITED TO HIM.HE WILL CHANGE,ALTHOUGH ITS HURTS,TOO HURTSFUL.
HNNMM FOUNDATION IS VERY IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE.MAY GOD HELP YOU OUT.

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