Women only: My wife has a stripper fantasy...What do you think?

manders

Buy her a stripper pole and let her practice for you. They're available everywhere now, I even saw it on a TV shopping channel once!

tamstat

take her to an amateur night somewhere far from home. She will love it and so will you, just remember not to get jealous if you see some guy stuffin a dollar in her gstring.

Mai L.

I'm going to get married this December 2007 and has a stripper fantasy to do it only in front of my husband during our wedding night. It will be a good idea if not the best if your wife will strip for your eyes only.

Dixie Darlin'

Perhaps you can install a stripper pole in your bedroom, I have fantasies too, that I could never do in real life, its just a fantasy! I bet she would back out right before she was suppose to do it! I don't see anything wrong with letting her do it once in a private club, away from your home town, but you never know who you may run into and as rampant as video phones are I would be careful! Try the pole in your bedroom and see how she likes that idea!

mememye

Sounds like your wife is comfortable enough sharing her fantasies with you and sounds like emotionally you won't be hurt by this. If you can handle the attention she may get at the club after amateur night and she can reassure you that this is just to try to fulfill a fantasy and not something she wants to continue, then what's the harm. You should support her. She may not even like it, but she should be able to try it without feeling like she has to lie or hide it from you. In the future you may have a dream or fantasy that you want fulfilled and as long as it doesn't harm her what would be the issue.

My co-worker's sister stripped at amatuer night, just for the fun of it. She made money and enjoyed it. Her sisters supported her, and she didn't decide to be a stripper after that, but she got to be bold and daring and a little crazy.

You just might like it as well and have a pole or stage installed in your home for her.

P'rushim

...send her over for a few hours... I'll let you know...

Kaitlyn S

Since you both are open to the idea I say go for it. Doing it away from your home town is a good idea for the first time. Something to ask yourself though is what if she finds she really likes it - are you willing to let her continue to go? I would hope that you are willing to let her. Who knows perhaps being seen in that environment will work you guys up so much that you'll eventually find yourself in the local clubs! ;) Enjoy her show(s)!

Kelly C

If she wants to do it, and you are okay with the idea, then do it! Just make sure you are not somewhere that people would know you, and if you are recognized, realize that there could be consequences. And have fun!

BabeHeart

Sounds harmless, so why not let her go for it? â˜º

Irene

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH EVONNE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bonnieboobabe

Everybody has fantasies, and most are just that. I think I'd be asking her what might she do if she does this and enjoys it a lot? How would you feel if it went down like that and then she wants to do it every weekend? Not passing judgement here but I'd be considering all the possibilities. And yes we all love attention, but there is a chance that he may find out more about his wife than he wants to know by the time this is over or vice, versa. I'd have to wonder why she wants THAT particular kind of attention. What particular parts of this would be the turn on for her? The fact that it's done in public? more than one man? Exactly what? There is a huge difference between someone staring at a beautiful person and this!

Mrs. Hadaway

If that is her fantasy I would let her. Just be aware if she into it then she might not want to stop once she does it. I think it is great that you are open to it!

emma_love

i think that you should let her go for it. it'd be fun for her! and im sure it would be fun for you too!

Kayla

hahaha dude
why doesnt she just do it for YOU?
i mean what are you gunna do??
post an ad that says amateur free striper!! come all!! LOL
sounds fun

Master Richard

Can she do it at my place?

Kailey

I have never tried it, but I agree that it would be exciting! I say go for it!! As long as it is done with taste, and you are present so you can protect her, then why not??

ALL women love to get that attention from men. Even if we are just driving and a guy is staring at us, it is flattering.

I think it is great that your wife is that comfortable with her body!! And, I think it is great that you are open minded enough to support her if she wants to do this!

cuddly_lez85

If she wants to strip, she can.
They make pretty good tip money doing so. Sounds like she is in good shape and she has to be comfortable around men.

Lulu

I personal would never strip, i have wanted to a few times(money got really tight), so i really don't see anything wrong with somebody stripping. But you're talking about you and your wife. this is something that you and her need to sit down and talk about. if the two of you are BOTH really ok with it then tell her to do it. But remember she is going to be showing her body to other men. I know that my partner would never agree to me showing my body to other men (that is why even though we needed the money i still never stripped). So sit down and think if you yourself can be ok with this, because she probably could

tmjf461

There are alot of women out there that have the same desire. It has something to do with the idea of looking so good, working hard to look that good and wanting people to notice it. There are tapes out there that can be purchased, ask her to strip for you at home first and see if that relieves her desire to do it in public. If it doesn't then go for it somewhere out of your hometown and go enjoy seeing your wife on stage. Not something I personally would want to do. Letting other men see what is meant for my husbands eyes only is closer to my desires. But difference is what makes the world a unique place.... Good Luck

Maria A.

I think it is kool, like you said far away from your home. LOL! Get her the strip tease work-out video. I know ladies that have tried it and are crazy about it, as it is very empowering for a woman. I have known girls who did that at night clubs, legs contest and best bootie contest, as long as it is all done in fun, go for it, you said she has the body, be her number one cheerleader, fan. I am sure she will appreciate your understanding.

crazyworld

hey i'm all for it..... but yeah i definitely agree to not do it anywhere near your town. If she likes it then great.... if not atleast she can say she tried. By the way..... let me know where she decides to do it so my husband and i can come watch ;)

lost_in_houston

I think most of the women that answered are right. Get a pole in your bedroom and let her try with you first. Chances are she is gonna be so happy that you are gonna let her try that she might not even want to do it in public. But at least you will be the only one seeing her. You can do role playing and have her make up a stipper name and you could be the regualr that comes in to see her dance.

867-5309 "Jenny"

Set up a web site were she can do this from the safety of your home.. ever think of that?

oracleofohio

Sounds like fun! I'm sure you can find an amateur night somewhere out of town. Perhaps wayyyyyy out of town since you are worried about the consequences of church and community. I am of the belief that most fantasy should remain just that. In this case it sounds like you are both into the idea. Taking a fantasy out in the open could present problems that you haven't even considered. Think hard(very hard) about the possible repercussions and if you could both deal with them .....go for it.

Laura

LOL
Sounds like you're living every married man's fantasy.
I'd recommend she get some instructional videos first and maybe visit some strip clubs to watch technique, maybe even ask for some tips from the girls. It's actually a lot harder than it looks.

She can always get lots of practice for you, first.

By the way, I consider myself a feminist... I think you're jumping the gun in presuming that feminists wouldn't approve.

BrunetteLover

My wife is a professional with an advanced degree. Working extra hours at her day job exhausts her and leaves her wanting to quit. Can't have that, kids in college. So she took out an ad on Backpage thinking she could get an occasional bachelor party for $100 or so like she used to do back in college. The responses flooded in from lonely guys sitting at home with money to burn. She now goes over guy's houses and offices and gives high mileage lap dances. $200 - 250 for a half hour. I drive her there and wait outside. She makes about a grand a month extra now, and enjoys it immensely. Me? Do I care? It's just another job.

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