Would I be a fool to marry my girlfriend who has been unfaithful to me twice?

Felix

Yes, it is very RISKY for a man to be involved with a woman that cheated on him once. But if she cheated on him twice.....then it is a SLAM-DUNK!

You will save yourself a lot of pain by ending this NOW...today! Just say you can't get over this and it would be best if she got a fresh start with someone else.

With typical chick psychology, they expect to be punished if they get caught cheating. If you don't break up with them, then they lose respect for you at a VERY deep level. To excuse a second infidelity, means she has very little respect for you. Respect yourself and end this now.... You will save yourself a lot of pain later on... And she will respect you for being man enough to dump her. But I fear this advice will be wasted on you because if you are CONSIDERING marrying a woman that has been unfaithful twice to you...then you got problems. Be a man, take control of your life, and end this...

CowboyBill

No, you will be a BROKE fool married to a cheating wife.
Wake up, idiot.

miester44

The old saying goes......fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. What does that tell you......

sweetsandy81671

Yes, a relationship is based on trust, simple

responder

You deserve better than that, don't you think?

Brittney

wellllllll DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Colleen O

She's been unfaitful twice that you KNOW of yet she is STILL your girlfriend...that should pretty much answer the question if you're a fool or not.

luvleebabygurl22

I think that if your girlfriend didnt feel bad for being unfaithful the first time and did it again, she doesnt love you the way you should have someone love you. people get blinded by love and sometimes dont know what the right thing to do is. its so hard to say I love you, but this isnt right. Im not saying to dump her and never speak to her again, if you think she is changed and wont do it again, I would still take some time and see how things go before tieing the knot. you have to be sure that this is the one for you to spend the rest of your life with and to make sure she has this whole cheating thing out of her system. its so hard to trust someone that has done that to you, but like I said love blinds us all as corny as it sounds. think about it hard and make sure she is all about you, if she did it twice...do you in your heart feel like she'll do it while your married?? if you have to think about it than its not the right time for marriage.

ramni222

yes, that when she will let everybody pet the cat!

Belle

I believe so.

Chris F

Yes you would. You need to find another girl. That is just dum for even still being with her.

aes_bunny

yes...once a cheater always a cheater

bluskies

Ummm... ya think? You don't want to marry someone who has not only cheated on you once, but then turns around and does it again. You deserve better and you'll find it.

not for now

Next time has a fling, tell her you want to watch! lol Ask her to bring home a girlfriend for you! You might as well get what you can before you think of marriage. Sorry...honestly, she has not got it out of her system...and maybe you haven't either! Do not marry her at this time! But have some fun!!!

Lydia

Yes, pretty much. The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour.

Poppet

Yes.

Natasha T

Yes.. Just because you marry her will no make her be faithful. All that will do is when you finally get fed up with her crap and wanna leave it will have to be a big legal issue!!!

Cardinal64

No. I don't think you would be a fool.
You are a fool for still being with this *****!!

Kitty

You would be a fool to expect her to change. But if you are ok with an "open relationship" - then go for it.

Why not me

I agree with what "goldwing110083" said. First time it's a mistake, second time a bad decision. If you are worried about a third time, it's time to cut your loses.

MoonDoggie

Yes. Once a cheater allways a cheater

tigerprincess_bee

Sorry, but I say yes.

Bantree

Love forgives everything including unfaithfulness. But she should be ready to make the turn. If she loves you and ready to fix her ways, you could still give her a chance.

*cHiNeSsE gIrL*

not trying to hurt your feelings.but yes you are a fool to marry a girl who had been unfaithful to you twice. and if you do marry her, than you will never ever be happy anymore. cause you're all worry about is she faithful to you and all that. you just need to married someone else.

Sami

Just by you asking that question ... you know the answer!

hard-on

You really should read your question before you post it. I think if you had a brain you could answer it yourself. You won't though. You are going to marry her and then have kids. Then the stupid b*itch is going to leave you for someone else. However, now she is going to take all your money as well. The judge will giver her way more money than it takes to raise a child. You will look back and say, wow I am a fu(king dumb a*ss. You will think of yourself the way I think of you now. Chalk up another life regret my friend. Don't say I didn't warn you. A TIGER DOESN'T CHANGE IT'S STRIPES!!

snezana9

yes, a glutton for punishment. Then again u may feel like she owes u, that she will make up for it somehow. If u don't mind the likely chance of her doing this to u again, then go for it.

Gr8estluv

Not necessarily a fool, just a guy with an unfaithful wife.

Kitty Kat

YES!!!!!!!

Marriage does not make monogamy....

Seriously, if you do marry her, you are basically saying "I think I am crappy enough to marry the woman that screws around on me"

Earl

If you think she will do it again, yes you would be a fool unless you don't mind a cheating wife.

yahusco88

i am facing the same problem but mine is once.my brain is that, it simply up to you and check out if she is the type who repeats mistakes often.in a nut shell,you know her than all your counselors you can capitalize on this to make your final decision.

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