Would getting divorced put you off getting married again?

Donna-Maria R

Getting divorced is not nice especially if its a bad one!
If that does happen it means maybe they should not have married in the first place,or basically they tried it and made a mistake. However maybe a second marriage(or3rd) maybe that is where you find your true love.

You marry someone you want to spend the rest of your life with,as you are in love with them but most people love more than one in their life.

yahoobloo

No way. It`s like the pain of childbirth - you think never again ! Before you know it you`re pregnant again and all excited about it and the pain of the first experience has completely gone out the window.

Red

Marriage is going the way of the dinosaur.
Only the elite can afford it.......And re occur it....

Maybe with a pre nup

vanhammer

Yes, at least for a long while after. Divorce is almost like a death. It is very strange to be living with this person and sharing everything one day and then that's it and it's almost like that part of your life never happened. Dealing with divorce is a tough emotional time and it does put you off from even dating for a while. I have been divorced before and am now happily married. Boy, what a difference the right woman makes!

cleancutspike

I dont know if getting divorded would put me off from ever getting married again, but I know getting married put me off from ever getting married again.

jacky

why would that? o, wait, it might, when u get divorsed and check how beautiful the life of a single person is so u will never ever want to get marreid again

Micky

Definitely, once bitten twice shy, for me.

sdev006

Getting divorced does not mean that you will not get married
again.But virgin girls and their families will not be interested
in you.Only divorcees and widows may be interested.
That will cause great difficulty for you to get a suitable partner.

val f1 nutter

i did it. this ones 100% better than the first one. you cant let a bad marriage influence the rest of your life. there is a second chance of happiness.

road runner

been maried 3 times and would consider a 4th if the right one came along.dont see it happening in the immediate future,, have had to admit to myself that there are some things wrong with myself.. it wasnt all their fault.been in therapy for a while and realized that many of the problems were with me and not with them. but am much better now.of course most women wont give their time to a man thats been divorced 3 times...so will have to see what comes next..am not a bad person.. was confused for a few years..

racermom

For some yes, for others it just makes you more cautious.

Scorpius59

yes

isleofskye

I really thought it would and it did when I first got divorced, not because of the trust thing more because of my new found independance, but when I met the right guy it just felt right , so I married him and we are still very happy. So my answer would have to be yes and no.

Mortis

Yes. I'm divorced and I won't remarry unless there is property involved.

chinky69

noooo, I just can't find the stupid man to do it ha ha! They all clever when it comes to at that stage! I ave never been asked that question b4 by any of my b/f wonder why?

fairy_gdmthr

ive been divorced 4 yrs now,and becayse he was a compulsive liar any guy that came near me that following yr would of gone through a lie detector.if the right guy came along i suppose i would marry again ,but the enthusiasm is taken out of it

kapibara_n

Well, probably it will put you off getting married for a while definetly but its diffrent for people if you didnt really enjoy the marriage your in then no it wont.

bluelitttt

na.there are some great people out there, not all like the one your leaving

babyshambles

Yes it did with me. But have lived with second partner for ten years now, so really am doing him a diservice as this relationship is much better. We have two kids and I never had any with hubby. He got married straight away though, and I thought that was a bit sad. Dont know if they are still together.

nicemanvery

Done it 3 times mate !!

mssgtmidnight1

Just because you get a divorce, doest mean marriage is a bad thing. The concept of marriage is a good one,2 people wanting to spend the rest of their life together, in a monogamous relationship, and build a family.
It's the person you divorced, not the whole concept of marriage. So yes I would do it again.

funky munky is back

It didn't put me of getting married again, But, he also knows why I got divorced in the first place. No-One messes around with me, and IF he ever did the same things as my EX, I will be off like a shot. NO MESSING.

Courtney

Yes

Leapling

After my divorce I always swore I would neve 'legally' marry again.

My partner and I planned a handfasting ceremony to show our commitment to each other. But then because we own property it started to make more sense to be legally wed so we did. It hasn't made much difference to us at all and we did it all very quietly, its just a little bit of extra security should the worst ever happen.

laura01425

They say it does, but you obviously had the wrong man and if you find the right man in a few years time you;ll know when its right, your now older, more mature with experience you wouldnt want to rush into anything so it's more likely to work 2nd time round

yiufdbgkhfjj

the truth is no one ever marry to sb just for divorce later. it is all down to your own feelings and each we learn each time.
on the other hand however, more you get divorce then more difficult to secure your relationship.

jobby

oh yes but now some 12 years after my divorce i am starting to consider marriage again, thanks to the love of a good woman.

AdultMale

sassynsweet1221

It will initially, but most people find someone later. By rights, I should never trust another man again, but with the love and support of my family and friends, I have learned how to trust again and have met someone I love so much.

chug_lagerette

initially it did......but then I met my b/f and can't wait to marry him.............

babygirl

no. though some people do not really understand what marrage is all about,
marriage is all about tolerance, love, understanding, etc but where all these do not exist the marriage will crash

so it has already been written in Bible that a man/woman will leave his/her parent and cliff unto his wife/her husband

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