Would it bother you if your husband?

Mrs. Jack Sparrow â™¥

NO!

David J

Man here but, Just because he divorced her doesn't mean he has to hate her and never speak to her. If they were married for any amount of time, the understand he's part of that family too, even after divorce and if there are kids then cool it and let him be. Good Luck

green31

First it would happen to depend on what kind of relationship there is. To start my 1st ex husband and I are great friends and my current husband wouldnt care at all if I asked him for something. My husband and I are very secure in ourselves and our relationship we trust each other. We also dont care what other people think, it only matters what we think.

Qyllix

You should have jumped a little faster, but be happy that the charity got donations.

CamM

No. She IS part of his history - simple as that. Does he have to cut off all communication with her? She is familiar to him and he has asked her for a pledge - not to go to bed with him! Don't make something out of nothing. Trust......

Mama

I'm my husband's first wife, but he has several ex girlfriends that he talks to frequently and has maintained friendships with. That doesn't mean he wants them back. It means he's a nice guy that doesn't let petty things stand in the way of being a good person. I don't mind.

If it bothers you so bad, then it's probably insecurity on your part.

saji

Yes it would definetley bother me,, If they are such good friends or still get on then why get divorced in the first place????!!!!!

Michelle

I don't really think it's a big deal. The key word is ..she is his "EX" and sometimes ppl can maintain friendship even after it's over, which in my opinion, is healthy. I wouldn't be too upset about something like that.

sadgirlinms

Nope because he is trying to raise money for a good cause. Maybe he knew she would be eager to help and anyway if he was doing something underhanded with her then he would want to hide it and not give anyone any reason to think he was even talking with. I think you worry too much.

Christian F

No. Marriages don't work out for a lot of reasons, and just because people fall out of love, it doesn't mean that they can't be friends. Perhaps it is for a charitable org. that he knows is very close to her (and her families) hearts, and he thought of them. You have no proof (or solid grounds) to think that he emailed them first, they just happen to be the first to respond. I don't think people are are genuinely interested in your and your husbands affairs to the point where something as trivial as this is going to send up red flags and have them gossiping or judging the situation behind your backs (if so, you should probably find a better group of people to share your lives' with). And I think if it really bothers you this much you need to figure out why. Do you feel insecure with you relationship? Are you worried that he still has feelings for his ex? Are you worried about what other people think? Try and figure it out, get some answers from yourself and maybe that will give you some relief.

AngelBleu

No. It would bother me if he didn't ask everyone he knew to pledge money since he was giving his precious time to charity and I would want them to get the most money possible for his effort. Not only that, but he isn't giving his EX-wife money, he's taking it from her...can't you see the beauty in that?

sweetie pie

no not at all!! i hope your person in your life didnt get mad. :(

Violet Pearl

No.
I have better things to do with my life than get ticked over something so trivial.

Helen W.

No, it wouldn't bother me a bit. If there is one person in the world I am not jealous of, it's my husband's ex-wife!

moe

NO!!!!!!!!

Kenny

Maybe he sent a mass email to all of his contacts and he forgot to clean up his address book. The fact that you went through his email and the donation list shows you are very insecure. Stop worrying about outside coincidences and start working on your relationship... Men aren't that sneaky. If he was cheating with her you would have found him in your bed with her before you got a hold to that email.

Rosessis

you have some serious issues !! Please contact the local mental healthcare center in ur area :))d

Eric B

No. He might have known that she would support the cause. Could there be another reason that her name was listed first? Did she donate more than anyone else? Is it in alphabetical order? Plus, if he were really up to no good, he probably would not have have listed her name online.

sharon ON

No, why would it matter??????

WhatGodMade

Depends on how much you trust him. She may have just been the first one he thought of. It may not mean anything. If he's trustworthy, you should not be bothered by this, especially if they are friends. But if he speaks badly of her to you, and did this, maybe you should TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. Secret feelings never lead anywhere good.

poodle mom

no, not at all.

lala

You don't trust him.If you have a good relationship,you have nothing to worry about.If you let your insecurity's get the best of you, your going to have problems.She's his ex-wife for a reason.Get over it.

fuddrucker :]

If it was an amicable divorce, why not? She is probably a good woman, with a good heart and that's why he asked her. If you feel there are underlying reasons, then perhaps you should talk to him about it. Just don't get upset - esp. over a charity event.

Marlena J

If depends on if they are keeping it on a business level for the charity. But yes it would bother me that she was apart of the top two sponsors when it should have you or one of his family members to hold that position. I do not care what others say and maybe you should also, but make sure that you remind him that they are no longer together and ensure that you are somewhere on the site as his new love.

terpschik202

No. It's a charitable event.

Token

There are many different ways to approach this. Maybe he knew she had money. Or she would pledge. Or her name fell first alphabetically. Or this was a charity she believe in. Maybe they are still friends. Just do not jump to conclusions with just this one incident.

Cuddles

No, an ex is still a part of your family. It is good thing to be able to be friends with an ex. My ex comes to my house for all family functions and our kid is grown. My present other half and my ex and I all get along and he is just a much a part of my childrens family as any uncle. He is there sister dad, beside the key word is ex.....if there was something more there they would not be ex's.

Vyctym

That's just the nature of divorce. If they don't hate each other, then they probably will still be friends of some sort. Happens a lot. Myself, I don't understand it because I absolutely despise my ex, but I know folks that somehow stayed friends.

I don't think you should worry about it. Probably he simply thought of her first because is a decent man.

inoffensive nickname

Uh.. no..it's for charity. Maybe she's first alphabetically in his address book. Why be insecure about it? She's EX.. you're present.

butterfly25baby

Depends on the relationship he has with the ex. I worry about my bf's ex but only because she has tried so many times to break us up. My kids dad and I can talk sometimes without fighting and when we do it seems like old friends but I have borders that I put up that he doesn't always agree with (dad) and that can start a fight. As long as you and your bf/husband have set grounds that can't be crossed with ex's then you should be fine. If it is just charity then you should be ok. If it is a problem try talking it out. Holding in feelings can build to bigger problems. Good Luck to you.

TRUTH HURTS OOO K

If that is all he has done wrong get on your hands and knees and kiss his feet because that would be a miracle!!! Stop looking for drama because you will find it.

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