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Would it bother you if your husband had pictures of bikini models up?

Honestly does it bother you even a little if your husband has say a cheerleading calendar up or bikini chicks from racing magazines posted around in their workshop area. It bothers me a little but not enough to make him take them down. I'm pretty confident I mean...I think I look pretty good I just have to laugh because it seems like something a teenage boy should be doing but, it's his space I'd like to give him his freedom. I'm 30 and he is 38...Other women I know think I'm crazy for allowing it. What do you think? I on the other hand think I should paste my face on all of their bodies as a joke... want other perspectives on this...
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I think it bothers me because I usually enter the house through the garage, and have to walk right by the workshop so it's constantly in my face...


    




I Love 007
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No. Not if they are just models like the one's you see in SI.

My Life Partner has those in our bathroom magazine rack.


Amber H
At first I was thinking it wouldn't bother me but then I read where the workshop is in your house and you see it all the time. Then I read the responses and when I read labellemere's I realized that its probably not such a good idea with the kids around them as well. If you could put up chippendale or another similar thing in an area that he'll see them but the kids won't (your private bathroom maybe) and maybe he'll get the hint.


free_angel
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That's something teenage boys do. How old is your husband?????


LĂșta
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It doesn't bother me at all. If he had photos of his ex plastered on the walls in the garage then I'd take them down.
I had a friend who found out that the photos of the bikini girl in her fiance's garage were of one of his exes. That I wouldn't tolerate.


sillerious
i think its pretty pathetic when men do this. i wouldn't even date a man like that. has nothing to do with being secure or not, it actually has much more to do with wanting an adult in my life.....


Little
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I wouldn't like the calendar in his shop. It is very much a teenage thing and I think he should have outgrown it 20 years ago. I like the idea of keeping it light an putting your picture over theirs.

If he even notices and says something to you. Tell him it does make you wonder why he does that. Would he be okay with you having a topless and swimming trunk calendar of men in the kitchen?


AMY A
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I think it's silly to worry about a calendar - lol!


xtina
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Hell YES !


karen65622
No your not crazy because I'm the same way with my they can look all they want.If they touch that is a different story they like that their wife's trust them 100% we are very happily married and my husband is younger then i am. My Mom is the same way with my dad and they are very happily married to each other and my dad is younger then my mom just stick to how you are


Shalia J
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hmm, I would be more offended if he were pleasuring himself to models or pin up girls via internet.. If it is a harmless calendar in the garage, then I would be ok with it, Does not sound creepy to me. I would definitely be more concerned if he were trying to hide it from you. However, if it bothers you then just tell him how you feel. Hopefully, he will understand. If he does not, then get some of your own calendars...and when he says something to you, say I tried to warn you!

You can also pick up some of your own cute swimsuits and model them for him.. so he does not forget who's boss. http://WorldSwimwear.com


angelhaiku
they are models. He can't have them... he's just putting them on his wall because they're hot.

Just like you might think some celebrity is hot and you might think a calendar of him is hot. But that's the extent of it. You know you'll never be able to get him...

And it's his workshop! So who cares.

Just one of those things in life that isn't worth fighting over.


MzdiTzy
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I think it is normal for a guy to do it and I know how you feel my husband sometimes has models on his laptop, but i just learn to live with it. I have guys i fanatize about too so its even.


P1 Rubber Ducky
no cuz i know he is never going to meet them plus a lil fantasy never hurt anyone. plus they are models and even models get AIRBRUSHED.

he knows i have a crush on jason stathem (guy from death race)


Clementine
no, that's a typical guy thing. Poor guy, you gotta let him have some pieces of his balls left. I got pictures of Nascar drivers up, and he knows I fantasize of Dale Jr and Michael Waltrip. lol If he had picture of women he knows personally up, that would not happen.





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