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Would it make you mad if your husband....?

Refused to eat anything you made that had vegetables in it?

I worked very hard and made a delicious cottage pie for dinner last night. But, it had sweet peas and corn in it, so my husband refused to eat it. He threw a fit and asked my "why couldn't you make me a separate one without vegetables in it?"

I told him I'm not going to cook a special dinner for him, and then he told me "that's fine, it smells funny anyway." So, I took myself, my baby, and my dinner to my parents and we all ate it. They loved it and my dad actually had me write down the recipe for him.

Would this make you a little mad??
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wow...some of ya'll are kinda mean! lol My husband and I have a great relationship and he has eaten those exact veggies before. He just threw a fit for some reason and was yelling and being mean, so I went down the road to my parents house. I'm not going to stick around and get yelled at for no reason, sorry if you think I should have stayed and got yelled at.


    




Dolphin Dawn
It would make me extremely mad. Good call taking it to your family. Hopefully he learned something from the experience too


Vbonics
Yeah it would have annoyed the crap out of me...and I probably would have told him to grow up, stop acting like a bratty child, and cook his own damn food lol.


Smalls
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if he was my husband he would have vegetable laden cottage pie (still piping hot) slapped against the side of his head.


fchyenne
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yeah i'd be insulted..and iwouldn;t cook for him ever again
throw him a peanut butter sandwich tonight


Vixen
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O my goodness, yes.


opetke
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Very childish. Why did you marry this boy?


Hopeful For 2!
Sounds just like my husband....and I am leaving him!


Jin L
ahh yeah sounds like a jack***


Nikki
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it would, but if you know he hates anything with veggies why would you bother cooking those for him, just get him some frozen burger and wings and have him eat those and enjoy your home cooked meal by yourself.


Sinful Shelly
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His loss.


Bill C
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This sounds like a (lack of) maturity problem. Maybe he could cook for himself for a week or two. How is he at changing diapers? Feeding the baby? Cleaning up after himself?


smartypants909
Your husband is a spoiled brat and needs to grow up. He can eat it or go hungry.


Justice
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It's aggravating. I had an ex that ate like a 5 year old child. One day I finally threw his Mac and Cheese at him.


snowflake
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That makes me so mad.'

My husband is the same exact way -- he's so picky and hates almost all vegetables. I LOVE vegetables. I'm so sick of cooking for him because he never likes anything I make. The kids don't like what I cook, either. And I love to cook! So I cook for my parents and other friends and family members who appreciate what I make. Most of the time I let the kids and the hubby make their own food. It's not worth fighting about. They can have frozen pizzas and cold cereal if that's all they want. Meanwhile, I'll have my delicious homemade soups and whatever else I feel like eating.


charlie
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Ya?? tell him your not a restaurant?? He could have picked out the veggies?? His mom probably spoiled him when he was young and gave him everything he wanted. MOMS>>> Another lesson in raising your boys!! Stop catering to them. They can care for themselves. Tell him to eat out next time or he can cook the dinner.
HEY CURTIS>>> Your exactly right about theres other issues here. And it's exactley what I said here. The issue is >>HE'S A SPOILED BRAT THAT GOT HIS *** KISSED BY MOMMY DEAREST!!!!!!!!! It's his issues. Not hers.


Andrew G
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Yes you should be mad. You worked hard to provide him a meal and he acted like a child.

Seriously...he doesnt eat vegatables? He needs to fix that 3rd grade problem or start cooking his own meals. Plus that is very unhealthy.

Even if the food was horrible he should have eaten it and told you thank you...thats what a good husband does.


shortmama7j
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Tell him he can start doing the cooking and cleaning up then. What a big baby.


Bradley's MoM
The "smells funny anyway" would have pissed me off more than anything.


Nina Lee
My reply would have been, "cook for yourself then".
My husband refuses veggies too. Although, I've been trying to encourage him to eat at least some type of vegetable. Only b/c our children, after all, are watching and learning.
When I go to make my shopping list, I ask him want he wants to eat for the week. His reply is Always, "it doesn't matter" or "whatever you want to cook". Sooo, I've stopped trying to cater to him. If he wants something different, he can speak up or learn to cook.
I would be upset. But, try not to take it too personal. It's not like he doesn't like it b/c you cooked it, he doesn't like what's in it. I'm not a picky eater and even if I didn't care for something, I would have eaten it anyway. People like our husbands are a different story. Let them have their bowl of cereal instead. A great compromise is doing the meal-planning together.


Conflicted
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Yep. And he would be cooking for himself.


Meghan [Caleb + #2 due 10.3.09]
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Yeahhh that would've irked me since I took the time to make it. Luckily my husband will eat anything and everything... and would probably take 3rds even if it was burnt. If he did make a fuss about eating something though, I would've told him to make dinner for himself from now on, and since he can't even make toast without burning it, I think he'd take the hint to start shoveling food in his mouth :-) That sounds yummy though... myspace me the recipe if you get a chance!


blank
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Yes.Especially if I worked hard on it.I would not be makeing 2 dinners.


Victoria
My hubby will not eat anything with vegetables in it either! The only veggie he eats is corn. Sometimes it annoys me because i am very limited as to what I can make for dinner without having to make 2 dinners every night. All things considered, it really is not too big of a deal to me.

If my husband threw a fit like that and told me that the dinner I just cooked "smelled funny" and acted like a child... I would be furious


Nat ILF
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If someone did that to me then they would have ended up with dinner over their head or in their lap.
What a load of crap, I wouldn't cook anything for him for a few weeks.


Jillian
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Yes, I would be mad. Your husband is very immature. He sounds more like your child than your spouse! I used to hate vegetables too, but I learned to try different things when I was a teenager. He definitely has some growing up to do. I would continue cooking what you want to cook for yourself and your family. Tell him he can start learning to try new things or make his own meals. Be firm that you won't cater to him.


Stevebiggerthanaverage
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Hi

that's funny sounds like his Mommy made him eat his veggies one to many times . Tell him if he wants to be around to see his kids grow up he needs to eat his veggies

Steve


Ocimom
Sounds a little spoiled to me. Maybe he doesn't like veggies MIXED in with other foods but will eat them on the side. If he's that way - cater to him a bit. At least he'll eat veggies in another way.

Maybe ask him how he would like his meals?





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