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Would like to be with a women so should I?

have an affair with a women? I would love for my husband to be involved with this, but he actually said he has no interest in seeing me with a women. What should I do?
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Thanks for being so candid everybody. I appreciate it.


    




jc3
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Stay with your husband and put a end with that girl.You are gonna end up ruin your marriage.Respect your husband and remember. you don't know what you got until you lose it.


nonameblonde
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Respect his wishes. You are married.


cute_cuddly_tyger
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Stick with your marriage and keep that as a fantasy. You're gonna end up ruining your marriage


Sean C
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Keep it as a fantasy, don't betray your husband. That's the moral and right thing to do.

But you already know this.


I SHOPLIFT THE POOTY!!!!!!!
Honor and respect the wishes of your husband!


Precious
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Either divorce your husband to engage in lust-induced perversion, or stay with him and forget about women.


Blackwidow
It's still cheating even if it's with another woman. Your husband's feeling should be more important to you than that!


baby_love_marybeth
ur obviously not happy in ur marriage, so let your husband go, instead of doing something he wishes to not see done, hes ur husband, u should respect him.


TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE!
whats more important?????????


Carly t
BIG NO NO!


ROCKSTAR
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you have to make that decision. Would you rather have an affair with a woman and ruin your mariage or stay with the person who loves you? You definatly can't do both!


Audrean L
be faithful to ur man,and get that other trash fantasy out of ur mind.


Just Me
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Ok well if he fancies a newer younger model , that ok? It makes no difference if you are with a man or woman it is still cheating!!!! Grow up and respect your vows!


xxkittenluvxx143
All you can do is voice your oppinions. Try starting with videos and stuff. escalate to where you would like it to go from there. If he is honestly really against it then you then have to decide if being with a woman is worth risking your marriage. If so then I would tell you that you shouldn't be married at all.


Kitten Toes
No you shouldn't have an affair. Did you not take vows to keep only unto your husband for the rest of your life? Cheating is wrong no matter how you cut it.


Shibby
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Don't ruin your marriage. discuss your feelings with your husband, if he still says no then respect that don't do anything drastic


Holly S
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leave your husband he doesnt deserve infidelity!!!!


Jem_Pemedy
If you would like to be with a woman- be with a woman. But you should have the decency to respect your husband and marriage by not cheating on him. If you love your husband, I'm sure your desire to be with a woman can be surpressed. If not, leave him and do as you please. But don't whilst your'e married, thats just unfair.


Amilia
If you love your husband why the hell would you want to do this anyways. If you are willing to ruin your relationship go for it. This seems awfully selfish


Lela A
do you believe in faithfulness in your marriage? Why are you married if you want to be with another woman?


Thomas
You will get an STD. You will then infect your husband. Consequently, he will know about the affair. Then, your marriage will be ruined.


Why not me
Well if you truly love your husband. You'll respect him & the decision he has made.


theee princess
ew.

Read the bible


i am what i am
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ewwwy
thts gross


perfectlybaked
As outlandish as it may sound, the day you exchanged vows you entered into a relationship contract with your husband, recognized even by the state. This contract restricts the company you keep to just him, even if the prospective other is a woman.

Still, people break this contract all the time, so it wouldn't be that much of a fallout.


inoffensive nickname
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It depends... do you have his permission to pursue this on your own? If not, keep it in your fantasies. If he doesn't express an opinion either way, take it as cautious permission, or get clarification before moving forward.

Women can be wonderful and a lot of fun to be with.


Sacredfaerie
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um, why did you get married if you are already looking to cheat on him? You obviously dont love him or you would not be exploiting your personal problems on here.


☺☻Good Looking Nerd ☺☻
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Both of u agree or not all...............if u aint agreein with this.......tell him its another guy instead den lol i think he'll choose da gal den.!





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