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jezbnme
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well i am pretty sure if you can't get someone based on your personality and what you have to offer then a mail order bride might be your only option. a "fat chick" is also looking for someone with personality and someone to love them for who they are and that can bring something to the relationship. that is not you. so scratch the "fat chick" off your list. go for someone who does not care who they marry as long as they get what they need. ie rich or citizenship |
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j3nny3lf
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Speaking as a "fat chick" who's been married three times to pretty handsome men, I find it hilarious that you think that just because we wear a larger dress size than average, we would thus be reduced to not having any choice whatsoever when it comes to men.
Try developing your personality, dude. An ugly face is not a problem. An ugly, pre-judgemental personality? That is a major hurdle in finding happiness.
As the old saying goes: I may be fat, but you're stupid. And I can diet. |
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lee f
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Someone fat could have a better out look then youdo, they may want nothing to do with you neither, also they are capable of loosing weight. The way you worded yourself you sound ugly inside. If you can alter your heart, mind and soul, even you can be blessed with a companion. |
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borogailybev
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I'm in no way a feminist but...................
Get a mail order bride by all means but........why the hell do you think you could get 'a fat chick' anyway? No wonder no females like you - as for moving to a poorer country - the women may be desperate for a better life but surely not so desperate as to think a man considering getting 'a fat chick' or a woman from 'a poorer country' would be a good catch. Christ - move into the 21st century chauvinist.
P.S. If you've only posted this question to wind up females - well done, put it on your C.V. son, I'm sure it'll impress people.....not. |
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Poppet
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Sorry your going to be all alone for the rest of your existence. Even fat chicks have standards and you don't qualify. |
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the questioner
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gotta have some more confidence
actually, A LOT more confidence.
go throw yourself out there.
you'd be suprised how many girls may find you interesting.
dont worry about rejection. it happens all the time. just brush it off and move on.
GO FOR IT.
YOU'VE GOT NOTHING TO LOSE. |
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emtb9
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Aww, so sad... your not very good looking, and your a dumb *** as well... |
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Jane Marple
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Very funny. Beauty doesn't make a man attractive but his personality and the confidence he`s got in himself. Clean up your act a bit, new wardrobe, clean cut hairstyle, fix your teeth and smile. |
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houstonpackard
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Take the Dale Carnegie course in "How to Win Friends and Influence People" In other words my friend if you are a nerd, dangle visions of your Microsoft future in front of her gleaming eyes and that way you will get a wider choice or at least a life. |
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ursie_loves_music
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just cause someone is fat dosen't mean they will eaisily date you.try online dating and only post really good pictures online. |
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whatchagonnado
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Try getting a life. |
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Jeni W
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sounds to me you are setting you standards way to high
and whats to say all fat chick a re ugly anyway
you need to grow up
and look for more than jsut looks
besides beauty is in the eye of the beholder
but with the way you have posed this question I dont think a fat chick or a mail bride would hang around with you for long
looks like it just you and your hand |
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Lillian Jayne&Maddisun Rayne
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if a girl wont like u for ur "bad looks" then she aint worth it. Some ladys should be understanding of that and most of them wont even care. Personally i look at their Personnality and other traits. You shouldnt be self conscious about this. Try to be More outgoing. |
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A.Carter
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Your Mean Thats Why You Have Ta Look, BE YOURSELF.I
I Wouldn't Want to TALK to You EITHER. Fix your look!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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donald m. c.
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just dont worry about it , its kinda like when you lose your keys and never find them until you stop looking . |
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Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol
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Don't give up. There is somebody for everyone. Just stop trying so hard and someone will come to you. I know plenty of married men that I think are plain ugly. Just don't try as hard and before you know it women will start liking you, or if you don't like to wait sign up for a dating service over the net. |
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what did you say
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with that attiude you will never get married anyway |
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Driver's_Seat
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Gain some self-confidence first. You're not ready to get married if you think you have to buy a wife or settle for someone that you don't like.
People who consider themselves good looking sometimes have difficulty meeting people as well. It's usually a confidence issue more than looks. Find what you like about yourself first.
Also, you're lucky because many women are concerned less with looks and more with other things that a guy has to offer. Show people why you have a lot to offer even if your looks aren't the best. |
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jamibrothers
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Try an online dating service...or quit being so worried about it, love happens when you're not looking for it. |
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Steven's Love
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What makes you think that a fat girl would like you too? Just because they are fat doesn't meant that they have low standards. Plus big girls need to be treated like a lady too. You should really grow up and get a life. Why don't you start by liking yourself first then maybe you can get a girl. If you sit there and insist you are ugly and won't get a girl then you won't. |
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Greywolf
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Ahem... there is only ONE reason to get married and that is that you want to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE with the person that you love. There is NO OTHER REASON. To get married just because you want to be married makes no sense whatsoever. Why subject yourself to a lifetime with someone that you do not love? Worse still, why subject someone else to a lifetime with you when you don't really love them? When you get married, it is not an easy thing to undo once you've committed yourself and the papers are signed. You could be subjecting yourself to all kinds of legal wrangles not to mention the pain and suffering that you'd be inflicting on someone who thought that you truly loved them, that you believed in them and that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with them.
In my humble opinion (and I don't care if this hurts your feelings or not because I think you need to take a reality pill here), I think you should speak to a counselor about your obvious insecurity issues. There is always someone out there for everyone and it will happen when it is supposed to happen - why ruin your own and someone else's life just because you are impatient. Trust me you'll get where you want to be soon enough and be warned - be careful what you wish for... ...you might just get it!!! |
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bite me
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PRAY. |
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secret
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come on!
if you dont have faith in yourself then how are you supposed to expect someone else to like you?
dont' order a bride from mail...?wtf
you should find someone who loves you for who you are.
if your scared to meet someone then you should chat with some ladies and find out if they match with your personality. dont let them see you until you actually meet them. that way you will know if that women loves you for who you are, not for the way you do or dont look.
Best of luck! |
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canud1g!t
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It is not the packaging that counts but what is on the inside. If you cannot accept that in yourself then you cannot expect others to accept it either. Sometimes it is our attitudes that hold us back. Maybe it is time to take a good look at yourself. |
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I do 26.2
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Why do you think fat chicks would want you?
You should order the bride instead. |
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sereena
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Hi
That is really very sad, but not all is lost as I had a very good friend of mine who is now married and her face is disfigured.
If you really feel that u are to ugly for anyone to love then I suggest that you seek some one that you can talk to about how you feel. (friend, family member, doctor or other person that is their to help you)
As I don't know what you look like I cannot really say what you can do to improve your appearance so as to encourage female attention.
If you think getting a mail order bride or a larger female person to be in a relationship with you is the answer, then you need to ask your self if you would be willing to live with that individual.
Would this make you happy, to not be alone?
Aroha (love) to you and I hope you do find someone that loves you!
Take care...
Sereena |
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piano teacher
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Hmmmm...... I think you have it a little backwards here. You don't hunt for a girl because you want to get married. You get married because you found the right girl. And when you find the right girl, she'll be totally attracted to you. |
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Christina S
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Try looking in better places for good women |
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Sylvia C
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Having read your question, I'm not at all sure that your looks are your main problem. Sorry, but I don't think you're either old enough or mature enough for the responsibilities and commitment that come with marriage. |
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