Would most men leave their women when things got tough?

beacon of wisdom

i would want my woman to tell me if she had issues, i would never leave in a million years unless they were actually psychiatric like she has killed someone and burried the carcus in the woods somewhere. so no i would not leave them, its what loves about baby, its all about sticking with a person regardless of their problems, as your marriage speech shows, 'in sickness and in health' be it mental or physical sickness.

cheers also i hate george bush

James aka Mc. Lovin

No, cause i been through some pretty tough times with my girl. She's pregnant and she's bipolar but i still stick by her side no matter what.

C.B

Never, I promised to be there till the end.

radio80flyer

No, but the boys would.

bradxschuman

No...some may, but not "most"...we're not ALL that shallow.

Marra's mommy

If they are truly in love with her than they wouldn't imagine leaving the woman they love at the time she will need him the most.

thebear

you take the rough with the smooth. If my fella left me for something I have little control of, I'd consider him a waste of my time and love

if they truely loved them then no. but true love is a loose phrase

brians girl

not a stong man. if he leaves you for that.. good. get a real one

Foo

I sometimes leave her alone for a bit to cool off if she's in a bit of a tizz, just by moving to the bedroom for a bit, but wild horses couldn't break us up.

seiten taisei

if he loves her then no

LAURIE S

alot of girls are attracted to men who treat them like ****

aussiegirl_aka_shygirl

Only the shallow ones....

Mrs.G-unit

If a bf or a husband leaves their woman for something like that than the woman needs to get on her knees and thank GOD he left. Bc that is an idiot!

babygurl

I'm a woman, but i can speak for my husband. He has made it through 2 pregnacy with me. So no i don't think he would leave when things get tough. My first pregnacy was horrible. I was sick all the time, therefore making me very ill and grouchy. I fussed about EVERYTHING. I knew that then, but couldn't stop it. My body was going all wacky i was depressed some. I just took everything out on him, now i think he made it a little worse not knowing what to do because he would just fuss back at me and i would end up crying for hours. (aren't hormones just nice). By the time i got pregnant with my second he had learned about all that, if i started fussing about small things he would just say ok, i don't want to argue or just calm down sweetie its all ok i promise. Some men do leave when it gets tough, but to me that makes them less of a man. If you're married the vows say for better or worse.

Planet

Not if they love them and they get educated about hormonal women so they understand what is going on, and the women are smart enough to apologize afterwards when they act unreasonable due to hormonal flexes.

Kevin N

No I wouldn't. the tough times are the true test of a relationship. if you come through them with more love and understanding for eachother then you are going to be together for ever

Rebelfrog

If a man leaves for that reason he shouldn't have been married to begin with. When in love A Real man stays and works through the toughest of times. You have to give it a fair shot. Only cowards up and walk away for ridiculous reason.

PoPtArT

Im sure most men have left when things got tough, but im also sure most women have too

ndnqt1966

Not real men who love their wife and are commited to the marriage..... Pretty shallow of a man to leave his wife because of pms or her going through the changes....

andie

Because a lot of men do not know how to deal with stressful situations. They aren't like women. When we are angry we cry it out, write in journals, tell our close friends or family member or we are vocal about things that bother us.

Whereas men, are not always taught how to deal with problems. They get frustrated and they want to walk away because it is seen as a sign of weakness to do what we do to deal. Some men are so hard hearted and arrogant that they honestly just don't want to deal.

Men like the one you are describing is a coward. He may have that silly mentality of "I don't have to deal with this". They are sometimes wired to think that all women are perfect at all times which could, in a dream world, make their lives easier.

If this happens to you then let him go.

arts8866

just cant deal with the crazy and Wilde mood swings.
i.e. yelling, screaming, cruising, being abusive just cause she can. and use this as an excuse
O, by the way 25 years 1 woman

elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom

because those men are weak cowards! that's why!

bee bee

cos they are just uncareing

Automation Wizard

Married men deal with the moods of our wives all the time. On a month to month basis for most of us. Some go through 9 months of hell during pregnancy. If most men left their wife over this, the divorce rate would be over 90%

On the other hand, there are many people (male and female) who present themselves as someone they are not during dating. I would guess that the "most men" you refer to are those who concluded they were not married to the woman they fell in love with. There is a big difference between overlooking things your spouse does on a temporary basis and overlooking things your spouse does on a regular basis. If there is no quality time, then a man might get the impression that he is stuck in a marriage of convenience rather than one which will fill his emotional needs.

SHORTY22

they won't the will still be there but pretend to be helping....went they start lieing making u believe that every thing going be ok ,went the are cheating ,but only *** to see u went the in the need,just to show that the care,will call u for name sake and telling u make believe story.....

Lale

if a guy is gonna leave his "love" then hes a loser anyways. My hubby stood by me when I had to take medicine that made me the meanest ***** around... so if a guy was to leave a chick whenever she got her period or was moody, guys wouldnt be with chicks. this is a lame question.

Huge

Generally only if they can see no light at the end of the tunnel (i.e. things getting better) and they know they can do better.

aneil

most men were taught to be that way

Like My New Hat?

I will always stay if I think she is trying. I wouldn't be in the relationship if I rean everytime I the going got tough. With that being said, if the problem is that she's not putting any effort in, I don't want to be the only one trying. I know we all have our good days and bad days but if she can't even take the time to say she appreciates me working with her (even if she doesn't have the strength to work on it alot), I'd leave. I just need the minimum effort to know she's not just taking advantage of my effort to be fine. If she stops trying, I'm done.

im not that innocent

I hope not.

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