Would this be wrong...?

Queen of Beer

If you feel there is nothing wrong with it, you would be able to tell your wife about it.

IndyGirl

You KNOW your wife would pour that boiling hot coffee right on your junk.
Would THAT be wrong?
You ALSO know its not just a *social outlet*... nice try, Kiddo.
xoxoxoxo

Bibi

it doesn't matter if there is no attraction your wife should know about it I mean put yourself in her shoes would you like it if your wife was having coffee with one of her customers and not tell you about it

Complicated

She sounds insecure, and immature. People who can't trust are telling you something about themselves, don't you think?

bearsbullsfan

if you haven't or can't tell your wife about it, then you probably shouldn't be doing it. unconciously, you like the attention from another woman, whether you admit it or not. all men do, whether there's an attraction or not. my general rule is, if I wouldn't do it with my wife watching, I shouldn't be doing it.

Norman W

Your going to get physical you just don't it yet.
Other wise you would not avoid telling your wife
about it.
Your BSing Her and yourself.

kpopp

Why don't you tell her about it and ask her? The moment you bring this meeting into the open, it's not an affair. Check out my source.

Ms. GTO

If you wouldn't have coffee with the friend while your wife went along, then it's inappropriate.

Captain S

The fact that it's a secret kept from your wife makes it wrong. Give her the benefit of doubt and tell her what you've been doing. She may surprise you.

killinshel

You play w/ fire..You get burned. Lying to your wife is a form of cheating. And I'm sure your wife would be very hurt and upset, and have MANY questions for you if and when she is to find out. Sad that you keep secrets from your wife, the ONE woman that should be your best friend!

Johnny

Busines is business

Petunia

Tell your wife before she finds out. It's nothing, right!
So be truthful and tell her, invite her along and then there is no animosity between yous.

John Muirs Ghost

I think you should be honest with your wife and tell her. The fact that you haven't makes me wonder.

Tricia G

The fact that you are keeping it a secret from your wife makes it wrong. If you want a social outlet, invite a third person to join you each week. That way, you put your marriage less at risk.

NDmom

wow........ If it was my man and I found out the s@#$ would so
hit the fan.Come on it's only natural 1st you lied held info that should have been told from day one. If the shoe was on the other foot how would you feel?

I would tell her ASAP you might want to bring her with. If she asked you to stop seeing her would you? The doubt will be there cause you lied kept a secret.
Good luck

i8pikachu

This sounds simply like business but the fact that you bring this up makes it seem like you actually are attracted to this woman. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to someone, even your wife no doubt finds other men attractive, but acting on these attractions is the problem. Instead, don't put yourself in a position to be around this woman anymore or control your attraction and spend the energy on your wife. When you get home, give her a big kiss and take her to the bedroom.

naenae37

you would be right, but if she is only a friend you should let her and your wife meet. but be careful this could easily turn into something more. watch for the signs.

Happy-2

If this isn't a case of "what she doesn't know won't hurt her," I don't know what is.

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