Would u lie?

ld123

No I wouldn't lie, but the trick is to get your significant other to realize that there is no other choice and get them to decide to borrow from them.

â™¥ Shell â™¥

I would talk to my husband BEFORE borrowing the money - explain the sitution and if he disagrees, ask him for an alternative solution you could both live with.

Rachel M

If your husband wouldn't want to borrow money from someone he doesn't like, chances are you both don't need the money that bad. Lying is never good and it will only be something you will always have to keep from him. You'll regret it.

Royalhinney

Nope, I wouldn't do it. It would be a constant strain on me...knowing that I did something that he wouldn't have approved of.

BabeHeart

I'm VERY anti-money borrowing. I'd deliver pizzas as a 2nd job or sell some of my belongings before I'd be comfy borrowing money from an individual (more than a few bucks).

As for this scenario, I'm not into the bad karma of lying so hopefully my partner would be kewl with whomever the money was borrowed from...especially if he had no better suggestions himself.

hogue_amanda

David in Madison

No. You start with the little things, and when your significant other finds out, they simply can't trust you with the big things. Don't even get started with this.

engineer46526

I think it would be wrong to do that. I think your other half needs to be involved with it, and both of ou make the decision no matter where it comes from.

Justforfun

No I would not do it. Only because I would be so mad if they lied to me!

nurse ratchet

I would not lie. If I needed to borrow money, I would borrow it from someone that I do not have to hide from my partner/mate.

By the way, there are always strings when you loan money to someone. Money changes everything.

â™¥Ti Amoâ™¥

Well I have actually been in that kind of situation and my husband hated the person that could loan me the money and he never knew about it and I think that if you need it, you should borrow the cash. I would do the same thing if I had to do it over again

poryk5

well i think u know the answer to that...

If you have to lie, and go behind someones back, then you know your doing something wrong.

NAN G

I would do what I had to do.

Say

I would never lie to my hubby bubby.... he is my other half and everything I do he is aware of and vise versa....that is love!

Rein

I wouldn't do that to him. That would be wrong, it would change him in my eyes and make him look like a fool in the eyes of who ever i borrowed it from. I love him and never want him compromised in any way.

lonewolf

Tanyah, If I weren"t married sure, priorities !! If married no, "two becomes one flesh"so I could not !

kat

I wouldn't lie. If we really needed the money, I would just tell him that that was our only option. I bet there really are some strings attached. Why does your husband not like this person? The fact that you are even considering this is a red flag that your marriage is in trouble . Marriage should be based on trust, not lies.

crazylegs

Tanyah, I would most certainly be honest with my partner. If I was to embellish or not be 100% over this situation and get away with it, then it would make it much easier to lie again in the future and feel like I got away with it once so maybe again. Besides personally I would have a problem just talking with her as it would be eating me up inside knowing that I did something behind her back that I know dam well she would not approve of or be comfortable with. Perhaps I am just too honest a guy or getting to old to lie but I know if the shoe were reversed I wouldn't be happy if she was to try and do something like that behind my back. Just one old guys opinion on honesty in relationships.

harold

Yes, i would lie if it meant paying the bills and keeping a roof over our head.

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i would lie..but i would hope my boyfriend wouldnt do it

You cant borrow that money with interest for years and it not be found out.

ndnqt1966

No...would rather scratch my eyes out then to borrow from anyone and lie to my husband about it.

lonelygirl

i would take the money, only because im in a rocky relationship right now. u do have a point on interest but i mean if ur other cant give you the money u need ,well u got to get it somehow right

Gary A

borrow only if you can pay back!!

Joshua B

Nope. Everything is an open book in my marriage.

â™ªâ™«Jay is Sexyâ™ªâ™«

Well.. assuming that I could not get the money from anyone else including the bank and a old friend that was not liked my by other wanted to give me the money I would take it.

And I would let my spouse do the same if I could not do it.

The bottom line the person I love is getting the help they need. And if anyone has something to say about it without saying "here you go take this from me"! Is just being selfish.

oh_jo123

I would discuss all the factors with my husband before accepting the money ( I lied once and that only got me farther in debt in the long run )

Computer Tech Mike

you have to be honest with your significant other.

jimmy.parker06

i would lie if it saved a life.

Kevin L.

No, that is asking for trouble. Look at the questions and answers here in the relationship categories. Most of the problems people have with their partners begin with dishonesty or secrecy, and it can be tremendously hurtful and destructive. Be honest, even when others can not, will not or are not.

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