Would you be FURIOUS? What would you do?

Low Contributor

Tell him u will race for the car.

No drifting allowed.

acmeraven

Get an attorney, file for divorce, and, take his car and everything else he has. Get a hungry shark like lawyer and chew him up three ways from sunday.

Lynn

If your name is on the car title too then you have every right to the car. Or if it hasnt been decided in the courts that he would keep the car.

Mr. Taco

Easy. Call an attorney. You owe it to your children to make sure your husband (hopefully soon to be EX husband if he isn't already) provides for them in every way he can, and an attorney is the best way to do that. That may well mean retrieval of the car, but don't do it on your own. You may not be as legal to just go get it as you think. Even if you don't get the car, you should at least be getting some cash. If he can afford a luxury car, he can afford to support his children. Call an attorney. Good luck!

laura D

If it is truly legal, go get it! Then, sell it really quick!

I luv my kids

Make an appointment with an attorney. They usually will do the first consult/ appointment for free. Ask all the questions you have during that appointment.

Luck Be A Lady

I think you need to ask your attorney to intervene and petition the court to order him to give you one of the cars.

caleb r

i would slap him silly

ndnqt1966

Get the car then get a lawyer. What an azzhole!

seekingknowledge2

Get an attorney and get everything from him that you can. Don't let this slime control you. Make him suffer financially.

mjmayer188

Hire a lawyer!

housewives5

Who's name is the car in? If it is in just his name, then no you can not legally go get it!! They will charge you with auto theft!! Take him to court and sue for a car and child support!!

Cristi H

I think you are better off without him. Leave the car, as much as you want to get it. Let him lie in the "new bed" he's made himself, you go on and have a great life without him.!

hollybear

Go get the damn car, its yours too!

Pam

You are definately better off. I would leave the car and forget about him.

Scotty H

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Prove that he is an unfit parent, divorce him, then sue him.

Also, you should go get the car. It's rightfully yours and thinking that you have any idea what God wants or is trying to teach you is Madness. We are mortals. To even think for a second that we know what God is intending for our day to day lies is popostorous. Get the car for your kids.

bill l

HAMMER THAT AZZHOLE!!..take him to court..they will knock him into next week.If you can't afford a an attorney,go to your nearest welfare dept.they will help you.He's gonna get hammered.Don't ask another question like this again without trying to do something first or i will come looking for both of you.One to beat his azz!!,and 2 to chew yours for not doing something.I hate guys like that,reminds me of my dad when he walked out on my mom when we were kids.

To The Point

Go get the car! Screw him!!

basketcase88

I would bring this up with your lawyer, and address it in the property settlement. I wouldn't just go and get the car--after all, you have transportation, right? Wait for the legal property settlement, don't take things into your own hands, as tempting as it sounds. Don't lower yourself to his level, it's not worth it in the long run.

I'm so sorry for everything you're going through. I wish you and your children the best of luck during this difficult time.

Shy Girl S

I agree with the first two here....go get the car. If anything, you could always sell the one you have and get some extra money for the kids...

You're right though, you are better off without him.

mktobyjo

Yes, I would be furious!

Is the car in your name? If it is, report it stolen. And mention you know where it is!

If you "steal" the car back, that's going to reflect bad on you. You don't need anything held against you by this ***. And I promise, he will hold that over your head if you take that car back.

So report it stolen if it's in your name.

~ â™¥ ~

Take the Car!!!!!!( would be nice)......ok no seriously Since you have to set an example for the kids act with class & Wait till your divorce proceedings and get it back legally.

would be nice to scerw him over but don't worry, beleive in Karma!

Pink Cowgirl

I would love to say go get the car, but I can bet that he would just turn around and come get it back and then you guys would be doing the back and forth thing with the car.

I would just make sure to ask for anything you feel you deserve in the divorce and make sure he pays child support and then move on with your life. If there is such a thing as Karma, she will end up cheating on him.

Switch

If legally you could do it, then I would follow them out somewhere like the mall. And move the car while they were inside. Dont take it home! Just move it to another location. That way when they report it stolen you wont be caught with it. And they will be left with no ride!

Magaroni

I think if you go get the car, it will start a war. I'd choose your battles. Since you already bought yourself another car, what good does it really do you to have that one <right now>? I'd say wait for the divorce settlement, and be sure to bring the car issue up in court. I'm guessing that the judge won't like your husband's decision at all, and will award you/punish him accordingly. Believe me, that will taste MUCH sweeter.

lyricshade2003

Do not just go and take this car.

If you are intent on reclaiming the vehicle, you need to take proper steps to secure the vehicle and not put yourself at any potential risk for arrest. You have more than just yourself to worry about and just because you think you know what the community property laws are doesn't mean you couldn't create a lot more trouble for yourself than it is worth if you do anything to acquire this car that isn't through proper channels and authority.

call the police and go get your car...... they should not be depriving you and your kids due to the fact they have no morals,values, and do not respect the institution of marriage....

i know it all!

i would get a temporary child and spousal support hearing in court. The judge will set his butt straight on what his responsibilities are until your divorce is final.

SubJ

Forget about him and his assets asap.

abby

I would get an attorney with the biggest dorsal fin that you can find and let him go to town. I wouldn't even give this loser the time of day anymore, if there is any contact that needs to be made b/w you and him - make him go thru your attorney. Document everything and you will get what you deserve. UGH. Sorry you are going thru this - Just stand strong and know that you are ssooooooo much better off without him - if he can do this to you and your kids, then he is going to get what is coming to him.

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