Would you be suspicious if......?

LOFTY

SWEETHEART, TRY AND IGNORE JEANNE J, SHE FRIGHTENED ME, AND ITS NOT EVEN MY QUESTION!

YES I WOULD BE VERY SUS. UNLESS HE IS VERY CONSIDERATE, AND HES DONE IT SINCE DAY 1, TO ENSURE YOUR 'TOGETHER TIME' IS NOT DISTURBED.

WHEN MY X-WIFE WAS WASHING HER CAR, I INTERRORGATED HER PHONE, WHICH REVEALED THE SEED THAT EVENTUALLY SHOWED SHE WAS PLAYING AWAY. MIND YOU, IM GLAD I DID IT, SHE WAS SO CALCULATING, SHE'D NEVER HAVE TOLD ME.

IF YOU DO HAVE A LOOK AT HIS PHONE, HE MAY HAVE BEEN CLEVER TO DELETE ALL THE 'INS' AND THE 'SENTS', BUT CHECK HIS PHONEBOOK. HES BOUND TO HAVE A 'NAME' FOR THE PERSON SOMEWHERE IN THERE. IF YOU KNOW HIM AND HIS CONTACTS VERY WELL, IT MAY STAND OUT.

GOOD LUCK. X

dsclimb1

yeah, or perhaps he is justing saving battery life, tell him yours is dead and can you borrow his to text a friend??

gina

very. i went out with a married man for a while and whenever he went in to his house he would turn his phone off

â™¥Lexiâ™¥

Sorry to say this but yes, Why does he feel the need to keep it of? If he has nothing to hide he wouldnt go through the trouble of having to turn it of would he. If i was you, whilst he was asleep i would look at it. But that probably isnt the right thing to do! Just ask him outright!!

Laura Lou

If he'd just started doing it i.e. alwasy left it off before then yes. why don't you ask him why he's started switching it off?

My name's MUD

Erm yes a bit! I would if their habits had changed.

If I were thinking of doing anything suspicious I'd simply buy another phone and keep it hidden away...

Mary

No, unless its recent changes. Mobile phone or emails is a personal thing and we respect very much on privacy.

uniquechild

By saying partner, I assume you are not married and the fact that you are suspicious of him indicates that you are a very insecure lady with a problem with jealousy and this would sadly be the result of living together. WHen people live together, there is no certainty that one might jsut up and leave. There is no accountability, all the more reason why the Bible says you must be married. MArriage is secure and the fact that you are committed to each other means that neither would even think about leaving the other unless the marriage lacks love from the husband to the wife and respect from the wife to the husband.

My angel this will continue unless you are married and sadly if you have the thoughts that you have towards him now, i would suggest you either end the relationship or marry but living in limbo is not helping things. All you are is a second hand wife.
You deserve better.

I would not be suspicious in fact I would rather see it as he prefers to remain home in the evenings alone with you undisturbed.

Clearly you have a problem and I would deal with it before the root of jealousy gets too deep and destroys everything.

I hope you make the right choice and soon.

tenchian56

if you trust him whats the problem? if you don,t ask him about it. im sure you,re worrying over nothing

Scooter

Mine does that all the time, he only turns it on when not home or outside just in case I need him, the reason why he does it is because he hates talking on the phone and if anyone really needs to get ahold of them they can call the house or my cell and reach him through me, he never answers the home phone or my cell I would not worry about that one

Trendy

Only if he suddenly started to turn it off. My ex never did until he found someone else, then the mobile phone started to disappear from my sight.

yes

anney

That depends really, if its something hes started doing different then, maybe yes, if it's something that he's always done then no, he might just want to be left alone by outsiders, anyone important will have the land line number , if you have one.... Has your relationship changed??? If yes, then
If you can, what i would do is, wait until he goes the loo and turn it on,
if you can't and it's pass-worded then ask him for the password, tell him you want to look at something,
just make something up.. If he's defencive and moody as to why,ask why he has such a big problem with you looking at his phone and is he hiding something, I'm afraid if it's bothering you, then you gotta ask him out right really or try and do what i would do!!!!! Good luck!

carolyn_4981

I dunno, maybe he just wants peace and quiet, you would be more suspicious if he was texting and not letting you see, and making random whispering phonecalls! Next time your out, try and sneak a peek!

kaeylarae

definately would...happened to me..watch out for him leaving it around..switch it on and if multiple texts are deleted then hes up 2 something..take it from someone who knows honey
kaeylarae xx

Well no I wouldn't

Danru

Yes - although maybe he swtiches it off cause he knows noone will call him and if they do, it will be on the landline or he doesn't want to be disturbed.

â™¥gigiâ™¥

only if he use to keep it on before

Lydia

Teddy Bear

Maybe. You should trust him. Maybe he feels he's in for the night and doesn't want to be bothered any longer now that he's home. If you are really curious, turn it on when he's asleep and check the missed calls. I don't think you have any worries though.

tiny_lou1965

yes i would... especially if he used to have it switched on in before..
but you know men.. they aren't that clever?

samantha l

not at all honey you should trust your man unless he has given you a good reason not to this isnt one he might just not want any one to disturb him at home i know cause i am in sales and take calls all day so when i go home i turn my phone off just because i dont want to get numerous calls when i am going to chill out if this is really bothering you speak to him about it but approach it gently dont just jump in and tell him you dont trust him tell him its you own insecuritys he will understand and probably stop doing it to put you at ease good luck honey hope it works out for you xx

lily_shaine

not really,he is probably just saving battery power

dianesomeone

perhaps....

DIANNE ANGEL

yes,it can be suspicious!because there's no reason why he needs to switch off his phone when he comes home...you must find out why though.

g.m

i would be more suspicious if it was left on and they left the room to take calls

anis118030

no.it might be for other reason also

Kitty

How would I even know it was off? It's never even occured to me to check his phone!

fabrat1

I do because when I'm home, my wife is home and she's the only one that calls me. Plus it saves the battery. My girlfriend knows to never call me on the cell. too traceable.

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