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Would you choose family or husband?
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My mom makes me feel bad for living with my husband and not with her my dad and little brother....is she wrong or am I wrong? She says "I must be with him because she doesnt make me happy. He treats me perfectly and we rarely argue she has nothing against him, he even helped my parents pay their mortgage so whats the problem?
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Tabo
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Husband! lol
I knew he was for me and I won't let anyone (not even family) disrespect the love of my life.
You mom just has to understand that you took vows and created a new family...and as long as your husband doesn't seperate you from your family (it sounds like he's increadable supportive) then there's nothing wrong. Your mom probably just wasn't ready to let you go. Explain you'll always need her but, you are now with your husband and you want to start a life with him....offer to visit often.
It sounds like there's more to the issue here than you've mentioned?
Good luck with your family...your mom will come around. |
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ļ¬ļ¬ļ kriskhat ļ¬ļ¬
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you're not wrong for choosing to live with your husband. i think your mom's just a little jealous and you can't blame her for that. i think i would also feel the same way when the time would come that my daughters would have to leave me for their husbands... anyway, just give her time. she will eventually understand your decision. in the meantime, try to spend some quality time with her every once in a while and let her feel your love for her and the rest of the family to let her realize that choosing your husband doesn't necessarily mean that you're turning your back on them. |
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Monsieur Rick
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Your husband, after you always comes first. |
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charlesjerrell
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ur mom is wrong ur place is with ur husband as long as there is no abuse and u guys are happy |
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Bittersweet
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you're married so of course you have to live with your husband. He comes first, before other family members. You're not a child anymore, i don't understand why your parents think you have to live with them. Maybe you should go visit your parents more? |
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Silenceā¢
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Your mother needs to grow up. She's too old for that nonsense. |
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Bonita
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WELL UR MOM IS WRONG NO EFFENSE LOL SHE KNOWS DAT U HAVE TO GROW SOONER OR LATER AND MAKE UR OWN LIFE.. |
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massiel248
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your husband. your mom should know better. respect your husband. |
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butterfly_girl20062000
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i dont think you are wrong at all i think she is you should live with your husbend she just isnt ready to fully let you go yet, stay with the man you love trust me its time for your mom to let go |
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Tonya A
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When you married your husband the two of you became one. your mother knows how marriage works. Love you mother but your husband comes first. Mom need to get a life. |
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teenie
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If your husband is treating you good and you love him you stay with the man you married. Mom will work it out in her own time. |
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SmallTownGirl
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Your mother is definatly in the wrong here. There is nothing wrong with you living with your clearly generous and loving husband. You need to make your mother aware that guilting or bullying you into moving back into your family's home is not going to work, and that all doing so is going to do is cause strain on your relationship with her. In my culture (Southwestern Ontario, Canada) couples do not live in their families homes at all. Many people are living together out of wedlock (like my boyfriend and myself) even. I hope that you and your mother can find a peaceful way to resolve this issue...but until then, do not feel like you are betraying your family in anyway by living with your husband and not them. I don't know about your culture, but in mine, it is completely common and normal. |
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Pickleheaded possum
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Your mother is the problem because even though she looks like a grown-up she acts like a 2 year old. Remind her that she lived with HER husband & not her mommy & daddy when she got married. She sounds very spoiled, like all attention must be on her the whole time. |
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cs
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Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.- Genisis 2:24
You are your own family now so you should put him first always. Your mom may just be missing you or may have some dependancy needs towards you. either way putting your husband first is correct so don't feel guilty about it and over time your mother will come around. |
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here are a few reasons
a- your mom must've lived with her parents when she got married.
b-your mom is still very much attached to you.
c-she may have her own beliefs regarding marriage
d-due to strog attachements, she feels that you wont visit/call anymore as your too busy with ur husband
e-all of the above
f-none of the above and further questioning is required.
It's nature to leave one's family to start a new one. Even the bible says so. Just give it some time. If things dont improve, have a nice family talk with ur dad and mom |
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ā„B@BY~GURLā„
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OMGGGGGGG SHE IS VERY WRONG AND YOU ARE RIGHT THE BIBLE SAYS WHEN YOU MARRY YOU LEAVE YOUR PARENTS AND BECOME ONE WITH YOUR SPOUSE SHE IS JEALOUS OR SOMETHING |
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