Would you confront her?

Bexs

I would not. I understand that huge temptation to do so but what would you achieve. Perhaps this woman is a nice lady who didn't know that your husband was married - he has probably told her a pack of lies, "his wife doesn't understand him" bla bla - just like he has been lying to you. If the other woman was aware - do you think she is going to sit down and discuss it with you?. Keep your self respect. I hope you are going to leave your husband - he is the one you should be mad at - he is your husband, has lied to you and made you look a fool. Divorce him and forget about the other woman - she won't be able to help you. Don't do what a lot of women do and blame the other woman!! Good luck. x

ncgirl

My husband cheated after 20 years of marriage. I already knew the woman and knew that she was the sort that would break up marriages and then move on to the next. I left him and will be divorced in the next couple of weeks.

As for confronting her, I havent, actually she left town after she dumped my husband. I dont think I would confront her because I dont want to stoop to her level. Trash is all she is and all she will ever be and I dont dirty my hands with trash.

â™¥Tryingâ™¥

Be the responsible one and just ignore her. He probably wants 2 women fighting over him to boost his ego. I wouldn't give him the satisfaction! Dump him and move on with your life. Find someone who will cherish you and only you.

TWP_07

First thing is to make a decision about our marriage if we are both willing to save it. I would confront my husband first and it must be his decision to end the affair. No use confronting the other woman if my husband decides to go with her anyway. But if my husband breaks off the affair and decides to save the marriage and if the other woman keeps on hanging on to him then I will confront her just to show her I won't take this sitting down.

llou2u

Sure would! As a matter of fact, I did just that!

Why? Because I knew that I really didn't exist to her until she was confronted with a real person and not just a name. People get caught up in the adventure and secrecy. When it is exposed, it is no longer a challenge!

Do it!

Free-Lance

He was the person who cheated on you!
Confront him and tell him if he sees her again it's over!

Royalhinney

I did. I went to where she lived and asked her questions that he wouldn't answer. I wasn't mad at her because he had lied to her and told her that he was single, so I didn't blame her. I just wanted to know how long it had been going on.

Emily Hobhouse

It depends - the fault is your husband's, unless the woman has gone out of her way to "trap" him. When my husband had an affair, I asked her questions, because he was lying. I didn't blame her, I blamed him.

r_fazenbaker

damn right i would, in a heart beat and then I would leave him! Good luck

Marla b

no i would confront her. I could care less who it was unless it was someone I knew. I would tell the cheating ****...that she can have my loser husband because she's done with the relationship...and then tell my soon to be ex husband that he's made the worst mistake of his life and now will have to live with it...because i'm outta here!

***Autism's Beautiful Face *

I'd love to know why everyone blames the other person and not their partner , its not the other woman you need to confront its your cheating hubby !

strawberii

yep.
and my husband would come and settle this
if he wants to or not
he's gonna come.

ciaran e

yes go for it she stole your man. give a right slapping. by the way does youre husband want to ditch you for her or stay with you?

sweet

Hell yeah, then I would put her teeth down her throat!

missperfection

i would confront her for closure on the issue and to let her know she cant get away with it!

greenbaypackers1920

good question but I am happy married for 10 years and 3 kids and never once think of cheating over my wife and I did cheat on my all my ex girlfriend when I was in high school and knowing that it nto good for me to do that and it does hurt alot of them .... so whew.

jasmine

i wud confront him then leave him.

Maria

Do you know if she knew he was married? That would affect my answer.
I would just to find out if she knew he was a married man when this happened.

Ohio

It doesn't matter who the other woman is. Your husband is the one you should confront.

nikie_atkinson

OH yea i would definitely talk to her it would make me feel better and I would love to humiliate her in front of her coworkers I would do it at her work so every one would know what kinda a girl she is but i can be mean like that. good luck

jillybird

Yes, I would want her to know what a low life she is and tell her to find her own man. I would then go home and repeat what I`d said to the the cheating rat whilst setting fire to all his clothes.

marie m

Yes, I think I would. It wouldn't achieve anything, but it'd make me feel better. Before I went up to her, I'd make sure she was in; make sure she was alone; make sure I was dolled up to the nines, made up and perfumed, and stay dignified while telling her; you had your 10 day wonder honey; I'M the one he comes home to..........always.

Antoinette Mason

Duhh u have a right ur married to him tell that skank to leave him alone or else

farleyjackmaster

I think you need to concentrate on working things through with your husband. He might not of been totally honest with her and said you were seperating. Good luck

snack_daddy10

I would vote to confront the other person.
Think about it.
Your spouse betrayed you and by telling you everything about the other person they have betrayed them as well.

I would say confront them and let them know your spouse told you where to find them.

Relationships can't last without trust even affairs.

suziejoy

yes i would and i have with my ex

chrissyf225

First off, the problem here is definitly your husband. I would definitly suggest counseling. Don't confront the other woman. What good is it going to do? It won't undo the fact that he cheated on you, it won't make you feel any better and it will just cause more problems (i.e. that home wrecker gets smart with you and you break her jaw, then you spend a night in jail). Work on your husband, and don't worry about that homewrecker unless she was a friend of yours. In which case you have just rights to beat her with her own shoe. HaHa

littleitaly1377

Possibly. Find out if she knew he was married, if she did not know, leave her alone, or atleast be somewhat civil with her. If she did know, by all means, yes I would confront her. I would stay away from her work though. I would go to her home instead. Be careful cause she could get you for harassment.

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