Would you forgive your wife if she cheated?

gear jammer

Spank her and forgive her.

Cary Grant

If you can forgive her and still love her, then I would continue but more carefully and cautiously. I would make it clear that once is forgivable, but twice is not.

cbmaclean

I would, cuz i love my wife. I would have to explore the reasons why she felt she wanted to cheat on me, though.

king s

is she has money yes

kananentim

nope, if she cheated it would be over if no kids involved.if kids where. than we would go to see a counselor for a long time to figure out what i did wrong or she did etc..

chona a

It depends on how much you love her...forgive if you think you are ready to face the future with her on your side totally forgetting what she had done...otherwise no because there would be no peace in your house if you'll continue to confront her about it...

GentleCraig

Yes, if you really love her no matter how hard it hurt!

wfgrg15001

I forgave my husband

watan yash

of course, if she makes true promise not to repeat it again.

tyler_durden_project

depends on if she lies alot in the first place

jax0817

I wouldn't decide until I talked to her but that would be a sticking point for the rest of our lives together if i decided to stay. It would probably be best to just end it.

hopelovesu2004

Before my husband and i was married i cheated on my husband. But he was able to forgive me because after i did it, i told him right after. I felt ashamed already for what i did. He loved me through all of it and it made us stronger and we are married now 7 years and together 10 to be exact and i have not even thought about breaking my vows as him too. We were young, But we love eachother more than ever. We don't keep secrets, and we talk. Maybe she won't do it nomore cause deep in her heart she knew it was wrong and she is willing to fix it and she has to learn to trust herself and her husband has to learn to trust her again. She has to earn his trust again.

jude D

no

if i invest my whole life into marrying someone and that is the return i get i would not forgive her. she would be out the door in a shot and it would take a court order and an armed escort for her to ever see her kids again

raghu

certainly, i am forgiving

comming to your point - she told she is not going to continue - so she is in a conclution that she made a mistake - so the one who gets sympathy and love will love you a lot more than she does before so you will be the most happiest person

enjoy life never recollect yourself or make a discussion with her about this in you life

Angel L

well depends!!! if u really love her then yea

---daing expert---

dulla99

What of me,its she accepted n assured not to cheat again.Her forgivence is must.In sikhism one prays almighty WAHEGURU,he foregives all sins in past.but one should not go on committing sins n pray forgivence repeatedly.

still hoping for love

I would if we can work it out and marraige is worth it.

lonly_male4u

It all depends on details a lot depends on how Strong your relationship is if its strong enough you can work through anything.

I've been through it i was married to my first wife for 7 years only to find that she had several affairs in the last yr and a half we were together we tried very hard to put that behind us but in hind site our marriage was dead long b4 the news of her affairs came to light but neither of us wanted to admit that.

yes you can forgive a spouse if communication and your love is strong enough and your will to stay together lasts you can over come anything

hope it helps good luck

yourfreind_forlife

i love her so i will forgive her. if she continues after that too cheating on me then i shall punish myself rather than punishing her. its all about love dude. if she is happy with what she is doing then if i love her i have to stand with it. bcoz in love u have to bear what ure love loves to do.

Mx2

ABSOLUTELY NOT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Froggie

I have never cheated on my hubby and he hasn't cheated on me either.

tomcut2000

If you still love her... then yes... otherwise no...

Yaakov

I always used to tell her I would, but after hearing her tell me the opposite 20+ times over the years, probably not. -yk

Update: If she confessed and was honestly repentent, then probably in time. It might take awhile. If I confronted her and she then confessed and was honestly repentent, then probably, but it would take longer. If I confronted her and she denied, denied, denied, then no. She's going to do it again, and I'm not going to take any chances with disease, illegitimate children, and all the other crap that comes from adultery.

LilSo1287

No that is unacceptable, you made a vow when you got married all those "happy" times are in the past now. If someone cant move on from that playing around phase then they werent ready for a marriage in the first place.

Why not me

yes i did, but the pain is still there along with why it happened,what could i have done so that it didn't have had to happened. the trust is broken and i don't like having that feeling,but we have made a commitment to try & work things out. get back to loving eachother.

devil_queen_biatch14

maybe just depends

James B

I would never forgive her and i would throw her to the curb. Why bother having them stick around when you're always asking yourself is she still cheating and etc? It's not worth the pain or trouble.

harmony

lol. sorry baby girl, not a chance. my love is true and pure. and i would expect the same. anything less would not do.

no i haven't, its been over 10 years and counting.

ALittleLight

I forgave my husband. But I have a hard time trusting him and hate having to second guess the truths he tells me.

dukalink6000

No.

With all the years I had to endure her rants and tirades that I was not trustworthy (with no evidence to support this, other than a bothersome dream) and she did this to me, that is the absolute end.

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