Would you get divorced if....?

Digz

Yes! I would go through with the divorce..
Why wouldn't you keep your child? because you have no job? that doesn't matter, The Department of Social Services (DSS) will help you get a home for you and your child. Don't let your husband put negative thoughts in your head just so you don't leave him.
He's trying to control you. They will help you until you get back on your feet, which you will! Don't be unhappy, it's not worth it..You might struggle in the beginning but it won't last forever.You will pick yourself up and be much happier than you ever were. Good luck!

MISS TEE

You have to think about all those things yourself . I can not answer your question and be honest with you . I know that if I was not happy in my marriage that is no reason to leave him . Is he abusive ? Does he cheat ? Is he an alcoholic ? You need to really think about subjects such as that , before you consider divorce . I know that marriage is a commitment , but so is a child . Will you miss your child ? Do you love your child ? Is worth staying there for him /her ? You can always get a job , to pay the bills , but in the end you still need to do what is best for you and your heart .. Think about it and then go for it .. That is my answer .. God Bless ..

JUJUBABE

I would not voluntarily leave my child, not even for my own happiness. That child must come first, on both sides of the mud slinging that goes on in marriage break ups./

Rodney M

yes if there needs to be a divorce your being selfish about all that you do and dint have . Let me tell you from experience recent experience, that's all bull my ex ran with the kids and is still hiding because I have the custody ;and law enforcement will not do anything. so there are evil enough people out there to help you take the selfishness that you express about your no job,no money no family,no friends and crap on the only friend you have. You can get away with stealing your kids You can get some womans shelter to belive that your being abused if you dont mind lyeing. but if you think about it its probably his fault you dont have friends or famly or money

Chopsmom

I would never leave a marriage and risk losing my child ...NEVER.
I would stay and make the best of it....for my Child....
I would plan as well...so that when my child was old enough I could leave......until I would make the best of it.
Good Luck

LIFES2SHORT2WEARHEELS

No. I would stay.

lolly

If that is the current situation then no. But that doesn't mean you can't int he future. I would be silly and unwise to leave when it is like that, with nowhere to go. But if you truly want to leave, then start planning. Plan, so that when you leave you will have money, will have a job, will be able to keep your child.

kd_lifer

No I would not.

justsome_guy16

If I make a vow to a woman I would want to be with that woman for the rest of my life. I would do my damnest to make a marriage work.

Jessica Rabbit

with the current situation given, no I wouldn't but I would prepare for it. get a job and if your husband asks why you want to work, let him know you just want some Independence. Take your child to a day care and while your working stash some cash for a lawyer. this may take a good amount of time but it will be worth it. Once you have got your self some money and Independence I don't see why you couldn't get a divorce.

Shannon

It matters a great deal why you are unhappy and why you think your marriage will never make you happy - why is this?

Randy

how can you know that you can never be happy again? why all the gloom and doom? If you really want to turn things around I believe you can if you try harder. make it happen

Janet W

Yeah, leave your child and go do your own things because your not happy. Gee, lucky child.

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