Would you leave your husband or wife if he or she gained 600 lbs?

Mercedes De Montcerf

nope, he is still my husband and i would help him.

tedstryker68

Hell no...I'd call maury and get some cash by showing her off...I probably would stop sleeping with her tho...

KANITA

oh wow...600lbs??? no probably not...i would make them get help, and be there for them but no wouldnt leave

dreamer

yes if they refused to get help

I would leave if she gained 150 lbs or more. To me that shows she doesn't care about herself and I would not want to be with someone that unhealthy. I would hope she would get help before it reached that point.

no.
but 601 lbs is unacceptable. i mean, she's already 568 pounds. (on Jupiter)

Sexy Crahan

hell yes. I can't stand someone unhealthy.

nonameblonde

Nah...just roll them in flour and poke the wet spot!

babygirl20012

It depends on how and why he gained 600 pounds. If he gained the weight because of a medical problem, then I wouldn't have a problem with it because he has no control over it. Now if he's just lazy and sitting around the house not doing anything, but eating everything, then I would have a major problem with it. I can't honestly say that I would leave, but I will explain to him, that not only is his weight is not only having an effect on me, but he's hurting himself even more. Hopefully, if I talk to him, he'll change his lifestyle and eating habits.

Quasimodo

Nope.

Sideshow material. Know how much jing that brings in?

wouldn't wanna b'ya!

I don't think i would leave them!!
if i really love him then i'm gonna stick by him thru thick and thin, even if he is really THICK!! lol
no but seriously i wouldn't i would try to get help for him, i go go thru it with himm together!!
now if he refused to do so and was beig selfish about it, after i'm trying to help him then yes i might leave him!!!

Electric Blue

I wouldn't have to leave him. He'd be dead if he weight 770lbs.

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Val

no because at the end we still have what we have (connection and chemistry) just cuz they gained doesnt mean they changed maybe physical but not mentally

Bobbie

Leave? No, but would definitely insist on him getting healthier/losing weight. I'd offer to work out with him, manage meals, whatever it takes. I'd probably start this at about a 50# increase though and not let it even get to 600#.

However, if he blatantly chose to continue to gain weight and refuse to do something to reverse it, then I would probably consider leaving him.

gala ria

no. but i wouldn't let him get like that in the first place.

Bzzy Bzzy Bzzy

What, are watching the discovery health channel or something?

No, if my spouse gained that much weight it would be MY problem and fault too for allowing it to happen. people can't gain that much weight or maintain it without an enabler. You help mess it - you help fix it!

Simply Lovely

Nope. I am in love with the whole package, not just one part.

Happy-2

I'd start bringing her way less food!

ridernc

No

1. I'd get a discount contract with Norman the tent maker.
2. Get a small car so she can never borrow it.
3. Hide the remote so only I can change the channels.
4. Tie a steak around her neck so the dog will play with her.
5. Get a skinny girlfriend, not really a big cheater, but heck I just wanna survive!

Ela

No, because I'd never let him gain that much weight in the first place. I don't care if I have to make him by force, but my husband WILL be healthy enough to raise our children.

naplliny

Yes due to the fact that they are killing them selves. never mind having to help them with everything. Love is blind but not that blind.

n2mama

Well before it got to the 600 lb mark he would have been given an ultimatum. Basically that I love him too much to stay and watch him eat himself to death. So I guess the answer is yes, but not because I didn't love him anymore.

clayshell_love

I love my husband too much to ever let a thing like that happen to him. beside he would explode if he was 825lbs.
but if it ever did happen we would face the problem together. We married that mean you stick in the & share each other problems down fall & hard times NOT run away from them. If you are that type of person you shouldn't marry

richard k

I know so many men would say that they wouldn't. Some actually might stay with them but it would be unhappy and there would be alot of cheating involved. The marriage would eventually break down because of unfaithfulness and lack of trust on either side.

BaBy CaKeS

nope because i would love that person for who they are. if there happy then im happy and if not then we will do something about there weight together.

emt1033

yes

SGT. Dillers Wifey

I can understand the though of leaving who wants to be withh a 600 pound spouse, but these days help is not far they have the lap band sureery, liposuction, pills, and gyms all over . I would help my love get better. marriage is for better or worse.

fox_maple

I wouldn't leave.....but I would be taking him to every doctor I could to find out why that happened!

mleanne13

oh people why would u let her gain that much. he or she might have something wrong and deal with it by eating i do when i get board or when i havent talked to my husband in a while. but he well bug me about it and say u need to watch it. he told me when comes home that i could get new clothes. i am going to get into shape so i can get nice clothes. my sister after she had her little girl just kept putting on the weight and hasnt stopped she wonders why when alls she eat if junk food and fast food. if u dont give her or him a reason to stay fit they wont like with me i want to surpise my husband when he comes home from overseas. we all need to stay fit and please our spouses if u dont they will start to go other places. but for someone that gained that much there has to be a promble deep down something bad happen or there is something med. wrong.

man.yogurt

The gravitational pull alone would keep you in orbit for 5 or 10 years.

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