Would you stay with your hubby if you found after 3 yrs they were sleeping with another woman for the past mo?

Aphrodite

Why don't you do the same to him see if he likes it.

As Real As It Gets

This is a stupid question, and if you stay with him, you're a stupid person.

Have a little self-respect.

hotrdcars9

Dump Him

LyndasCa

I would kick him to the curb!

Jennifer S

Second time in the past 2 years?? He's a cheater, and then makes up some lame excuse. He's trying to cheat while you're away and reap the military benefits that YOU receive.
You're the one being paid BAH, BAS, etc......none of that would be possible if it weren't for you.
Personally, I'd file.

Wiser1

You already know the answer. If he cheats once and is sorry and remorseful, you can give him another chance if you love him. The second time...kick the bum out!! He's an habitual cheater and he won't ever stop.

honey

I would leave. Not only for his cheating, but mainly because he sounds very stupid. I don't like unintelligent men.

switchmistress

there are pleanty of men out there that will accept your children.........leave his *** he isnt worth your time or energy

flavagirl

Heck no,I wouldn't stay with him.My husband would have one time to chaet on me and that would be the end of him.Honey,you deserve better than that.Go out and find you a real man that deserves you in his life.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

shortzyboi

if someone is cheating on you, the obvious human retaliation is to just.. break up

Stephen K

If that happened the first time, I would have been toast

what did you say

Don't listen to that I was a teenage mom with one child.I met a wonderful man.We have our days who dosen't.I would cut him lose 2 times.If it were 1 I might forgive but 2 oh no.

typical not me

Your husband is selfish and unkind. What do the two of you have if not honesty and respect? No I would not stay with him.

Julia

I would not stay with a man that cheated on me twice. Once would be hard enough to take but two would end it all! There is no excuse for him being unfaithful to you and the marriage...and no reason to justify it. He is not committed to the relationship and it looks like he has started a pattern here! You did not deserve him disrespecting you and destroying the trust you will never find in him again. You can still love someone but it doesn't mean that you can continue on with them. I would get the courage and strength to walk away and when the time is right for you I hope you find someone that will really appreciate you. Take care.

cblack6540

Stay with him Only if you don't mind sharing him because
Once A Cheater ALWAYS A Cheater

patty k

Not at all! The trust is gone! Don't waste another second! Move on and the best to ya!

Live_For_Today

Why are you putting up with it ?. He wouldn't last 5 minutes with me.

Grant M

Bad news... He is a habitual cheater.. Good luck grant m in Pennsylvania

Thomas

how long was you apart while you in the militarty? is he also in the services? my opinion, nah! since he have done this before and he will continue on doing it. that is nother lie he used, because he feel that a woman with kids would be easy to pick up. Well I guess he tip his hand to you, since you have child that is why he is doing this? I would think you should show him the door and let him be with so called women with no children.

booboo814ca

Well you may want to ask him if it's ok if you have a few boyfriends on the side.

onyx1

Divorce the creep and don't look back, someone else will take you and your child and cherish both of you.

patches

After the first time, i would of told him to hit the road. I no this sounds hard to do and it isn't easy but life is to short to put up with it.

KING AND ME

you gave him a chance the first time there is no reason for a another chance cut your losses and run.

Clinton

Nope...time to pack it up and let him be the dog he is..and he is!

luckystar

you should leave, he showing you no respect and you deserve to havd that, he proven that once a cheater alway a cheater.
time to get out.

LIVE LIKE A HIPPIE BUT WASH

Dump him

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