Would you still be happy witrh your partner if they got REALLY FAT!?

Tri-trippin-Nelle

Yes, my husband has and he is still the same person that I married. Not only that but I am not the same weight either. We have had 4 kids together and I am so tired of reading ppls responses of lack of self control or confidence or whatever. Not all fat comes from eating there are numerous reasons, quit being so narrow minded. I would be hurt if my husband left me because I gained weight after the children. My family is no where near being on the small side but I am going to the gym to work it off and to feel better about myself regardless of if he likes me like this or not. It is great that he still loves me but I have to love me also.

Dizzy

I didn't marry him for his weight, but I would encourage him to get healthy in a nice way, and I would be there to help him.

frenziedmonkey

I'd worry if they didn't want to do anything about it, but if they genuinely couldn't help it I'd be supportive.

Kitty

Define "really fat". My husband is already overweight, and I'm happy with him - except for it's bad for his health, so I'd like him to lose some weight for this reason.

cleancutspike

Hell yeah, i like em that way.

Boo

More to love Baby

BeautyBreak H

yes, this is love.

AmyB

I'd be worried about his health, but I would still be MADLY in love with him. He's the kindest, most caring, compassionate human I have ever met.

Honeybots

Love is not measured by the size of a waistline.

yes you love the person for them and who they are not there size true love is unconditional so fat, thin, tall, short, ill, health, bald not bald it all goes as marriage goes 'for better for worse'

SexyBlack

Yes! If you really love that person before then i think you should unless you was just talking to that person of there looks but hey i would no matter what it says stick together threw thick in thin so is you or any person don't want to be with that person because the gain some weight so that means you didn't want them in the 1st place.

JustAnEmoGirl10

this question made me think.. i'm sad to report no.

lara

I would not but would not leave someone because they got fat, i would get gym memberships, workout DVDs and diet books as gifts for that partner and being fat is not healthy for anyone.

diva subby

if i was with him before he got fat and then he got fat i would still be with him and help him lose the weight and become slim or slender back. has long as i love him nothing will matter me i will just helphim as i say befor and tell i want back the guy i felt i love with.

countrygirl

I may not like it, but if I loved him unconditionally, it would not matter. I would be worried about his health and other problems that would arise becaus of his eating habits. I would try to tell him about the side effects of living like that then leave it up to him to try to change.

bayouktty6969

does anyone take their marriage vows seriously? the vow "for better or worse" is apart of the vows for a reason. would you leave your partner if he/she were injured in an accident and it left them disfigured or possibly handicap? if a person gains weight, so what. i mean, yes if it gets to the point that its effecting their health, then you encourage them to get healthy. but my god, look at the world we live in. there are worse things than a loved one being over weight!!!

babe

I would still be happy with the person. I mean, the outside changed not the inside right? But I would encourage them to take better care of themselves. It isn't healthy for a person to be obese and there can't be a relationship if the partner dies.....

Daigsmommy

Yes I believe that love is unconditional no matter what.

jessie

It depends how fat! I mean if he needed a crane to get him out of the house i might just have to say u really shouldnt have had that double cheeseburger last night.

Saint

Why not?()

Ghostrider

yes size isnt important ..personallity shines through

shellysnapz

when i met mine he was 100% fit, h was slim...firm..athletic, that was 10 years ago...then he got comfy and gained weight...not so much that he's unhealthy because he still works out but he's much older now..on these cold winter nights it's nice to snuggle up to someone with a few extra pounds....

I wasn't before and he is now!!!!

english rose

how fat?

missgigglebunny

If I truly honest to God loved him then yes I'd stay but I would try to find out why he gained all that weight. Like if my nagging was too much.

Ahijado 3

Probably

kristeldoo

i would still love my man however fat or disfigured he became i love him for the person he is you should look inside when you meet someone as they say don't judge a book by its cover.

Lisa

Not at all. Me and my partner were slimmer than we are now. I have put on a few stone since having 2 kids, and he has put on a few stone as he can afford to eat food than when he lived alone. He was paid 2.00 an hour (before minimum wage kicked in) so at the end of the week, barely came even so had to eat little to pay the bills. I love him even more now he has something to cuddle at night.

ido

Love is the eye to eye contact the flash that happen when the lovers look at each other. if it is true love it doesnt matter believe me. I have expirienced working in a holiday place that people relax and go there with the loved one and believe me have been wondered hundreds time how a skinny looks with such a passion and ready to do anything to his/her other half thats HUGE. Money doesnt matter too when there is real love

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