Would you wait for the one you Love even if they were taking you, and everyone/everything else for granted?

The lady who Loves me knows where I am and knows she can make any kind of move at all but because of things going on in her life shes taking many things for granted and has an almost carefree view on things.

I was in a similar situation last year but the Love I had for this other girl wasn't reciprocated like this Love with this lady is it would be impossible for me to walk away from her.

But am I really doing my self a great disservice by waiting?

Thanks to all who answer :)

And to add, I have in my mind got a specific date in my Mind where I do walk away from her forever no matter how much we have been through, I'm a spectacularily patient person who will wait but enough is enough this is why I am asking myself such Soul Searching questions :)

molly 3/17/09

ever heard that hootie and the blowfish song-let her cry? i swear i tear up every time i hear it. im sorry that you feel this way, it is awful to care for someone that is so immature.

Emily Hobhouse

There comes a time when you have to put yourself first. After all, you love yourself, too, don't you?
It might be that you have made yourself too available - withdraw a bit and see if this has an effect.
She might not be ready for such a commitment, and keeing you on the back burner, until she is ready.
I wouldn't bother playing such games - love her, yes, because you are in love. But at the same time, don't allow yourself to be a doormat. Have some self respect.
It is possible to walk away from a romance that is going nowhere, even though you deeply love that person. I've done it.

*Juelz* *~*FIX it*~*

not really sure what you are saying... but i think you are saying something about her not moving to where you are because she has things going on?

well...

for starters if that is the case, then you should wait till she is ready. it's not very "love-like" to want her there so bad that you don't care if she is ready or not.

I uprooted my whole life for my husband probably way to fast because i was only concerned about his happiness.. in doing that i hurt my family real bad and i feel i've lost a huge part of them...

take it easy, and wait. talk to her about it and let her know how you feel. SHe may just not understand what you are going through.

and if you just can't wait then go to her? even just thinking that way will show you how hard and uncomfortable it would be to move.

litlbitty0423

What you have been doing is not working maybe another approach.
Next time she calls be the opposite of the way you are usually. Let her feel some of what you feel. If that has no affect on her, move on.

Douglas B

I'm confused by your question. If this person loves you then why isn't she with you? If she's not with you how can she be loving you? To me that doesn't make sense. So if you think you are waiting for somebody special, I think you are mistaken. If she was that someone she would be in your arms right now. Time to move on.

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you post this Q before ,you've got the ans and you said enough is enough. why still stay wif this person ? ^_^

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