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Y would he tell me he love's me but when trouble comes along his ready to leave?

5 years married and 2 kids


    




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Immature. Unprepared for life. Has no life problem solution skills. Doesn't like problems, trials and confrontation. Can't think things through properly. Doesn't think he's man enough to take care of the problem. Never given a chance to solve problems with the help and guidance of his dad. Reared by a single mother who didn't have a clue as to how to properly rear a son to world improving, marriage supporting maturity.

As you can see, there could be any number of reasons or combination of reasons thereof. Oh, and the list is not complete. These are just a few of the possibilities.

Time to get some help (before the next problem arises). And, while you're at it, be sure that you do not denigrate him in any way or it will drive him further underground and truly out of the marriage. He is salvageable but it will be hard work.

Don't go it alone, get some professional help. They will help you learn how to best approach him before problems arise and determine what the plan of action will be in the event of such and such event or problem. That way, he will gain confidence and so will you.

All the best to you as you work to resolve this issue and move toward a happy, prosperous marriage.


DV8
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In a word, immature.


MikesOnly
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GIANT CRYBABY....thats what he is.


Cindy
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He is a weak coward of a man.


Nehru
He is a timid fellow. Give him long rope.


Juvy
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Everyone has immaturity within ourselves and it may be shown in a lot of ways. They say that we love the one who's a reciprocate of us coz there's something we need to learn from our partner, thus, if he's immature and you're not, you do the action, and HELP him to face the trouble, you BOTH work as a partner. LOOOOOOONG patience and RIGHT understanding. TALK to him nicely at the right time.


slap artist
Something better came along!
I know....the truth hurts!


♥♥*¨¨*I am loved¨¨*:•♥♥.
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he loves you but the man does not like trouble





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