You find out your husband cheated on you, you have opportunity to get even would you?

mel

No two wrongs don't make a right,i think it would be quite an immature and stupid thing to do.

If he cheated and i couldn't get over it i would rather end the marriage than waste my life playing silly games.

lwomar

I would get even by leaving him. Karma will do the rest. Trying to get even by cheating back on him or doing other spiteful things will not change anything or make it better. I would just move on. Apparently he did when he chose to cheat.

â€¢ Leo â€¢

I don't believe in doing evil for evil.
I'd go straight for divorce court. Not everyone will cheat.

jude

when my ex left me for her, i could have done many different things, but didn't because i knew that when u hurt others it always comes back to bite u eventually. so after the divorce i wondered if he would ever get his. recently heard from old friends that she left him, and he is alone, just like he left me once. so no i would not seek revenge i would just divorce him, and sit back and wait to see what happens. often times u wonder if u will ever hear about an ex, or know if they got to be happy after what they did or not. but always u can count on whatever they did to u will be done back to them.

Need Answers

No. Two wrongs don't make a right. At the end of the day you would still be left hurt. Better to just know that person is not for you. The sweetest revenge is to live well.

alabamacutie

I wouldn't.

miracleof89

Don't get even with him because it wont solve anything. I wouldn't divorce him yet because everyone deserves a second chance. Let him know that what he did really hurt you and see what his response is.

Mainmaster

No it will just cause more pain and drama. Once you get even with him, he will do something to get back at you and then you will try to get back at him, so on so on. Just leave him if you feel you can't trust him.

Pam R

No.

2Westies

I divorced my ex after a 21 year marriage because he was cheating. I didn't do it to get even I did it for my own self respect and truthfully I didn't have the time, energy or inclination to do anything nasty to him.

amare

No. I would just get divorced.

poison_angel32

oh yes i plan too, i'm just picky.

luscious

It depends...I think I would.

Ocimom

No - two wrongs don't make a right. Unfortunately, a lot of people think they have the "right" to do the same. It never solves anything and just makes the relationship end faster.

Sue C

First of all, the old saying "two wrongs don't make it rite" always makes a LOT or sense. But if your going to keep up playing "tit for tat", this could be a never ending thing. IF you're going to try to work on your marriage, find out what caused the problem first, try to correct it, then double cheating is NOT going to make for "fixing" anything. I'm sure we could always find someone we could use for a "payback", but then that's not solving the problem. To me, it makes more sense to either work on it if it's "fixable", or if it's not, then proceed w/what you know you have to do to end the marriage. I too well know how we feel after being cheated on as I sure went thru a lot of it w/my "ex". Yes, after spending nite after nite home alone KNOWING full well he was out w/whoever he "picked up" at a bar, I finally gave into cheating myself. So, I CAN identify w/the feelings. But I also knew my situation was a never ending problem & there was NO way he was going to stop. Go out, get drunk, end up w/whoever he wanted to end up with. I put up w/that for 12 yrs., then finally had the where with all to say no, you cannot come home. Stay where ever you are, & don't come back. That was 25 yrs. ago. I of course have gone on w/my life, felt like a ton of bricks rolled off my shoulders, & I was finally free of it. Free to start a new beginning for myself. That I did, & that was the end of the cheating period. You ARE going to do what's best in your case. Only you know the ans. to your question & what's the very BEST thing for you to do. I do wish you the best...:)

Renee J

No, because when a guy does it he is forgiven but when the wife cheats shes the evil one, forever. I dont know why this is, its just that men are different like that. So if you do cheat, all the blame will go on you because he will shift the whole thing to make it look like its all your fault, and he will also assume youve been cheating the whole time too. So anyway, if you want to get even with him slowly distance yourself from him. It will eat at him all day ;)

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I did!... for my own mental stability

MsJanbo

There is no "getting even" if you are a mature adult, which I am. My ex cheated. I left and that's that. I stayed on the high road while he dug himself deeper and deeper into the darkness. One day HE will have to answer for his actions and that's when Karma will bite him in the butt. I, on the other hand, let it go. Water off a duck's back, as they say. His loss.

deserontoshamrock

I would find a way to get even, but I would bide my time until just the right moment, then strike like a cobra.
it would not be a pretty sight.

Katie P

kick him to the curb, and never take him back because once a cheater always a cheater.

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