Your first love? do you still miss them?

Trisha B

all the time. when you first expierience love, you can never forget him. you think about him everyonce in a while, what hes doing, who hes dating. you cant help it. and no matter how hard you try...you can never seem to let him go.

Amanda

I don't miss my first "true" love. We met when I was 15 and he was 16. Our relationship was rocky from the start. He was heavy into drugs and lied to me throughout our entire relationship about it. He was both mentally and physically abusive at the end (mentally throughout most of it) and eventually cheated on me and broke off our engagement after one month. Sometimes I wish we were on well enough terms to just say "How have you been?", but he's not mature enough to be that way. He tries to throw up his new relationship in my face and it makes me sick that he's that childish.

I am in love with an amazing guy now and I wouldn't trade him for anything. We have trouble, but I'm hoping we're strong enough to fix things.

WUWEI!!!

I lost her 'cause she didn't love like she thought and said.
It was just a dream. we came from two totally different cultures
The affection of love wasn't there in her
It was a lie from beginning
so I swallowed all my pride and be a man and walked away...
Love is a natural thing! When you loved a person, you expect the same in return or at least a degree of love to keep the relationship moving forward...But so sad! I was not the one she loves...

We haven't seen each other since...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY

Colin-why?

You will un doubtly be haunted all your life by your memories.
Cherish your thoughts.
The image might change, or even fade, but in your heart has been set a standard of what you seek in a partner.
May good fortune follow you

TastyHotPepper!

he was my friend and I never had the courage to tell him. he's married now, so I'm happy for him :)

Shenzi-

I'm still with him, and hopefully will stay with him.

and i'm very sorry about that although saying sorry isn't enough.

Debbie B

Funny you ask. Just today I got confirmation. I was on facebook searching and came across the son of my first love. I emailed him and he confirmed he was his son. I didn't want to bombard him with questions cause his father had been my first husband and we were too young to marry when when we did. I didn't want he to feel awkward. He was cool to answer a few of my questions. I expressed my appreciation and kindly say my good-byes.

To answer your question, yes, I do think and wonder how are they doing...that is all.

mrs.v

i left my first true love..like the serious couldnt be more perfect so much that i was angry but so happy
everytime i thought of a reason i could never actually BE with him he would change without me brining it up...our lives, our humor...it all meshed so well.
i wouldnt even be his girlfriend, even though i knew we would move at my pace whatever it was....i ran away
and my life has been *** backwards ever since
he was the best friend i could have ever wanted, my body was made for his to cuddle it
im still trying to get over my stupidity....hope he's happy out there

maxine m

i met up with mine last year after 20 years, oh it was amazing
i fell for him again, priceless.
but the painful thing is i'm married so i have had to keep my distance
but all the memories are mine forever.
peace be with you x

Charlotte G

Well i met mine in a forest i was taking my dog for a walk and i tripped over the dog and he helped me up and kissed me so tender i couldn't resist it after that we never saw each other againâ™¥

Wildflower

I just got off the phone with him.. We dated from the time I was 13 until 18.. he was the one I thought I'd spend forever with... all of my firsts were with him.. my first time driving a car, finding a waterfall, riding a horse.. and so many others.. when I look back at those years, he was always there... we went through some rough stuff with our families.. (think Romeo and Juliet with their families) and the stress was just too much. We split when I was 18 and both went on to lead seperate lives.. Marriage to others, kids, divorce, 12 years passed.. oddly it turned out we divorced within a month of each other.. He loved me all along, stayed living next to my family (I moved away). He has my pictures and letters from back then...

We've been talking for about 2 years again now.. and both of us were beginning to tackle those thoughts of what if we had a future together, and why were we back in one another's lives after all these years...and could we possibly make this work...

Then, in October, he was diagnosed with lung cancer..(he's only 35!!!) in both lungs.. he had decided to refuse treatment... and asked me to come by in Dec.. he played "Goodbye my lover" by James Blunt to me (on his guitar and sang to me).. and later we had a talk about him not wanting me to fall in love with him all over again since he was dying.. since then, he has reconsidered his treatment options, and is trying to fight it.. he says he's doing it because he knows I'm not ready to say goodbye (I did alot of crying talking to him, not wanting to push him to do what he didn't want to do, but also not wanting to watch him die so young..) ... we have gotten some positive news about some of it.. and he's undergoing more tests and treatment...

Where will we go from here? I honestly don't know.. he's one of the only people who knows everything about me, good, bad, and plain ol' scary, and cherishes every facet of me.. I will stand by him as his best friend while he fights this, and do all I can to help him... and if he beats it.. well, we'll have time to decide what to do from there... and if not.. well, I'll know that at least once in my life I knew what love was...

lilmissdisorganised

Aw thats really sad.

No, I dont miss my first love. He was a lying, cheating drug taking freak and I often ask myself what the hell was I thinking???

AllStarâ„¢

think i was ten,

bought her earrings, she dumped me the day after

10 years later i found + added her on facebook, never had the courage to say hi though

=[

Jasmine

i still think about him, which is why i stay away from him. i broke up with him last year because of irriconcilible differences. the only time we talk is when there's some big issue like moving away from each other, he hada girlfriend who lost her baby and he had to tell me about it cos he was upset and i was the only person he could turn to asides his sisters. i can't talk to him about day to day activities anymore because we automatically end up being together again. it's sad but that's life. i'm really sorry to hear about your late partner. i also have dreams about him nearly every day which i never really talk to my friends about that much. its nice to share your first love with other people.

tasks mom

kiss indeed i do miss him he was handicapped by he was a good and kind person he was smart and brave treated me like a queen even when he was in pain my dad made me brake up with him due to his handicapp he had arthritis of the spin he got a hip replacement he and i both married someonelse and i hear his wife is mean i always wondered what would have happened if we married my heart was broken si bad he was nice not to mention handsome his family was a good christian family he was7 years older then me i really do think of him

Darleen C

the first love!! well i met mine when i was 13 and we stayed together for 3 years although i moved away and eventually the distance between us lead us to other persons, im now happily married and expecting our first child together, i still think of him every single day, little things, smells, songs, i still have all his letters and im actually afraid to go back home cause i don't know what might happen if we see each other, cause he is still single and waiting for me (as his sister my best friend tell me) it has been 10 years since the last time we saw each other but i still have his face all over my memory

Oliver H

Yeah. First love never dies.

007#2

im so sorry for you and her family :( its terrible well im 15 and i still love him

Fishyninja

I'm still with her.

Joanne H

oh...how sad for you & her family!

i HATE my first love....he went off & secretly married somebody else without telling me....i was only 16yrs old...he broke my heart...the b.a.s.t.a.r.d. see him from time to time...he's a right mess & is divorced now! good riddance!!

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