is treating her badly going to make her love me more?
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is treating her badly going to make her love me more?
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there is a maltese expression which goes like this "izjed ma ttia bis sieq, izjed thobbok", it means that the more u treat her badly, the more she will like u. do u think it is true?
im asking because i want to try this out.
the reason is because im not an independent person and i want a partner who is the same like me (so that she will depend on me aswell) but my girl is an independent person so i want to try this out to see if it works. i will do this by hiding my jealousy and act as if i dont care. however i have feelings for her so it will be difficult but im willing to try.
what do u think of this? do u think im mad? do u think it will work?
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˙əəuəɹ əɥʇ
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It works for insecure, immature, dependent girls. But I think she'd just slap you in the face if she's the girl you describe. |
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bet
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If it were me, it would not work. |
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sahraleigh
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personally, i dnt see this working..speaking as someone that is very independent, if my partner treated me bad, i would independently show him the door, if she doesn't depend on u for anything, and u start treating her bad, what reason would she have for keeping u around? |
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emt_me911
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NO.
If you want to try that approach, feel free but I can promise you that it would be a lonely existence.
EMT |
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nora
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seems to me you want to play games with your girlfriend and what will happen most likely is that you will push her away. why are you threatened that she is an independent woman? No it wont work, as i said you are risking losing a girl that you like. |
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tom
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This usually only works on women who have come from abusive homes.Most women want their man to be independent and strong. Dependency looks like weakness to a woman.So you acting all jealous is a BIG turn off to her. You must get over your jealous nature or you will loose her in the end. |
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<3ilovecolette<3
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not even. u have to make her feel like the world to her. u have to make her feel at least special to u |
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BabeHart
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With some women it would work, with others it would not...instead of playing games, why not just be in an honest relationship with someone??? That's what adults are supposed to do...game-playing tends to be outgrown in junior high school (or with people of that maturity level)...
...apparently the Maltese don't know much about mature, adult relationships... |
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Moony3005231
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NO.
Because of the way women are, if you don't show her you love her, and treat her well, she'll either think you're cheating, or that you no longer love her.
This is a great tactic if you want her to hate you and break up with you. |
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Davina
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Yes, I think you should treat her as BADLY as you can. Then hopefully you'll go to jail and die. |
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Tony M
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There's an expression here in the US: You are a doofus. It means you are a doofus. |
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