"Is she really to old for me"?

txO3blueyes

I would just keep things the way they are. Why mess up a good thing. You say ya'll enjoy things together and you live that close together. just give it time and if its meant to be then it will happen...back off the relationship issue...be her friend and be there for her and she will see this....

sexii nini

if you really love her, then go for it

Kara

Hey really your age is only a number I mean that if you guys are ruly care so much about each other as you say then it shouldn't make any difference.

Coolio JW

ya i think she is a little old

katydid

Ask her what her concern is. I hooked up with my husband when he was 29 and I was 44. That was almost 14 years ago. Tell her not to let a good thing go just because she has some concerns. I'm sure glad I listened to my heart.

SEDATED

age is not a big deal i mean really its not

Eau de Pivoine

No, she's perfect. Consider the fact that men have a shorter life span by 7 years than women, and then some... I think you're perfect for each other

hilltopper

i dont think the age is the issue....maybe you being in prison for 23 years is the real problem she has......

just wandering

i don't think the age difference is all that bad good luck

shadycaliber

At that age, absolutely no concern at all. Tell her age is of no concern. Enjoy your time together, don't let age stand in the way of happiness.

Ralph

Age doesn't matter.You enjoy eachother, that's all that matters

V3RoNiC@

well i dont think that should be a problem if you do love her but this all depends in the two of you guys try to talk this out and good luck

Abby

She feels insecure regarding the age gap, she probably will always feel that you can leave her at anytime for a younger female. If you really think this is the one, by all means go for it and remind her that the age difference is not an obstacle for you. My opinion: You are both old enough to know what you want and your age difference is irrelevant at your present age.

Kyle S

Age doesn't matter in a relationship. Age is just a number. If you two are interested in each other then go for it.

Peppermint Patti

My Mother-in-law is 10 years older then her husband they love each other dearly. And do every thing together. My husband is 13 years older then me.

MedicineWoman

Being that I have been the older one in all my relationships I can understand her concern. My fiancee' is 10 years younger then me which had me concerned for about a minute. Tell her to live everyday as if it were her last, to not think so for ahead or about what other people think. She'll be able to tell if you are sincere about your feelings, and if she's feels as strong towards you then there should be nothing stopping you two from being happy! Don't deprive yourself of something that sometimes takes a lifetime to find!

shabo

age doesn't matter your heart can't help feeling the way it does
now if the woman was in her twenties i would say she is still a child but........

sweetgranny06

if she want's you go for her it's not the age that count's it's what is in your heart

krYpToNitEsMoM

well, in my opinion she isn't too old for you. As long as both of you are both in tune with the others feelings and wellbeing there sh ouldnt be a problem. Clearly you both are old enough to make mature, rational and wise decisions so age shouldn't matter at all. I am not sure why she would think you were too young for her? She should be happy that a 51 year old man wants someone who is 12 years his senior.

Good Luck to you both

Aims4usa

My gut instinct whe I read this, is that she's using the age difference as an excuse to not date you because she fears something else that she's unwilling to tell you about right now. She's either nervous about being with you because you just got out of prison, or she's afraid of intimacy, or of what people might say or think. I suggest you ask her if she's afraid of something, and then listen to what she says. In the meantime, just continue being there for her, but don't be TOO available either. She needs to realize that she may miss you if you're not around. So occupy yourself with a hobby. Be gone more than you have been. Trust me she'll start to wonder where you are, why you're not with her, and if she feels the same way about you as you do about her, she'll come around sooner or later. Take it slowly. I'd be nervous too. Good Luck!

worldwise1

I really believe that you are as young as you feel. My longest relationship lasted twenty years and he was 12 years my junior. Sure, there will be some problems, but this is true in any relationship. If you care about each other sincerely-go for it! Tell her not to be afraid because it just might be an enduring relationship. BTW, I still maintain a great relationship with my ex. He says that I am the love of his life.

ireland

she either thinks you're too immature
or, she wants reassurance that you find her attractive

immature, probably
...since you're asking

Michelle M

Age is not a problem. Could she be worried about something else.

dianesomeone

keep trying and good luck

donna_honeycutt47

If you have been in Prison that long, you must have done something really bad. First of all, I think this woman just wants to be friends with you. She does not want to hurt your feelings, but the age thing at this point is probably just an excuse. One cannot simply disregard your past and I am sure it bothers her alot. The best thing for you to do, is get out and meet other people closer to your age. Just maintain your friendship with her, but keep it at that.

kat_luvr2003

keep trying you both will be happy

Tony S

Your heart knows no age limitations, continue to do those romantic things together. Also, ask her if she is concerned about that pension cut being married. If she is, then suggest you to be permanent lovers.

Icewomanblockstheshot

If you are 51 & 63, kids are out of the question, so what's age got to do with it? If you, love each other, you go for it.

Austin

Too old? No such thing. Age does not matter.

delovely

Go for it!! You only get to live once!! Make the best of it.

jeffgetswild

hell you're oldwhat the point of worrying about her age .... maybe thats just an excuse sorry to put thoughts in your already confused skull...

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