what does she mean by this?

Is my relationship with my wife over? been married for 8 yrs no kids, and my wife is having an affair with this guy. and will move out with him. she said she will comeback after 3 months. and will not file a divorce? I never cheated on her. I love her so much. I told her I forgive her. and she promise me she comming back she told me she loves me but not happy anymore?. but is that true? I already beg and cried. for her not to leave.

Is she really just going away just to calm down or check this guy out? im really confused.

David

I went through something similar though we were only engaged and not yet married. I waited the phase out and did my best to win her back to me. It took a while and a lot of patience, but I am glad that I have her as my wife today.

C A

Leave her. Quit being whooped. What, is she paying your bills or something?

Sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it too. It is entirely up to you if you want to serve her that cake. You need better self esteem, not many guys or gals would even think that this is okay and stick around and wait for her to come back.

Married

Grow a pair.

Brooke

Either way, do you want her sampling other guys and then going back to you as her backup every year? Even if she does move out and be with this guy, she's just keeping you on ice until she sees if it will work out with the other guy. Either way, she's betraying you. And either way she's leading you on and putting false hope into you. If she is not happy, she should have told you and worked things out, not cheated. I think you should move on while she's 'trial' testing this guy and then when she comes crawling back to you, turn her down. You deserve better and it'll take a lot of hard work to repair the damage and trust in your marriage and it may not even be possible at that point. You decide for yourself, but if I were you, I'd move on.

Shiloh

Why would you beg someone who cheated on you to stay? She should be begging you.

She's treating you like you're garbage. Tell her you wouldn't have her back for anything and then spend a looooong time building up your self esteem before you even think about starting another relationship.

frglvr29

She doesnt love you and she is trying to let you know- please leave her alone you are going to end up hurt

unhitched

Just get a ho.

Tiffany

yes it is over. if she was coming back to you why would she just leave for 3 months...think about it she was just telling you something to try and make you feel better to make you think their was a hope you two would get back together. you guys seem like you have some communication issues since she stated she is not happy anymore dont beg and cry for her back man up if she wants to be with someone else let her. go find yourself a woman who will realize what a great man she has life is too short to be miserable alone tell her its fine with you if she wants to ruin the marriage and go be with someone who will love you for you.

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