I'm trying to find my friend to tell him that i'm pg but i cant get in touch with him cause hes in the army.

candipilo

If you have any idea what base he is stationed at, you might be able to find him if you know his last name and social security number, but since you don't know his unit, I doubt you know his social. You can try contacting the base locator to find him, there is probably a number for the base operator in the local phone book, but my advice is to start making plans to make decisions for the baby yourself, since it seems unlikely you will find him. If he is the father, hope that he will call you, and do the right thing by you. Good luck. I hope it all works out, my prayers are with you and your baby.

MumboVonJumbo

Ask his mom.

sidulrike

Try putting his name as an email address at the military email, e.g. for John Doe youÂ´d use john.doe@us.army.mil
:-), that usually works! if he has a middle name, put it as an initial in the middle (john.x.doe@us.army.mil)
or ask his recruiter if he signed up at your hometown - heÂ´ll know exactly where heÂ´s at and can get him in touch with you.
Good luck!

nobody

is your "friend" the dad?
if he is you need to get in touch with his parents and if that doesn't work you can go through the army somehow, not really sure how to do that

Rich

talk to his parents and get his address or see if he has a e-mail addy

american_viper

Leave the guy alone he has enough problems!!

kkiaserdrago

If he is in basic, or deployed, the only way to contact him is the red cross. The red cross can get a hold of him, no matter were he is, and get a message to him. They are very helpful, and its free.

ne.146t9

Speak with his family, in most cases the family will be able to contact the military to let the family member know about things.

Tasty

YOU CAN TRY CALLING A FAMILY MEMBER OR ONE OF HIS FRIENDS IF YOUM HAVE THIER NUMBER OR CALL THE ARMY AND TELL THEM YOU HIS SISTER AND U WANT TO GET IN CONTACT WITH HIM BECAUSE THIER IS SOMETHING IMPORTANT HE NEED TO KNOW ABOUT HIS FAMILY.

Mrsjvb

Unfortunately, if you do not have his social security number or the name of his command, you will be unable to use the military or the Red Cross to find him.

and if you need to find him to tell him he's the babydaddy, well, the military will require proof(as in a DNA test) before the child will be extended any benefits. You would also need a court order from a civilian court to establish child support.

Unless he contacts you, your only option is to go through his family.

Want2BNParadise

If he is still in boot camp you will not be able to find him very easily but if not you can go to your local recruiting office and they should be able to help you.Have you tried his parents or close friends who may be in contact with him.The army's e-mail address ends with army.mil so if someone gives you an e-mail you will know it's legit

hutch19712003

Contact his family or maybe his friends to give them your info to pass onto him to contact you.

djyo

contact the military.
They really frown on daddy's abandoning their families.
No i am not saying this is what occurred.
but at anyrate, whatever state you're in...
Call the local branch, that he is in and tell his DRILL SEARGEANT what happened.
The SEARGE will probably be able to contact him, and/or get you an address to send a letter.
I wish you the very best with this.
And may GOD BLESS your new family and help you through any trialous times ahead.
DJH

Big Easy

What is his full name? I can help really write me at samuel.d.espinoza@us.army.mil ok? This is not a joke.

faerie

Contact his parents and ask for an address or give them you number to give to him

bob_guy09

well heres what you should do you should wright a letter and mail it or bring it to an army recruiting center and have them find out were your friend is stationed and have them send it to him for you!

Ash

contack his parents and his comanding officer to find out where he is to tell him that you are gonna have a baby

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