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I`m not mean, your just a sissy
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tell his wife |
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Gotz V
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No, he's allowed to do that as long as he's not banging any strippers. How about you mind your own business? |
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don c
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be a man and not a snitch
if the behaviour is SO disgusting, why are you there taking pix
I think between the two of you
your behaviour is worse |
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Teekno
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Man, you must have an axe to grind against this guy. |
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Patti
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Is having fun against the law for commissioned officers? I don't think going to strip clubs and getting drunk are the most fun activities, but who are you to tell people what to do in their spare time? Get off your high horse and get a life |
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cmdrbnd007
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Good grief, mind your own business and let him live his life. Now if he's driving drunk that's a different matter and hopefully he will be busted for that. |
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Mike K
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It isn't illegal, so you don't have anything. If he's truly "drunk," perhaps he could be charged with drunk in public, but that takes a police officer to determine on the scene. This isn't enough to qualify as "conduct unbecoming of an officer." I'd recommend you leave the private investigator work you seem to have taken up as a hobby alone. |
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granddad1070@sbcglobal.net
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If he's off duty and in civilian clothing,it's his business and his wife's.
Go spouting this crap to the command and you'll find yourself in deep crap.
You'll be on every SH**LIST as a trouble maker.
You could find yourself on Penguin Watch in the Antarctic |
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Mark A
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2 things.
1. Is it illegal for him to do this?
2. Is it against some moral conduct, i.e. unbecoming an officer?
If neither of these 2 things, leave him alone.
In fact, even if he is not "in the right", what business is it of yours to rat him out? |
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fight obama's lies
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Whats the problem? Is he getting your 'exclusive Bar girl' to dance for him?
Unless he's operating a motor vehicle DUI/DWI, let it slide.
Maybe you need to change your drinking location.
No one likes a snitch! |
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bud68
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Why don't you mind your own business? |
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Dawg Star
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This is a matter between him and his wife. He is not breaking any UCMJ law or Civil Law.
If this was against the law then you also were breaking the law by just being there recording him.
Which recording someone with video and audio without their consent is against the law, unless you have a court order and are a law enforcement officer. |
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bs
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Is he on duty while at the bar? Being married and getting lap dances isn't a crime, but I do believe stalking is! If he bothers you this much, then don't hang out where he is. No one likes a rat! |
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krs_schill
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No. As long as you don't have any proof he had an affair, he has done nothing wrong in the eyes of the military. |
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dr_law2003
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What evidence? As a military attorney, I can assure you that unless he's doing this while in the execution of his duties, you have no case. I would actually investigate you for being a stalker. Do you have a grudge against this officer? It certainly appears that you do... What business is it of yours if this officer gets drunk on the weekends and gets lap dances? Is he showing up to work drunk or hung over? If not, then mind your own business and get a life. As far as an award or reward, I would award you a field grade article 15 if you continue to stalk this officer. |
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afungarn
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Militarily there is nothing wrong with what he's doing as long as it's not in uniform or on duty. I personally would tell his wife but she may consent to it and it could blow up in your face as stalking. You might want to consider why your motives and get a life. |
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Quasimodo
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What do you care. What's the matter...he give you 30 days latrine cleaning duty or something? |
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Mike S
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Get a life and leave the other dude alone. Don't be such a weasel. |
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Laird C
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Is he actually breaking a law? No.
Is he doing this in uniform? If no, then the service doesn't care, either.
Whatever your moral outrage may be - and I agree, he sounds like a personal sleaze-bag - so long as he's breaking no laws, nor wearing a uniform during his escapades, you've got a whole lot of nothing. |
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Charlie
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You want a reward for ratting out a fellow servicemember? Must be a new Army out there, glad I joined the Marine Corps.
Do yourself a favor, get the hell out of the military because your attitude is unsat. |
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John
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No you can not get any reward for turning him in and why would you expect one. I think you have to ask yourself what is your real motivation here and while his behavior may not be the best it will probably catch up with him but he has not crossed the line yet. Maybe his marriage is on the rocks and he has nothing to look forward to but another eighteen months of deployment in the sand for the third or fourth time! Give the guy a break and remember-what goes around, usually comes around. |
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Words Twice
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Um, can I buy those tapes from you? If my GF finds out she's gonna kill me! |
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Mrsjvb
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reward? uh no. the military will not get involved unless it negatively impacts his duties as an Officer.
absolutely MOST it might impact his ability to get promoted if it becomes common gossip.
unless you personally are being affected, tain't none of your business. If you are the guys spouse.. then divorce him and move on if it bugs you so much. |
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Gretch
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Isn't stalking illegal? He's perfectly within his rights as an American citizen unless he happens to be wearing his uniform at the time. I'd suggest you lay off and maybe take some serious time to reflect on your own life. |
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matt v
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It's a lap dance not a bj...get a life...pay twenty bucks and get one yourself, you might like it! |
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le VicSter!
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What are you doing? Following him around on his down time?
How do you even know for SURE that this man is an officer in the Army, huh? You DON'T.
-- Much like what you do in your own time is your business, the same applies to him.
Unless his extracurricular activities is negatively effecting his role as an officer (which having a few drinks and getting a lapdance is not), you can't touch him. |
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jdfhq
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Oh my god. What the hell, after all the guy has done and you won't let him have his fun. While, you sit him wacking it after a normal day this guy works his *** off and you won't let him get his kicks. |
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Dicko
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If he is doing this in uniform, or in front of Other Ranks, then he is not clever, and is bringing himself, his service, and his commission into disrepute. That is not an option. Conduct unbecoming, etc, etc. Naughty.
If he is in civvies and out of sight of anyone of a lesser rank, especially Other Ranks, but too near to barracks for comfort, then he is simply not clever, and will inevitably be seen.
In both cases, Mrs may not be too thrilled about it, I agree.
If on the other hand, he invited his fellow Officers along, and they all had a go, then to my mind, that is par for the course, as long as the soldiers don't find out!
Again it's a question of age and maturity; lieutenants are expected to get drunk and make total arses of themselves - as long as they keep it away from their men and don't embarrass the Forces. We used to get up to all sorts of extreme silliness... Colonels do not. |
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jcc
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omg the man is getting a lap dance and having a few drinks leave him alone, the person who should be mad and obviously doesn't care is his wife. if he is not cheating on her then he is doing nothing wrong, stay out of it because you could be the one getting in trouble or have your life made very hard by sticking your nose in were it doesn't belong |
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