Is anyone concerned with all the military men that go to strip clubs?

Abundant Love and Blessings 2 U

It is suprising how some women will happily let their hubbys go to strip bars and others will file for divorce over it. Both scenerios are extremely common in the military. There are so many strip clubs on Oahu as well as *massage* parlors where you can get a massage with a happy ending. There are also alot of military bases on this one little island. As someone above said "supply and demand."

A huge percentage of these guys are young, first time away from mommy and have money to burn. They have very little responsibilies and probally are only making a motorcycle payment. I did know of a few military wives who were strippers. One was also a mommy of 2 and used the money to pay for her new car.

My ex husband, a military member, would frequent these places often. I objected since it put a HUGE wegde between us, emotionally and financially, plus it took time away from the kids and I.

Personally I think these clubs and parlors exploit young women. There's back rooms where much more than what goes on on stage happens. Many do *date* the patrons and keep in contact via cell, text messaging and email. I agree that that military members could be using their time in more constructive ways than the exploitation of women.

michael n

um...what?...i dont know what makes you tihnk that thats whats happening but uhhh....its really not lol.

GreenBeansRevenge

brothels often spring up around military bases. supply and demand.

Lisa

What about all the other civillian men who also go to strip clubs. They're just as guilty and they aren't even at war.

nysportsbabe

Many of my shipmates have gone to strip clubs including women. As long as you don't get into trouble, you can do what you want. Our rules specify that you can not go in uniform and embarrass the service.

Men are men, women are women......

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Ricktoff

I think you've been cheated on at one point or another.

Not all of us are cheaters. I've never cheated on any of my girlfriends or my ex wife. I used to go to strip clubs but mostly to get models for my paintings. You see I'm a multi award winning artist (or at least I used to be).

Don't judge us all by your bad experiences.

wiseolguy

whats wrong with that? they trust their man why are you so concerned? I have never brought home a stripper, they are there only for the money

Men are men, no matter if they are in a uniform or not. Its just the way they are built. As long as its not my hubby, its not my business.

gcbtrading

They deserve it! Thanks strippers for supporting our troops!

Knight Errant

Support a stripper? Did you stop to consider that maybe she IS a stripper? You make it sound as if you expect military personnel to be holier than priests. Wait a sec, most of them probably are, as they don't preach such garbage to the congregation then molest little boys. The only "innocents" in this world are babies. People start lying at a very young age.

You're basically judging every person who goes to a 'club' based on what you've probably heard from someone else who may have had a grievance with their spouse either real or imagined. There are plenty of women who get mad at their husbands if they even look in the general direction of a pretty woman. Such insecurities are childish in the extreme and are frequently passed down from mother to daughter.

Seriously, I'd suggest you seek psychiatric help.

Hammer

MYOB.

chappye7

No leave them alone.

Razr

What about all the married women who go to chip & dales when their husbands are overseas? are you cheating if you see someone nude?

Laughing Man Copycat

WOOOOOOOOOOO----HOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

Let the boys be boys once and a while. They're doing a good job and need this superficial sense of debauchery...Its just a little harmless fun and I think our boys deserve a table dance. PLUS! Somebody's got to pay for these girls going to college.

Navy Sailor - GAI

Is this how you really spend your time? Get your own life and worry about that.

Diggy

you'll understand when you're older

nana4dakids

O.K. No, I would not be pleased if my husband went to a strip club. Has he gone to them? Yes he has. But I know that he is a good man and he always came home to me. That was years ago when we were in college and now we have been married nearly 26 years. I don't condone the places but I think if a military man wants to go he should be able to.

I really don't think that if a man goes to a strip club it will effect the way they do business on the battle field. One has nothing to do with the other.

Babe

Men go to strip clubs, that is what they do. It is not only military men. I used to work in an all male environment and the men talked me into going to a high class club with them. Nothing but ugly women who have a good shape who can kick and squat. There was no cheating going on, but just like Jimmy Carter, I'm sure they lusted in their hearts.

im not sure why you think their is strip clubs in iraq these people are way to extreme but that bumper sticker is for strippers maybe she use to be one our it could have been on it when she bought it any way you look at it your boy freind-husband probably looks at them to

retired military wife

My husband went to strip clubs on occasion mostly when TDY, but he never came close to spending too much...he's too cheap!

I looked at it this way - where would I rather have my husband when he was on liberty during TDY? At a strip club where the women were only interested in his money? Or at a regular bar where there were women nearly as undressed and looking for a one night stand? When I looked at it with that perspective, suddenly strip clubs weren't so bad after all.

If a man is going to cheat on you, he'll cheat on you whether or not he goes to strip clubs. If you can't trust your man, maybe you shouldn't be with him. The one time my husband crossed a line he shouldn't have crossed while in the military (not far enough over the line for me to divorce him) was in a regular bar, not a strip club. And I wouldn't have known anything about it if he wouldn't have told me.

I never worried about my husband going to a back room with a woman at a strip club. He wouldn't and didn't spend that kind of money.

I have no doubt that military wife driving that car was a stripper.

I've been to quite a few strip clubs myself, both with and without my husband - female strippers who paid absolutely no attention to me, female strippers who obviously went both ways, gay male strippers (without my husband), and male strippers where only female customers were allowed.

***Starsha43, in response to your additional question about how did this woman become a stripper - did it occur to you that maybe she became a stripper after she married him? Some guys get into other men "appreciating" their wife.

utahmike41

Nope. As long as there is a military there will be strip clubs. So I could really care less.

conranger1

The majority of the Armed Forces are Young White / Colored / Hispanic...etc...etc.... Single Men, if they want to go look at naked young things then its there business.

If married men go to strip joints it does not say much for their commitment to their marriage.

But, we could also ask why do girls / women married or single lust after Chippendale type boy strippers??

Whats good for the Goose is also Good for the Gander :-P

Zapata

NO, I am more concerned about them going to war without the proper equipment or under the orders of politicians and not a military person.

gib000

I've been in the military my whole adult life and where ever we go a group of us go to the strip club. It's a bonding time and many strippers are very patriotic.

Doc

First, either learn to spell or type a little more slowly. Either way it goes, you should review your work before hitting "send."
Why do women want to emasculate men? You'd rather we go to a gay club and hang out with the fellas? Perhaps if their wives were making it more interesting for them at home, they wouldn't be driven to seek out fantasy and adventure elsewhere. Here's a hint, at THOSE clubs, we're not there to have long, painfully drawn out coversation about our feelings. Are we to behave like MEN or giddy, school girl sissies?

Maciej b

They do it cuz there no fun in thier life

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