Military & spouses?

usafbrat64

19 years, 1 remote, 17 TDYs, 5 deployments, no cheating! It can be done and we're the rule not the exception!

Scrooby

I'm in the military and my wife cheated on me and left me, and I got a note FIVE DAYS before I got back from my second deployment(got back 2 months ago) that she was taking my truck & **** and leaving.. hope that helps answer your question.

jalopina98

my hubby messed up on his first deploymnent, so it's hurt our trust there but its been 3 years and 4 deployments sinces so its a work in progress.

liv t

I know alot of chicks doing that to, I haven't; it's hard to be apart but F@#$ we gotta stick together we got kids and love and all that. All those chicks probably do it when they are home to.

woofywaffles

It depends on the person. If you (and your spouse) are loyal obviously you wont have a problem. If you love each other and can bear the speration they you'll be ok. Obviously some people cant.
Sorry Scrooby, she wasnt worth it anyway. Marry me!

SoldiersGirl

no we have not cheated, its not easy. there are those who do, i have no respect for the ones i see acting a fool!

christina j

this will be my dh 3rd deployment and neither of us has ever thought about cheating at all , its all about the trust in you marriage and staying away from all the wrong people, i have heard the stories and i have seen it happen ;, you have young women coming into the military life and cant cope with the fact of being alone for one reason or another and then they find one person to be nice to them and its over and then you have the clubbers the day thier hubby leaves they are in the club to drink it away and end up cheating , dont get me wrong because we do have alot of good military wives but you only hear about the bad ones and its funny to because you never hear about the men either , its like what happens in iraq stays in iraq , but you have alot of men over thier and some mess around with the other personel and others have cyber affairs with the ones they swear they dont care about it was just an internet thing , ive seen it happen to a good friend luckily she left the sob, but its all gonna depend on the persons them self and if you really love your husband and he really loves you then you have no worries ,.

~Katie~

My husband and I haven't cheated on one another during deployment. It is hard, but you got to do it! It gets easier when you don't think about it, but it will never be easy!

~Snizz~

My husband went to war and when he came back his exwife served him with divorce papers. She had cheated on him several times while he was gone. While he was defending our country another man played with his children.
It broke my heart when I heard of it.
I think it's common. Terrible, but common.

â™¥ Infantry Wife â™¥

neither my husband nor i have ever cheated on a deployment...we are committed to our marriage and to each other...we're getting ready for a our 3rd deployment..

the divorce rate for the military is not higher then our civilian counterparts...honestly a person is going to cheat either because of a deployment or not...

dawnd_444

I did 5 years in the Navy where I met my husband. I got out and he is still in. Going on 12 years. He has been on plenty of deployments and we have never cheated on each other. It does happen, but if you trust your husband I wouldn't worry about it. Dwelling on the what-ifs will just make the deployments harder. Good luck!!

dead7

cheating is common regrettably I have seen it from both sides actve duty and as a civvy as for myself my wife and i had an understanding and the "cheating" was removed from the equation. The multi deployments are hurting the families for several reasons such as "if I have to do everything myself I might as well be single" attitude. Post Tramatic Stress the stress that the spouse has for their spouse/home and the changes in general to the service member and spouse

hmparks_usn

My husband and I are both active duty and both of us have been deployed at separate times. I can proudly say that I have never cheated on my husband and nor has he cheated on me. Not cheating on him is easy. The thought of losing him because I couldn't keep my hands to myself is the scariest and stupidest thing ever. I have zero respect for women who can't keep their legs closed for the length of a deployment (and I have met a lot)... there is no better way to thank your husband for serving his country then to have him come home to find you with your ankles behind your ears!! Dumb women!!

john stud

just make sure that your "toy" is always charged up and ready to go - keeps you from cheating!

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