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My wife wants me to re-enlist in the marines but i dont want to. been to iraq too many times?

i have had bad experiences in iraq and all my wife can think about is free housing and free medical and a guaranteed pay check what should i tell her
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i know i had some dumb questions before that was my friends doing i really do have problems with my wife and i apologize for those obscene questions ok. she is just want money free housing, free menical and a guaranteed paycheck like i said before. she has faked a pregnacy before and she also has no proof at all that she ever had cancer when we first got married i mean she is older than me by 4 years and its like she controls me and threatens to leave me if i dont re-enlist so all this bertains to i am not full of it it was my friends acting a fool when i leave the room


    




Mad & Proud American
I only have 2 children, both males and both Marines. I hope this will spread the word. I'm sure all Military are told the same thing.... It's good to get married because you get bigger pay checks, benefits, etc. so they encourage it. What they don't tell you is that all those benefits end up costing you more in the long run. Would you (being the military one) have more money in your pocket without a spouse spending all of your money while you are risking your life for our country? Love and marriage is a wonderful thing if done for the right reasons. Like anyone else, follow your heart and not the benefits.


THEFOX
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As a former Marine I seen this before notably with E-5 Sergeant whose wife was a school teacher. Sadly the sergeant wasn't a very motivated person and his wife was probably right, he'd be a nothing on the outside as a civilian, do you fall into that category? Incidentally he shipped over the third time just slightly before 'Nam, he went and I believe he made it back okay.


webjnke1
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yeah tell her SHE should enlist this time


sunpekes
Are you sure she loves you?
Or your wallet?


Mrsjvb
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hey, if she wants all those bennies, tell her to enlist. No one should be forced to remain in the military if they are no longer getting anything out of it. I'd say you'd be better off if you do get out and she leaves you.


Saadi
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She appears to be pro-Iraq lady.
Wants to provide sufficient material to the Iraqis to avenge US invasion.


mac77
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Tell her to enlist and go to Iraq with you. I'm sure if she goes there, she'll have a better understanding where you are coming from. Anyway, thanks for serving this country.


msqtech
take her with you to the chaplain and get him to help you with counseling about this and help you explain it to her.

Good luck and God Bless!!


meathead76
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What does your mailman look like?


Toni_busy
Tell her SHE should go ENJOY the experience!


achefsalad
your wife wants you to die so she can get benefits


ishotvoltron
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Tell her, "I'm not too hyped on dying, honey."


cassiefrost25
Tell her that it's YOUR life and YOUR well-being. If she's so concerned about the benefits, she needs to enlist. And I hate to say this but it sounds like she's more concerned about her own material needs than your marriage. You need to put your foot down and let her know she's not in charge of your life. That's really messed up on her part, in my opinion.


just common sense
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I, too, read your other questions and I agree completely with amyza29 ~ you're full of it!

Based on your questions, you are an out of control attention seeker. Please seek professional counseling instead of attention.

With professional help, you should be able to lead a NORMAL and mentally/emotionally healthy life.

As it is, you're doing nothing but wasting the time of people who believe they are truly giving you their best advice.

Shame on you!


myjamsandwich
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Did u say u were a Marine? By the way you are talking I really don't believe you.


chicky
Ask her why she is so anxious to get rid of you.


leowin1948
Iraque is invitation to death.Compensation after death attractive.


King
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well any one who thinks only about amneties and not about your life is a definite gold digger


people of world
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one more thing she has in mind.......a..nother man!


james d
if you feel she love you to see you fight for your country ,then what are you waiting for. but if she want you to die for her selfish interest. you have a decision to make.


Genune
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Check if she has an affair with your neighbor.... seriously.


vasile b
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go for it


usmcali
shes what we in the business call a dependapottamus





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