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Please don't hate me.!!!?

I know I didn;t come off right with you guys. I know I'm stupid for cheating on my husband. I've thoughtit over and I want to save the marraige. Should I keep it from him that I cheated on him or should I tell him?


    




MAG
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go for it


FVCK YAHOO LIBERALS!
If you were my wife you'd be out on the curb. Despicable!


WeapX Rock The Red
This section has been ruined..

RIP military section -February 2009


Dr Fegg
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I am trying not to hate you. but it isn't easy.


Kristin
Tell him, if you want to save your marriage he has a right to know.

What you did was very wrong, be prepaired for a divorce - because if you were my wife that's what would be happening.

And if you choose not to tell him, and he finds out - I can tell you it will not be pretty.

Tell him and truth and let him decide if he still wants you or not.

(I'm not even going to start on how I feel about this issue, what were you thinking? he is a hero who is saving your *** every day? you have 4 children where is your mind at girl?)


.
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He must be fighting for your freedom overseas, huh? You were so dead wrong to cheat on him. If you can live with your guilt, keep it a secret. If you can't, tell him. You risk losing him either way, and a cheater deserves that.


The Ghost of Stan Darsh
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tell him and let him make the decision.


Alex B
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i hate you, you rude person


whoaa!
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tell him.

he has the right to know.


Don't Care
just tell him and see what happens. save the marriage if you can but you really messed **** up.


Horse Up
The only thing you really need to worry about is who gets the last laugh in the end. I can tell you one thing. It won't be you. Why should we hate you for that?


☆ AsH ☆
uuuu sllaaagg


sarge927
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If you truly love and respect your husband, you'll tell him and face the consequences. If he kicks you to the curb, you have no one to blame but yourself for cheating on him. If he forgives you, consider yourself the luckiest person on the planet and DO NOT EVER cheat on him again. Remember, the men and women of the U.S. Marine Corps personify the highest level of honor you will ever find. Your husband deserves an honorable wife, and you will dishonor him if you try to hide your affair from him. Think of it this way: If the tables were turned and he cheated on you, how would you feel if he tried to hide it from you?


mommym00n
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If you tell he he may or maynot forgive u but if u keep it form him and he finds out from someone else later he really will not forgive u you should come clean and take you chances maybe he will forgive u.


darien j
yes, you should tell your husband because if you keep it from him then and he finds out then he'll be asking why you didn't tell him in the first place and just maybe he'll divorce you. but first of all, you should have cheated on him on the first place so if he does divorce you for cheating on you its all on you.


wmayers99
Keep your mouth shut and your pants on except for him. It's that simple.


Rawbert
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Honesty and communication is what works in marriage...
You must tell him. If he finds out another way, well.....


sarahmayyy
thats a really hard because if you told him it would probably break his heart and knowing how guys are hed probably leave you for some time to think

its good to be honost with person no matter what, but you have to think if you truely did love your husband more then anything maybe youd never put yourself in the postion of cheating on him


because you totaly betrayed him

i dont know you or your husband but ive been in your shoes before and i know how guilty and how horriable you feel

but when i did it i told the guy who was only my boyfriend at the time and he left me and didnt wanna have thing to do with me no matter how hard id try to make peace with him and that was 5yrs ago and he still hates me till this day because i really broke his heart.


KellahPanda
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If you want to save your marriage it is necessary to take the steps to tell your husband. It might not be your decision after you tell him whether or not the option to save the marriage is possible. Best of luck, and I hope you can save the marriage.


Yahooer
you should either brake up the marriage.. if you think your going to do it again.. or he will find out.. or dont tell him.. it says your a marine wife.. im an arm wife also.. its really hard.. and i have a baby.. its even harder.. but if you loved your husband you woulnt of cheated


namix8
he might have cheated on you too i say tell him


tiberiu_chibici_1994
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Tell him, apologize sincerely, say you are sorry, and promise that it will never happen again.


sweet_DVL
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Shoot yourself or he is going to do that!!!!
I would!!!


Craig S
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Pack and be prepared to leave, then tell him in person. You did the most awful thing to him. No wonder our boys are over there going crazy when half of their wives are back home screwing other guys! Despicable.


The Ghost of Craiggers
He'll find out eventually if you try to hide it from him, people always do.

Cheaters never prosper.


alex
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I don't even know what your talking about. When you post things only a handful of people see it and there are thousands and thousands of people on this site so we have no idea what your talking about


Ranger Danger
Bea man and tell her.


sherilasvegas
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That is very hard. If it was for me, I would ask forgiveness from God and not tell him.
A Friend of mine cheated on her husband a few years ago, she never told him till this day, but she did go to the church ask forgiveness and did counseling. She is at peace with it now.





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