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if your husband or boyfriend, would be sent to iraq for a year, could you be faithful to him for a year?


    




happily_living_2gether
He is risking his life for you and millions of other people. How can you not be turned on by that? If you couldn't handle the military life, then maybe you shouldn't have married one. I despise people who cheat on their husbands/wives while they are risking their lives for your freedom.


zen
My man has been over there for almost 2 years now.

I have been completely faithful to him. He is the best man on Earth, and WELL worth waiting for!

He calls me as often as he can, and we send lots of emails.

Best of luck to you! Come home soon, safe and sound! :-))


shepardj2005
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Okay here is the meaning of fidelity:
fidelity (n.) Faithfulness to obligations, duties, or observances.

Now marriage ceremonies mostly include some similar jargon about promises of love, honor and cherish until death do us part! That doesn't mean unless one goes to Iraq for a year.

It's difficult when a spouse or boyfriend is away for long periods of time. But life isn't about simplicity. It has challenges and responsibilities and we as adults must learn to cope and to work at those things (and relationships) which are worth working toward and for! Don't you think so?


Flowergirl
Of course! I'd be waiting with open arms.


gailforce_wind
Yes of course.


Gypsy
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YES. With out a doubt. If I am with someone, it's because they are worth the effort.


heartofglass
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yes i could i was brought up till death do you part same with boyfriend you just dont cheat i mean your fighting for our freedom back here thats admiralable i love men in uniform i always think how would i feel if someone cheated on me been there its no fun i could never do that to another person make them go through that how aweful. they say when you fall in love with someone it doesnt go away i broke up with someone well it was mutual 11 years ago i still carry a place. faithful is forever in my book when i took a vow thats what i meant . till death do us part. whats a year when you know that you be together a lifetime its a short 12 months i would look at it as a time to get into the best shape of my life get things together and not have to worry about a pregnancy happening while you were away. i would miss my husband but i would look at all the good things like less laundry i get the remote to myself i get to eat the last of say the ice cream make the most out of it while the person is away and when they get back you relize just what they mean to you they say distance makes the heart grow fonder i dated a marine i waited 8 months for him to come back to me he never did but i waited i even quit my job and waited for the call to go to him. when i love someone i give my whole heart not just a piece it. it takes a special lady to keep the home fires burning it takes a greater man to fight for them over there our country takes our soilders for granted we need to do more for them . i just want to say thank you guys and girls of the armed forces for doing the jobs that you do words can not express my gratitude enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!stay safe our prayers are with you all!!!!


sweetgirl
hell yes....my man is and i am 100% faithful


Hassen
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Of course I would! I take my wedding vos very seriously and would never do anyting to contradict those. Just because he's not physically with me doesn't mean the vows are null and void.


We won! 20 Jan 09 (Erudite)
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NO! I'd be banging the first day. He'd never find out. Let the hips start moving!!


sam
Absolutely. I may have to take care of myself, but I would never cheat on him


desiderio
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A year in Korea and a year in Iraq, plus all the field time in between hasn't led me anywhere else but home in 6 years. I see it a lot though, and it's sad. Those women have no integrity, no loyalty, and no respect for their families or themselves. If you can't handle being a military wife, don't marry the soldier, or put up a bigger fuss when hubby wants to join.


ohmeshell
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Yes. If you have enough love and trust for your boyfriend/husband, you can stick it out. That's what love is all about.


lovemusic
yes because I LOVE HIM too much to cheat on him


csucdartgirl
Yes, and for longer. Cheating is wrong and not something I do.


greeneyedkorean
YES! I love my husband and would be too worried about him to even think about that. My husband is my world and cheating is not worth it to me!


Shelley F
Yes. My husband is gone two weeks on , two weeks off his assignment--sometimes he's gone 6 weeks. We are separated more than half the time, and I have every confidence in his fidelity, and there is never any questioning if I am faithful. The best thing is to keep him in prayer, to be thankful for him, and to WEAR YOUR RING. Being faithful is easy when youlove someone--being unfaithful ruins everything, for you and for him and for your family. God bless you.


vanessa w
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yes


Jessica
I know how you feel. The guy i love is going back into the airforce. You know what, you just have to realise how much worst he has it. and yes i would be 110%. Becouse when your in love with a perosn they place #1 in things you care about!

GOOD LUCK

GOD BLESS OUR TROOPS

ooo i forgot to say: go watch the movie jarhead so you can see how people on the millitary feel when they get cheated on=(


Ashley D
my husband(ex now, but nothing to do with this) was in iraq for a total of 2 yrs, and was away training for roughly 8 months before he left for iraq, I was 100% faithful. If you can't be faithful during a time like that then you aren't ready for a committed relationship.


andreanw21
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Yes. I am being faithful to the man I love who is fighting his heart out in Iraq right now. I wil be happy to welcome him in my arms whe he gets home, both of us knowing I was waiting for him patiently the whole time.


c_chell24
Yes, because he is fighting for your freedom amongst other americans, the least you can do is love him, and support and stay faithful!





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