Why do alot of soldiers wives cheat on them and take all of the soldiers money while they serve in Iraq?

Eric L

Enough with pampering the accused girls' "needs".

Lurch

Some women are a word that I can't type here, but it ryhmes with "bunts".

Sandra

Your hanging out with the wrong guys. My husband is Navy. He is on the USS Houston station out of guam, he goes away for months at a time. I would never do that. I guess some women get tired of being alone. I don't know, cant really relate to being a gold digger but it is really hard being in love with a guy in the military.
Sandra

jackpi21

They used to just send you a dear John letter, now when you get home someone else owns the house and is living there! There are gold digging serial wife's that do this over and over again and again! And the government permits them to get away with it!

Cassie W

Oh it got to be wife ,what about husband cheating on wife why on duty my Dad told me about how mens was in Vietnam and you are right it is cold blooded but it is a two way street ,men cheat on wife when he on duty also.

Shock and Awe

Listen its not just female spouses, male spouse cheat too. And alot of dual military relationships go south. The main reasons (and I see the FACTS and hear the reasons first hand due to my job in Legal) seemed to plain old lack of interest, no communication, abuse, lust and the ability to upgrade to something better just like a Windows 98 to XP to Vista. Even if its temporary. Thing is people don't know how to cheat and can't let a foul, good feeling go. They leave a trail and then...blam, their caught and confuse this new thing as a relationship.

No honor and commitment. I have seen some cold-blooded stuff. Re-up bonuses gone that the Soldier earned. Whole bank accounts drained. Houses emptied. Children with no contact with the other parent deployed. Foul shyt.

But....its not all a one-sided issue. Sometime the other half was flawed and foul too! And knows its karma time. You can't cheat or be abusive and expect nothing to happen while your oppressive azz is gone. This needs to be brought up. Also the reason why it also seems like its always women is simply the military is like 70% males and 60% married. Just math.

Bottom line:
You can't justify bad behavior with more bad behavior. And the first marriage for most people is just a training aid.

Shore Patrol Det Subic 83 - 86

1. I doubt you have ever been in the military

2. The number of cheaters is very low, about the same as the number of guys that get some strange when away from home.

terlynn_1370

Evidently you didn't have a strong marriage to begin with. Why do some military men cheat on their wives while deployed and their wife is home taking care of the family? It happens both ways and I don't know if I'd say "a lot". Whether it's military life or a civilian job, long distance relationships are tough. Some people can't make it. It all takes work. I know communication can be difficult when deployed (my husband is active duty AF), but you make the most of what you have. Most often there was trouble brewing before the deployment (whether the couple realized it or not), and the deployment added to it.

Too Old For Idol

A lot? In 30 years I had two troops with that type of problem. One was wife with round heels. Second was guy with guy desires.

I'd transfer to another outfit if what you say is true. Bad leadership.

B K

it works both ways i think....

but no woman has the right to do that and then take everything from them too. im an army wife and ive seen it done several times. like stated above, some people arent strong enough to survive a military lifestyle. it definitely takes some getting used....

but either way.... dont be a "B" about it. just tell them you're not happy and pack your **** and leave. haha

USA FLYBOY 182

It works both ways unfortunately. There was never mutual love. Ya I no it`s tough for the one at home to but. If there was no mutual love from the beginning that is why. You can look at it any way you want but that is the reason. Real love will last though any thing.........Any thing!

PS (ANY THING)

Italian climber

cuz the marriage for women means start their own business
and if they fail... well they can fixed with a divorce and start
all over again....
in one way or another they get alot money..

I like women I love women but I never trust em

PS there is a good book,, title is

"In Bed With the Enemy "

you should read that!!!

DeeZyDaDon!

Because they're evil. And lazy. But -daps- I went through the same thing.

Da DoN!

I , a happy Bolshevik

Because that women are not real patriots!

aaaaaaaaahahahahaha!

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