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Wtf my husband is in Iraq and still cheating ...........?

so i have been married for 5 years but out of those 5 years ive been with him like 3 if that hell im okay without him i have fun but i know my limits he was home for RR like 2 years ago and he sneaked out of the house and then came back the next morning and after he left for training he admitted to cheating ( that was one time 2 years ago) and now he tells me to check his email and this other broad that is down there with him asks were it would be a good place to meet at and she sends him dirty pics like wtf should i like play it off.... I mean after all i go out and he doesn't know hell he would kill me if he finds out that i go out he doesn't even like me going to the gym....its sooo frustrating idk what to do honestly i do miss him and love him but i think he has issues.
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No its not even a iraqui girl its one of his fellow buddies..........


    




drillsgtsgirl
Find a new man! He sounds like he has plenty of issues and cheating is just one! Wow, find yourself a man worth having. I did. I ended up with my ex-husband's good friend he served with in Germany. My man was a cheating piece of work, so I got the divorce rolling and found me a great man! He won't stop. Just get it over with now.


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Maybe you should find a new husband.


blondeqtpie13
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If your husband is cheating you need to divorce him. Don't put up with that crap.


roninryu8
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Are you serious? So now you know he's cheated at LEAST 2 times, which I can almost guarantee you it has been more in 5 years time. Leave his ***, you can do much better.


Julia
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its not worth it


Manny Fresh
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Time to divorce.


catsangel_707
I think neither one of you is mature enough and in love enough to settle down and be truly committed. Get a divorce and start fresh.


ondra R
im on your side let him go


Daniel K
I think you should confront him with it, and if he doesn't shape up, leave him.


Mr. X
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He asks you to check his e-mails? He seems quite stupid because if he's cheating then he should have a separate e-mail for the other broads.


Some Guy
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yes he does have issues...


jayjayji
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you dont deserve to be treated like that, Im not sure why you want to stay in this marriage. cheating isnt an 'issue', its the worst thing to do to a spouse and isnt something to just brush off and hope it goes away.


corbettfan11
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It's the "new" military unfortunately.Women are more of a focal point for mischief than ever before in history.They are in combat zones along with men now and well, nature will take it's course.When i was in Vietnam specifically the Sa Dec and Vihn Long areas vietnamese girls were there but i saw NO other women in uniform or out in 1966-67 now there everywhere and you share a lot together and well bluntly she's there and you ain't.Most probably keep it professional but not all.Since he can't keep his zipper up at home on leave though it's time for therapy or a new mate .This is why i stayed single through out my Navy years.(stayed away from the vietnamese girls also didn't want my ba**ls cut off)


dubdub7196
it sounds like he's kind of tyrannical and also unfaithful, but i don't know, if it seems like he does really love you even if he is cheating, you decide, either realize you are SO over him acting like that or just talk to him about it and tell him if it happens again you seriously will leave him.


saintnick@sbcglobal.net
News flash for the confused people.
The Army is now Co-ed. She is referring to him sleeping with a female soldier.


Sounds like you just need a divorce and to start over.
You're running around, he's running around, sounds like you probably got married for the wrong reasons and nether one of you are really happy being married.

Using service/deployments as an excuse to drink. That is one of my personal pet peeves. These kind of guys don't drink because "of what they went through" or anything else. They drink because they want to and they see a free pass by society to do so because of thier service.

I'd leave him if I were you.


Andy B
im confused.. who is he f***ing in iraq???


USA!
Sounds like your both lonely and unsure. You both have issues, hell who doesn't?
Confront him and push for facts. Get as much info as possible, make a decision, and stick with it.
Personally, he sounds a bit controlling.....not good.


Chuck P
Wait-He hasn't seen you in how long, comes back for R&R, and spends the night with someone else? In the words of Dan Savage, DTMFA! I really hope you don't have kids in this mess.


djtwang
MOVE ON or fix what you have by starting over clean both of you. If you don't trust him and he doesn't trust you then you guys don't love each other b/c you can not love if you don't trust.


Pooky
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He's cheating with one of his buddies?!!

He's not telling anyone else this, is he? I think "Don't ask, don't tell" rule is still in force.


jeremy r
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He thinks because he's a soldier" he can or is obligated to get away w/ it. Its up to you.


bg15
War can screw people up, . It is really sad. You two work it out and i hope the best for you.


Syntax
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can i see the pics :)

no pics :'(


mom says i am a good guy
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there is something on u we dunno what it is he dont like to c u on it maybe he dosent like u or he want to change and u should do some thing before he leaves u looks like he wat to c the life and he afraid about u or ui dunno he is drunk >.<


MrsEdwardCullen&lt;3
talk to him about it


Ryan C
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Those iraqy girls are F***n Hot!

Make a man a sandwich, he loves you forever.

Iraqy girls do anything and think its normal WOOOAHHH



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