Anybody else disturbed by this?

madhavan n

not at all

j b

Im more disturbed that someone would wave the screen name cowboy fan... lol

noodlesmycat

Good Lord, how upsetting. That's sickening.

Shenva

My goodness. I hope it is someone just looking for attention. It's probably just a 14 year old girl looking for attention.

Stop the Hate Love instead

I will say that it seems Jolene does not have much patience for kids. That is never a good combination. Her children need to readjust to being with her, its understandable if they had been with their foster mother for several months, that thatâ€™s who they would want right now. Despite weekly visits, it was not her who was there for them 24/7. It will take time for them to get with their new routine. I donâ€™t understand why she expected them to just readjust like that. No one is a prefect parent whether they are a biological parent or an adoptive parent, Foster parent or all.

You know Cowboy fostering doesnâ€™t always equal that will get the child(ren). You can get the kid for a short time or even a long time. Most people looking to adopt through foster care go through the Fos to adopt program. Where a person actual gets placed with a child(ren) that have a very high change of being available for adoption. Sure there are risks but there are risks in adoption as a whole. Like that poor girls who posted earlier about her Aunt and Uncle possible losing the baby theyâ€™ve had for 5months.

â™¥ mocha-baby

well she's complaning on how her kids don't want her..maybe if she wouldn't be annoyed by them when they are sick and just leave them there and show that she DOES care (which I don't think she does). Those kids need to stay away from her...she is expecting too much by giving NADA in return!

Terri R

It's a sad sad world we live in. I'm hoping it was just some idiot trying to get a reaction from us. Pathetic little creature.

Hot Lips 4077

it's so not fair. my best friend has been trying to conceive for years and can't / people like this sneeze out babies and feel like they're such an inconvenience and interruption to their busy day of sitting on Y!A............

musicpanther67

I read those questions and I'd bet their are real.

As for you suggesting that all adoptive parents are so wonderful that is NOT true. Sure, a lot of them are good but trust me some are very bad. I was abused all through my childhood by my adoptive parents. I doubt they gave me a better life than my natural mother could have. Don't be so biased, adoption is good but not for every one.

littleblanket

I believe there is a part of your brain missing that allows you to have patience for others that have not had the opportunity of having good parents. It is villainous to suggest adoption for one reason, you do not know what adoption is like in reality for the KIDS. Here, let me give you your part of brain back that says you can go have your time out and journal what services should help parents like that to not lose their kids but become better parents...

Try getting mad at GW Bush for having armies kill innocents in overseas. That's a real argument.

hamilton_2332

some people are just SICK!
its hard to believe that people seriously treat kids so badly.
they are there for a reason.

applestory

yes

maybe

you missed one

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A0WTcZMP50FH6w4BbwF37hR.;_ylv=3?qid=20071119113815AAYsxLO

Lynn

This is one of those times where I just sigh and have NO IDEA of what to say...

Maalru3

Sounds very sad that her kids were allowed to go back to someone so naive and uneducated. She is clearly very selfish and her poor kids have and are suffering form her idiocy. Pathetic

snowwillow20

I think this woman needs help, there is a reason why her children were in Foster care that we are not privy too. I hope she can get her life together very soon before her children are damaged permanently. We all try to do the best for our children.

Amy B

I agree, those posts are disturbing and also a prime reason why adoption is a GOOD thing for children!

Fuzzybutt

You got that right.

tish

i must admit, this is deplorable...yet, these are often not the kids people seek to adopt. which is sad.

KLD

Well if that first question listed is true, that would explain why she got her kids taken away in the first place. I think that she should be re-investigated.

Bella

Well the first one is certainly disturbing. That person probably wasn't parented very well when they were a child. The last two are more sad then disturbing. That mother just is looking for help and want her children to know who she is. I actually just noticed that all three posts were from the same person, this is seriously disturbing. No wonder her children want to go "home". I want to know how she got her children back in the first place. Is our systems that messed up that they take children from good homes just so the state doesn't have to pay money for the foster care.

H******

There are good and bad natural parents
There are good and bad adoptive parents

Doodlestuff

Just block this person and skip their questions. I think s/he is a troll.

mtchndjnmtch2000

Right on my man. Give them to someone who cares.

hey you

yeah she sounds lousy in a way....especially the one about when the kids are sick. wow! poor kids
I have no clue what to say.
Unless its one of those teenagers who have nthing better to do then post fake questions.butif it is real.....she just got her kids back and she already dosent want to take care of them when there sick???

Joy M

Yes, I am disturbed at your lack of empathy, and violation of the TOS of Yahoo answers by deliberately attacking another user.

If we can take this poster at face-value she is in a difficult situation and your response is to go on the attack.

She could use support and parenting classes, that is no reason to rip her children away from her which would be very painful for the children involved.

I don't have any fantasies about my natural mother, I have known her for much of my life, nor do I have any fantasies that there are these super perfect adoptive parents out there, having known adoptive parents all my life.

a healing adoptee

Why, yes who wouldn't find it distrubing!! She obviously needs more parenting classess if she at one time had her kids taken away from her. She also probably needs some counseling because she is dealing with a wide range of emtions. Hopefully someone can direct her to get some help in coping. I mean i want her kids to be safe, but if she can get help, i say start there first. Then if that does not work then placing the kids back into foster care or up for adoption should be the last option.

Lover of Blue

Some people are SO not qualified to be parents!

â™¥Kymâ™¥

This is a prime example of the old saying "Anyone can be parents but not every one can be a mom and dad". She needs to act like a mom to be recognized as one. I wish I could find out who she is and report these posts to her social worker. These poor boys are going to have one hell of a bad life. She needs to get off the damn computer and be a mom.

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