I have a baby that's one year old and want to give it up for adoption,?

Okay, if having the child out of your care is what you are after then that can happen today but going to foster care or to an adoption agency, sign some papers and someone else is responsible. Both parents have to sign. I have to admit this is very cold way to seek care for your child. I feel sorry for the emotional distress you are placing on the child

Savana

Uhm..?
You're talking about your kid like it's a puppy. How could you keep YOUR child a year, and then want to put it up for adoption?? " I'm going to New York before Christmas and would like to be sorted by then." That's terrible. It seems to me like you don't want it, or you don't have enough money for Christmas presents or something. wth?

Lisa C

If for some reason you are serious and everyone else here is just crazy.... which is doubtful, I would urge you to just not give your baby to just anyone!!! Go to DSS. They might be able to help you. I adopted my son but had him with me for a long time before it was finalized. You can always do guardianship which would be a fast way and could lead to adoption. If you are interested, I will talk with you more.

rani

How sad, but this kinda thing happens a lot. I wish I could post my addy for you to drop off this gift from God at my house. Makes me cry. We have lost 3 babies in the last 2 years of trying. I hope this is a joke but even if it is, it is not a good one at all.

Winter

Instead of dealing with adoption clinics, why not run an ad in the newspaper. Say you're a young parent who would love to give your baby to a caring, loving family. Its better than having the poor baby in an adoption service. The baby will get another family much faster, and you get to see the people who decide to take her. You can even have an open adoption for a while, if you want. I know ill get many....many thumbs down, but you obviously don't want your baby, so its better to do the ad thing, than just to give her to an adoption agency and her be stuck in the "system" for a long time without a family. The only other thing you could do would be to talk to your parents, cousins, aunt, uncle. Etc to see if they want her. Of course with that, you'll have to pay child support. So its your baby and your choice. No one can stop you from getting what you want as far as giving up your baby.

Mariah Woods

Contact me for information.
I'd love to have your child seeing as how I cannot conceive.

Jasmine Mendoza

My boyfriend and I would love the opportunity to adopt your child. We have been trying to have a baby for awhile and have not been able to. We have a stable home and income to offer him or her. We would like to have the chance to know more about you and the child. In return feel free to ask any questions you may have. Best way to contact me is through my email jasmine_menn@hotmail.com

We hope to hear from you soon..

Jasmine

Amy

Contact your local depatment of child services. They will not ask many questions. Or find someone that is wanting a child.

Space Ace

I take it your very young this would be the biggest mistake of your life and the poor little babies.
I can't imagine having a baby a year bonding with them and then wanting to get rid of the baby like they are an old piece of furniture.
Is there a good reason you want to give your baby up ?
Has something happened in your life ?

Oh, Please think about this real hard look at the baby in their eyes and think about this can you bond with this baby then just get rid of them ?

The baby has bonded with you and that is such a special bond that if you do give the baby up it will hurt them they will cry for you and want you.
I will mark them for life how do I know because my brother is adopted and he said his real parents gave me up they didn't want me I hate them and he's in his 40's he's had a real hard time through life thanks to a selfish mother. His case was not a have to give you up case it was where the parents didn't want their children so five kids was then put up for adoption.
Many children are scared from this please think about what you are doing because you act like you don't care about the child at all you seem so cold hearted.
People like me who love babies and children are really hurt by this act.
This just breaks my heart !
You may live to really regret this I know the baby would !

Please think of what your about to do !

Susan

wow.

Darienâ™¥

Apparently you don't realize how sick this is.. this baby loves you, wheather you like it or not. It's been with you all it's life, and you're what it knows. I can't believe you're putting YOUR BABY in a place where it knows nobody, and finds comfort nowhere. Atleast give it to family.

asdas

Troll.

Nora

you need some counseling. you carried the baby 9 months and have had her a year. Are you not bonded with her?. find out what help you can get to keep her and get more education in order to better support her and yourself. You must be having a very hard time. Call child services or a church and ask for help

AmyV

If you were going to want a baby, get sick of it and want to travel, you should have bought a tamagotchi.

Pip

Selfish springs to mind. How can any parent put their life before their child's?

gypsywinter

What is going on here with so many questions from supposed women wanting to give their kids away???? I fear for the future of our society and our children.

Lady Rowan

I don't believe you.

love-is-everything(L)

you really need a doctor.........

I was given up for adoption at 8 months old (not taken by the state YET), only 4 months younger than the child your wanting to get rid of.

You are a horrible person.

Kelvin

stupid *** parent

Matt

Here we go once again...... The mind set people have today is sad! And the scary thing is that this person is not alone.... There are alot of people out there just like this one... They put themselves before their children and they think there is nothing wrong with it....
In the end, The one that will suffer the most is the child....
Love Few, Hate Many, Trust No One...

Mom to Foster Children

You're kidding right?

Emma

Oh my god, this is the most awful thing I have ever read. How on earth can you just get rid of a baby like this?? Just because you want to go abroad?? There are people in the world that are struggling to have babies and you have had one and just want to give it up, some people shouldn't have the opportunity to have a baby if this is how they are going to be. YOU DISGUST ME.

emmm(LLL)

why do you want to adopt, your baby for, you should have thought of this earlier.
as adopting takes along time.

Mr T

firstly you have to think about the child, then yourself!

You are talking about a human being here, not just a toy you can throw/give away when you no longer want/need it.

why did you have this baby in the first place?
what is the exact reason why you want to give her/him up?
I don't think there will be an easy way. Adoption is a lengthy process and if one of the parents objects (if known and alive) it could all go very pear shaped - not to mention any legal proceedings.

What about when he/she grows up? What are the prospective adoptive parents going to tell her/him? Oh your mom didn't want you anymore??????
Think about the emotional stress you as one of the parents, the other parent, the child and any other relatives may have to go through. Maybe not only now but also later in life.

Aren't there any relatives/friends you could give 'in loco parentis'? (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/In_loco_parentis) This means those appointed will act on your behalf as if they were the parents.

If I were you I would think really long an hard before doing what you are suggesting.

Amy

i really hope this is some sort of joke. how can you have had a baby for a year and now want to give it up? and you want to just have it off your hands by christmas? that's sick. get some help, mate.

Lancelot

I dont know how you can live with yourself

Proudâ™¥2bEnglishâ™¥

your talking about it as if it isn't a human being

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This is really sad..

Rosie

I do NOT believe you are a mother of a one year old.

There is no problem to solve, the only question to answer is why? Why pose this question?

LindseyTaylor

My first thought is..."Surely no one can truly be that ignorant, selfish and unloving. Must be a troll...a very bored immature troll."

Completely likely. About 98% likely in fact.

But on the off chance this is a legit question....yes please give your child to anyone other than you. your child would be better off raised by wolves, at least they have enough instinct the care for their young. Take the child to your family and see if they will care for her...

And I hope you get mugged and punched in the face in New York.

COME ON PEOPLE!!!! If anyone thinks this girl is for real then they are more gullible that any one person needs to be. This person what's to get people all riled up and get some emotions stirred. It's called a troll...or a really bored immature person. Come on guys....open those eyes.

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