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If I may ask a question about age?

For the adopted people here: How old were your adoptive parents when they adopted you and what was your age at the time you came to live with your aparents?
For the adoptive parents here: How old were you when you adopted your first child and the age of your adopted child when he/she came to live with you?

I was 18 when I gave birth to my first child. She was lost to adoption as a newborn while I was still in the hospital.
I would give birth to my next child at the age of 21...2 more after that, and I 'closed shop' at the age of 25 yrs old. I was a 'Nana' at the age of 41. I am now 62 yrs old and the very proud and fortunate 'Nana' of 6 grandsons.


    




sarah
I was 16 when my parents adopted my daughter at birth. Mom was 37, dad was 42. She is their youngest child of four. I had my second daughter at 22. My brother (who is also adopted) was adopted at 10mths old, mom was 32, dad 37).


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I had just turned 25 (my husband 26) when our son was born, he came home 2 weeks later then legally adopted at 20 months old. We were 26 &27


CDraBella
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I was sixteen when I surrendered my oldest son. His amom was 30. His adad was 32.

I had my two younger sons at 18 and 20 and my daughter at 26.

I haven't earned the grandma title yet.


Roberta P
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Daughter #1 We were 37 and 38, she was 22 mos.

Daughter #2 We were 38 and 39, She was 23 1/2 mos.

We were 24 and 25 when bio son #1 was born and 25 and 26 when bio son #2 was born.


Pip
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I was 19 when my son was and his aparents were about 32 and 26 when they adopted then they had their son 20 months later.


I Accidentally This Username
My birthparents were 17 when I was born (can somebody say Juno?), and my parents (both pairs, although I consider "parents" the ones I live with) had made arrangements to adopt while I was still in the womb.


racheypoo
My AMom was 26, and ADad was 31. I came to them at birth.

I was 35 (almost 36) when I adopted my daughter, and she was almost 3 when she came to me.


LinnyG
My Mom and Dad were both 33, I was almost 6 months old, thanks to Catholic Charities not knowing the state laws where I was born.


Cambria
My parents were 29 or 30 and I was 4 days old.

ETA: Both of my biological parents were 16 at the time.


kateiskate is getting married
My adoptive parents were both 25. They had been married since they were 18. I was three or four months old when I went home with them. But I the adoption was not finalized until I was almost two years old.


cruzgirlz3
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My parents were 31 and 35 when they adopted me. I was the youngest of three (all adopted).

My first mother was 25-she was a widow and had two very young children already. She went on to have one more after me, when she remarried. I was only three days old when I was placed for adoption.


H******
My adoptive parents were aged 31 and 33 when I arrived at their home aged 3 months. I have no idea where I was between the age of 3 days and 3 months old. The adoption was finalized when I was a year old.


Ranchmom1
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My birthmom was a few days away from her 21st birthday when I was born on June 4, 1967. My adoptive parents were 28 (mom) and 35 (dad). They had been married for 8 years at that time. They had adopted my brother (biologically unrelated to me) 2 years before I was born.

We adopted our oldest daughter after she became part of our family as a teenager. Her mother lost custody of her when our daughter was 13 due to severe neglect and abuse. I am the same age as her original mother, 42.

Lynda


SJM
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My ap's were 34 when I was placed with them. I was almost 6 months old. They married when they were 20. Dad got drafted and spent two years in the Army, mostly in Korea, almost as soon as they married. I am their oldest child.


kidmindi
My adoptive parents were 42 and 47 when I came to live with them. I was 2.

I adopted my daughter when I was 35 and she was 21 months old (altho I had been raising her since she was 8 months old)

As for my bio kids, I got pregnant at 18, had her at 19. I had my 2nd at 21, My 3rd at 26, my 4th at 27 and my 5th at 35. I am all done now.


Jennifer L
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I was a teenager when I gave birth to my child, whom I parented. I was unable to give birth a second time.

I was in my early 30's when I adopted two children from overseas. They were 10 and 5 (sister and brother) at the time.


Kini
When my husband and I adopted our daughter I was 23 and my husband was 21. Our daughter was five months old. Her biological parents were 34 and 36.


Lori A
I was 16 when I surrendered. My parents were just reaching their 40's, so were my daughters aparents, but she wasn't their first child. She was their second, and last. I was technically a grandmother at the age of 34 but didn't know it for a few years. I had two more kids at the age of 36 and 37. So my grand daughter is older than her two uncles. I have two grand children and another due in Sept.


Angela R
I was 26 and my husband was 28 when we adopted our oldest son. He joined our family at 6 months old, and the adoption was finalized 8 months later. Our youngest son joined our family 14 months after our first child did, and was also 6 months old.


Mom to Foster Children
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My hubby and I are in our early 40's and our son came to live with us at the age of 5 he was almost 7 when the adoption was done. His mother and father are both 26 years of age.


Traci
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I was 11 when the actual adoption went through the courts, and I had an official paperwork in my new parents hands. I was in foster care because I was abandoned my biological mother at a beach at the age of 3. I moved around and around, they labeled me "troubled" (who the heck wouldnt have been troubled...??) until I was 8 years old. That is when I moved in with my foster/adopted parents. They loved me and nurtured me out of my "troubled" phase...which lasted until I was 17..at which point I finally realized they were there for me through thick and thin, and were never going to abandon me. I cherish them more than anything in this world aside from my own children, and thank GOD every single day that a very troubled mother had the audacity to leave her child at a public beach. If it hadnt been for her, I would never have found my true family.

Sorry I veered off of your question..I just love to talk about my devoted parents, and how lucky I have been.


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(EDIT) My adopted parents were 52 and 50 when I was officially adopted.


Honest & Sober
My parents well Dad was 27 and mum was 29

From the letters I have here. My parents became aware of my existence when I was 9 days old. They went to the centre/hospital when I was a couple weeks old to check me out. Then they picked me up when I was exactly 1 month old. Signed some forms at the centre/hospital. They then went to court and paid a $5 court fee, the judge signed the adoption off and I was then theirs. That may sound cold but that is how it was. It was the 1970s and a government run department.





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