Ladies, If you didn't like your children would you put them up for adoption and have another couple?

Merry Cherry

I had this problem and I just gave my twins to my mum to look after.

Michael you just divorce the kids its easy peasy.

Phoenix

i would bring them into the woods and leave them there and head for the pub

ihaveasexyhusband

I can't understand why a mother wouldn't love their child but honestly if I didn't love them then I would seek counselling to find out why I didn't love them and carry on going until I found out why.

And no I wouldn't have any more - who says that I'd love the second lot?

leanne K

i think ur an idiot!
think about the question u have just asked!
its ur kids! if u went ahead with that an aborted them..20 years down the road ur gonna get them comin back to ya with questions ur no gonna want to answer!!
imagine tellin ur kids that u dont like them.. think of their faces when they find that out! they are your kids..YOUR kids! just because u dont like them u cant get rid of them!
think about if ur parents did that to u!

LILLY J

I have seriously thought about this. Its not that I don;t like them though its just I feel they deserve better than me, I think that it is possible not to like your children, which is different from loving them (or not loving them) If i put mine up for adoption, I would not have some more but if I am not happy then they may not be either.

Ashley M

I'd either grit my teeth and bare it... which I would nOT have to do because if I was pregers I wouldn't keep the pregnancy if I could not provide for a child on my own...

OR

I'd take the baby to a convent and drop it there with no name or note or anything like that... then I'd skip town or I'd have driven to a different town to leave the baby to be raised by nuns! ;P

Willow

Yo Michael, if I didn't like children I would not have become pregnant lol. I am an adopted child, my adoptive"mother" was a cruel and unfeeling *****, both to me and most around her.
My biggest "problem" was why this person would take me on in order to make my life a misery? I spent my formative years being told I was inadequate, never met her ideal of the "perfect" child.
Know what? I I was a teen bride, a teen mother, we both worked our b***s out to be the best parents, there were times when I pulled my hair out, there were times when I questioned my sanity, but I stuck in there. I worked and studied and instilled my kids with self-worth.
They know my history, and have learned from it, both are highly successful in their chosen field, both are married and are great parents. .My adoption means little to them, it happened.
Misery? It is is if you allow it. Nothing grows in barren land.
Peace, and a Merry Christmas to all, xxxx

Eli B

lol no mother would ever not like her kids surely......i duno though tricky one..........what if they came to hunt you down years later to seek revenge!

Mommy of 2 awesome babies

Well, if you don't like/love your children, i guess it would be best for the children that they live with pple that actually do love them.

I would think keeping them and "living a life of misery" would be bad for the children.

But any parent that doesn't like/love their kids are selfish, self-centered losers who should be shot.

But i could NEVER feel like that about my children, i love them too pieces.

sheidu5

If you can't stand our own children you have no business destroying their lives.

â™«â™ªBagâ™«â™ª Mummy to â™¥three pooksâ™¥

You get to the bottom of why you don't like them and work on it.

Lillie

Why yes of course, haven't you heard? Adoption is a BEAUTIFUL THING!!!!!!!!

ROTFLMAO

anya

first off thats messed up i mean why give up your kids because you don't like them jsut so you can have more?

thats why there are soo many older kids with problems because their parents don't want them because they don't like them i mean hey what if your parents didn't like you and gave you away just to end up having more kids that they may keep? you shouldn't be parents or even be able to have kids if your just gonna have them just to give them away fi they arent perfect.

northstar

sick

May

that's horrible. if your not willing to love and take care of them then you shouldn't have kids. im sorry but that's ridiculous

Snuggles

And you had kids..its a shame kids have to suffer over your decisions.. and u didn't already know you didn't like kids.. come on Michael . give the precious Jems to people who love and adore kids. they sure would be better off.

MARK C

I'd keep them, remember you brought them into the world and it's not their fault.Try your best with them it's unfair that they should have a bad start in life because you just didn't like the way they turned out.

Trust me I'm a Doctor â™¥

I'd put my 2 up for adoption and have a couple of Springer Spaniels instead, much less hassle. Springer spaniels don't demand 20 Euro a week to top their phones up and you can leave them in kennels when you go on holiday :)

connie

Hi

Are you serious?!?

Well i am not taking this seriously, but my answer would be : i have 2 pre teens, who's bedroom is often like a pigsty, who think they know it all LOL though i love them to pieces sometimes i dont like their actions.

No i wouldnt put them up for adoption, i keep in mind that one day i may be old and senile and they might put me in a nursing home and i want it to be a good one!!! LOL ; ))))

Princess Paradox

I'd tie them up in a sack and throw them into the Stort

Liberty

I would figure out why I didn't lke her and fix it.

benny_boi85

watched 'the omen' last night...

and 'the children''

If i learnt anything, get rid of them, they'll only end up killing you!

what? movies come true right?

:p

FlyingMonkeySwatter

I have a 10 year old I have to cattle prod into a shower who would wear the same clothes for the next year and probably wouldn't brush his teeth if I didn't stand over him every day. Love him? You bet. Like him all of the time, not so much. Give him up FOR ANY REASON--I'd do a Matrix routine on your a$$ and for a 200 pound woman--not exactly an easy feat.

wants2gohome

Of course! Wouldn't even bother with the adoption to be honest, just drive out to the middle of no where and dump them.....then go make some more...

lillibut

As tempting as that sounds and trust me my 2 yr old didnt sleep last night at all and this morning my 4 yr old was a really grumpy toad! I dont think really I could live without them!

Heather ~ Not a Perfect Mom ~

Why go through the hassle of adoption. Just take them to Nebraska. But you better hurry, I hear they are changing their Safe Haven Law to only include Newborns.

H******

Ha, you're so funny

There's a difference between loving our kids and not liking their behavior sometimes. It's called parenting and it's a lifetime committment, not something you can bail on.

very proud mummy :)

why wouldnt anyone love there child

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