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Which kid should I give away for adoption?

I am pregnant with twns but i can only afford to care for one kid right now. One is a boy and the other is a girl. Which do you think wul be easier to raise?


    




Bridget
you should keep them together and it isn't fair to pick one over the other. you keep both or get neither.


Eagles!
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This decision will affect you for the rest of your life...and your gonna leave it up to a bunch of random people on the internet??


chuchi27
ARE YOU SERIOUS, WHY DONT YOU GIVE THEM UP FOR ADOPTION TO A CHRISTIAN FAMILY WHO WILL LOVE THEM MORE THAN YOU DO, YOU DONT LIVE IN A THIRD WORLD COUNTRY WHERE WOMEN HAVE TO DO THIS .
SO GROW UP LOSER.
BAD EVIL MOTHER.


thirty-two
pffffffffft...
Keep them both, how are you going to live with yourself later on in life?
Manage yourself somehow... keep both..
Youll feel beter about it later...


northstar
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clogging up YA ! is sad , this was designed for people who really need help , not someone who has no friends or life ,
perfect examples , your prior questions .....Lamo

Why doesn't anyone like me?
I am really hot and cool but people don't talk to me. I think their jeaous.It's not my fault iam prettier than them.It's a fact some people aren't as hot as me...too bad live with it.

Yea your so not prego ....Lame


My best friend likes this guy who likes me. what should i do?

guess he likes your belly ? * insert laugh here *

and as for names how about your suggestion.....
what about bob? it's classic.
or for a girl Elynor


Grow up little girl , maybe thats why no one likes u ...duh

* insert laughs *


advicequeen12
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What kind of evil, sick person are you? How could you even ask this question on a website like this with a bunch of random people on it? What I would suggest is that you should get a therapist. Because you need help!
Just remember that these babies aren't toys to give away or keep. They are human beings that will have an approximately 100-year life span! They will have lives just like me and you! And you're putting their lives in the hands of strangers on the internet? Think about that before you post such a question on Yahoo Answers.


Tonia
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I don't think you should ever seperate children. Especially multiples.

I've heard that girls are easier and then that boys are easier. Truth is, they are both challenging, but may have different issues as they grow up.

If you give one away, you should give the other away to the same family.


sam22254
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Get real. I just can't believe how many people answered a dumb a-- question with take the girl, take the boy. Come on people these children need and have the right to know each other even cps try not to tear them apart. And as a mother you should be ashamed of even asking this question. Maybe your not fit to raise either one of them. Give one of them to the father if you have to give one away. And let's hope you don't have another set of twins latter.


AdamLambertsBiggestFan!!!!
DANG LADY! Poor kids! wHY THE HECK WOULD U ASK SUCH A QUESTION????!?!??!?!?!? If you split them up they will be very sad and it will be hard to raise either!!!! Keep them both u big meanie!


doubtfire
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Well, I for one wouldn't make a choice. I'd do whatever I had to to take care of BOTH children. You should have thought about whether you could afford more than one child before you got pregnant. There are all kinds of agencies out there that can help. Do not break up those twins.


Dont Judge Me
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IF U R REALLY CONSIDERING GIVING ONLY 1 UP WHAT IS WRONG WITH U GIVE EM BOTH TO THE SAME FAMILY AT LEAST KEEP THEM TOGETHER THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE USE TO HOW CAN U BE SO SELFISH THERE IS WELFARE AND CHILD SUPPORT STOP THINKING OF UR SELF FOR ONCE AND THINK OF HOW THE ONE CHILD UR GOING TO GIVE AWAY IS GOING TO FEEL KNOWING U KEPT ITS TWIN SELFISH GET ON BIRTH CONTROL BE RESPONSIBLE I CANT REALLY AFFORD MY KIDS LIKE I WOULD LIKE BUT WE MAKE DO PLUS LOVE IS THE BEST THING FOR A CHILD AND IT SEEMS U DON'T HAVE THAT


gypsywinter
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Give the girl away....girls' clothes cost more!!

Another teen bored on a Sunday...get a life! Or better still..do your homework!

ETA: Get a grip people!!! Are you actually believing this OP??! Gawd!


kety
it looks like your not ready to have babies, i say you give both of them up. think way in the future....can you just imagine telling the one you kept, oh yea you have a brother/ sister, at the time i couldn't take both so i had to give one up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats just horrible.


Carol c
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Oh Yawn....

you're not even funny. this is pathetic.

but thanks for the points.


Rachel (2010)
which ever one you dont choose is going to have foster parents..and wonder why you hated them enough to give them away when they are older..

i dont think a baby will understand that you cant afford them...


soccer4life
wow i can't believe i am answering this
1. we al know u are not pregnant (and if anyone does thinks so they need to take a pill or something)
and..
2. if u were in fact pregnant, you won't deserve any of them because u are being a selfish freak
hope i helped :p


secrets hurt
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you should raise them both....number one thats not fair to you kids to split up your babies..number two....you were responsible enough to get preggo....so know you have to figure out a way to raise them both.


SarahM:)
either keep them both or give them both away
you cant split twins up! thats terrible!


AdoreHim
If you truly are pregnant, those children are equally important. Either raise both, or place both for adoption. do not separate them, If you want someone that is easy to raise, you are not ready to parent.


Amor ♥
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keep your pants on then !!
SELFISH WOMAN

And if this is a joke its even more sad !
I PITY YOU !!


A M
Give away none of them get welfare, a job, and file for child support.


ShaFlo
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What the hell. How can you ask strangers this question, go talkto your doctor, or a professional. Seek help.


Jack S
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Give them both away or keep both of them


Spooky1
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ridiculous person


Jamie Kathleen
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Are you serious?


kelbel084
Obviously you are not pregnant or doing this cuz you want the attention because this question has been asked before. So you are either an extremely selfish person, or you are just crazy. Take your pick.


sebbieswifey110608
give them both away. you dont deserve either of them.

in all reality, we both know your not pregnant. get a life.


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The ugly one.





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