i have a major boyfriend isssue?

okay i was going out with a guy named jonathan he was some years older than me we were together for a year 3 mnths and 5 days he eventuly got caught up with doing drugs tey made him agree to go to rehab and suppposbly he went but just a while ago i called his dad and i no i heard his voice should i take that as a sighn or just no hes doing it for the best he belives we are together but when he left i ended the relationship im curretly with someone elese i feel like it could be something but jonathens always on my mind i no im stil in love wit him but im confused so please answer quickly!!

don r

Rehab isn't always a confined situation. Many are, but there are good recovery programs that operate outpatient. Hearing Jonathan's voice doesn't necessarily mean he's not in recovery.

Your two-timing him as soon as his back is turned could be his excuse for failing rehab. It's not totally up to you to make his problems easy to deal with, but it sure looks hard for him to keep motivated in a positive way. Getting out of the relationship probably will turn out best for him, having it crash on him and nothing lower to happen in his life.

Are you a drug user too? Maybe you say you aren't addicted and have things under control, but you write like a person who is not sober. I'm not trying to insult you, but if you look at yorself you might realize there is a lot of room for improvement. A lot of women addicts will follow relationships with the bonus drug supply. So, BF stopped the fun and New Guy suddenly is in the saddle, but you don't love him like you love Jonathan. Just look at that, will you. Honestly tell yourself why your life is so complicated without pointing at everybody around you. You aren't just a spectator, you're on this stage playing a strong role.

Fonz

What is it in the nature of young girls, that makes them think that they have to take care of trash? Is the "needed" feeling?

dylanfox

do you understand what "politics" stands for?

FlyMan

he probably found someone who can spell

angels_harp_2000

And you WANT to stay involved with a guy with drug issues because.......?????

Max Hoopla

I recommend a change in boyfriends.

acidBURN

Ever heard of spell check? How about periods and commas? And there is a Relationships category on YA. You'll get responses from other girls who can't seem to figure out that an elusive druggie may not be the best guy to have in her life.

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