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I might be in serious trouble soon HELP? SERIOUS QUESTION?

I took my dad's NEW Tahoe hybrid for a drive because he took my car away from me, I drove it to the mall to go shopping and when I came out of the mall there was a dent near the bumper. To make things worse, he's a police officer and I am already grounded because I threw a party while my parents were out of town and I have also gotten a few tickets.

HELP ME

I'm soo upset now my dad came home a couple of nights ago after work, and started screaming at me and was REALLY pissed about everything, and To make it worse, I started screaming at him and he grounded me until NOVEMBER . He didn't leave so I pushed him and that really got him angry and he just radioed one of his co-workers. I want to be close to my dad like I used to be.

I also had a party while my parents were gone and my dad said Mario (also a police officer) and family friend would come and check on me I didn't believe my dad but sure enough he did come and I was drunk it was bad, and I REALIZE I made a mistake.
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I wouldn't be surprised If I do get an *** whooping


    




mrs b
sounds like you're in trouble oooooooh O__o


Gina P
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Dear, the a$$ whooping was MORE then justified. First, you threw a party when your parents were out of town even though you knew they would not like it. I could only imagine what kind of party that was. You were grounded, then you STOLE your dad's car and damaged it. I not only would have whooped your rear end as well, I also would have made you pay for any damages done to the vehicle. On top of that you would be grounded for a VERY long time. Your best bet is to try to apologize and tell him it would never happen again and OFFER to pay for any damages done to the vehicle.


St N
Tell him you took the Tahoe and about the dent and offer to pay for the repairs, with your earnings, not your allowance. Then have a talk with him. Let him know why you have been having parties and getting drunk. The way you behave affects him. If the public and his bosses see you as a wild party animal, they will lose respect for him and this will affect his career. He may already be getting a raking over at the detachment. Talk and find a way to put things back the way they were.


The Straight Edge Warrior
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Well actually, it's your fault you f*cked up his Tahoe... But still, you deserve to be grounded or something, but the things he did to you (calling his friends to check you etc.) are making him an @sshole. I feel sorry to write this about your dad tho... And he whooped ya @ss? Shiiiiizzz... that's bad... Just go, hug him or something, tell a cliche (dad, I'm really sorry for everything.. you know that I love you and you are actually a really good father blah blah blah...) and it'll be just fine :) I've been through the similar problems :)


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I'm surprised he didn't kick you out of his house, literally..


Nikki
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Stop making these stupid, immature, childish mistakes. Grow up. Be a young lady and stop acting like a brat. Don't take things that aren't yours. And for christ's sake, your father is a police officer and you're underage. Of course he's going to send someone to your house while they're out of town because he doesn't freakin trust you since this isn't your first time screwing up so bad. Grow up.


Barbie Expert ♥
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First of all, sincerely apologize and ask for forgiveness.
Then say you will work to get money and fix the car.


Say what Again
all i need to say is that your lucky that you dont have my mom as a parent she would have made an a$$ whooping look like child's play


Allison
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Don't tell your dad about the dent. Next time you go out in that car with him, just be all surprised and be like " Whoa, someone dented your car!!" And find a job or something to pay off the tickets he will never have to know.


Jennifer Ward
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Okay i know this from experience. You need to be mature and admit to your mistakes. Accept the responsibility from your actions. If you try and fix it on your own then it's going to end up getting worse. Apologize to you dad. We may make the choices but we can't make the consequences. Best of luck. :)


Josh
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wow its amazing how teens are v
crazy these days


Lexiferrr
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You're just lucky your parents haven't dumped you onto the street yet.
Or boot camp.
Grow up and stop being such a brat, and don't ask for attention on yahoo answers.


Sultan of Football
You weren't right, but neither was your dad. When a parent hits a child (I don't care if it's even a smack on the head,) it's just pathetic. Hitting your child because they can't fight back for themselves. How cowardly.


The Girl Who Loves Music
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Well you shouldn't have taken your dad's car. Duh.


The Apostolic Doctrine
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I would of whooped you too. If you was my daughter and took my car without my permission I would whoop your bare bottom with a wooden hairbrush until you was sincerely sorry and you was crying and begging to stop. You should know better not to touch your parents car without their permission. You are living in your parents house. You have to follow THEIR RULES.


P A T T T T T
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Well, first off all, your past 16, why don't you go get a boyfriend, move out of the house after having his baby, get married, and live a happily ever ever, or to make things better poison your ******* dad


Madisonâ„¢
Talk to your dad. Tell him sorry. Tell him how you feel.

(:


all american girl :)
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apologize and tell him how you feel. just talk to him its the best thing to do!


happy0907
Grow Up. Loser.


Billy Shears
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Damn you ****** up bad just wait for everything to cool down it may take a long time but he cant be mad at you forever and try to do nice thing or chores


Forever Young I Wanna B
Call your Fairly god parents! LOL


Adriana
I wish kids knew how much it hurts when our children lie to us.

1st you need to apologies to your father for lying to him.
2nd you need to apologies for taking the car that you where not allowed to be using.

If you can't do it face to face then do it with a letter.

It's hard being a kid now a days, but it's harder to be a parent and protect our children.
Think about what you have done grow up a little take responsibility's for your actions.

You never know maybe your dad can for give you for admitting you where wrong. Especially if you do it with out a fight.


rayven
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Sounds like a family issue - and you being the problem.

Why is this posted under law enforcement and police? Your dad is a cop, but that just doesn't fit the category.


dirufangirl21
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In my opinion, I think you just need to tell him the truth and accept your punishment. The outcome of it won't be pretty, but it's not good to run away from your problems.


a. lo
Don't apologize to us, apologize to your dad. You've been acting like a total BRAT to him, so why shouldn't he be pissed off? If you want to be close with him again, you need to make amends, and accept whatever punishment he gives you. Even if he grounds you for a year, isn't that a fair price to pay to get back on good terms with your FATHER, who you're going to know for the rest of your life?


THE UNCOOL 1
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You deserve an *** whooping.
Now stop asking this over & over...


Casey/Kelle
Have a fresh start. Start by telling Dad about the dent. If you want a good relationship with your parent, you need to build trust.


Commander Ares
You do not deserve help. We cannot help you.

Obviously you have NO RESPECT for your parents. Your obviously cannot follow rules. So why at all, should your dad be nice to you? You took his NEW truck and it got damaged. You broke their TRUST while they were out. Goodjob.

You will have an EXTREMELY DIFFICULT time fixing your relationship and trust with your dad. You think you can just do whatever you want?

Too be honest, you just need to act more mature. Maybe being grounded till Nov. is good for you. You sound out of control. Learn to RESPECT your parents and their RULES.

That's what I've had to do all my life, and guess what? Now I'm 18 and going off to college in 3 weeks! All without any major issues with my parents.. b/c they can trust me and I follow rules.

You need to accept the responsibility for your actions and be more respectful.

Sorry if I came off as rude and mean to ya, but I'm just a bit pissed at how you treat your dad. You need to tell him everything you said on here.. meaning be honest with him.. that , he will respect (and be mad about it), but at least he'll know you're being honest with him...

*** EDIT** why why why did you say "F**k* off??? That's the worse thing to say!! Also, walking away from him (esp while he's talking/yelling) is very very disrespectful!!! No wonder he got more pissed..

Your dad seems like my dad, always yelling and in my face and all about respect... Butttt you need to be respectful..

Goodluck


Danny
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Deserved it... Time to grow up child.





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