my ex's boyfriend keeps threating me what should i do?

Barbie doll lover

Change your nickname to slasher!! No just kidding, but you do need to alert the police or proper authorities and be on alert. I had a stalker once and he made life a living hell for my family and me. I learned something from that and that is no one is allowed to take your freedom from you, only you can allow them to take it. Stand up for yourself and your family, make a note of every threating letter, phone calls anything, keep a paper trail on this guy. If you need the authroties, then you have some proff of what's happening.

Good luck darling, because I promised myself if I ever get another stalker I'm breaking both his knees!!

mykidsRmylife

Document it as much as possible and call the police.

lestat602000

I would stop by your local police station and submitt a complaint regarding him and if the threats were very serious, then get a restraining order.

hwatease

Keep a log of his threats, tape him if possible, and report the threats to the police.

ricothe3rd

Tell him he's welcome to try. Tell him, if he wasn't such a chicken **** he'd have stopped talking about it and tried it already then you would have already killed his *** and ate his liver and you wouldn't be dealing with his dumbass anymore. If he actually does come over you have two choices. If your an aggressive person you can beat the hell out of him with a baseball bat or any blunt object. He went to your house to beat you up so he can't press charges. If Your not an aggressive person, call the police. When they show up and he's pounding on the door you'll have a pretty clear cut case. First they'll take him to jail, then you can press charges and make sure he stays there.

If he has threatened you and you family with bodily harm, you should report it to the police now.

RUNINTLKT

LOCK YOUR DOORS, DON'T GO ANYWHERE.. CALL THE POLICE... FILE A REPORT...GET A RESTRAINING ORDER or EMERGENCY PROTECTIVE ORDER AGAINST HIM so he can be arrested for being within so many feet of you or your property... CARRY A CELL...and be ready to call 911...

shadowman

Report it each time. That way it will show a pattern when you file harassment charges against him.

Penney S

CALL THE POLICE GET A RESTRAING ORDER ON HIM STALKING IS A CRIME

smile

Get away from the idiot.

Carrie

He sounds deranged. Call the police. If he calls again record him. Get a restraining order.

Eko

If I were you I'd not worry about anything except English class

illegalphotos

Run him over with your dodge ram.

girly girl

I say tell the police about it and just try to stay away from him.

The Wraith of God is coming

POLICE

Restraining order

buy a hand gun

Demun

Tell him he ain't got the balls to come over and do s.h.i.t, then shoot his sorry a.s.s when he comes in

JesusZoidberg Saves

Forget the restraining order and get a protective order...it'll have more teeth.

Paul K

Get a restraining order for both the ex and the boyfriend. Threatening you is bad enough, threatening your family is way over the line.

Joseph, II

Your "boyfriend" needs to be paid a visit to- by the police. -Afterwhich YOU need to find a new boyfriend... Good luck.

Marion J

Go to the police! But if you feel that your life is at risk, take matters in your own hands and get a gun! Dont kill him but scare him alittle.

malikfouze

911 of cose dont wait till the last moment!

Harold T

call police

Sexy Mama

This is what you need to do first tell the police and have them to send over a police so that they can watch the house 24 hours and then just keep you a gun and the family close to you at all times. Always KEEP all windows and doors locked!

tina m

WOW! I would go to the police and get a restraining order.

Then I would take shooting lessons and GET A GUN!!!

sour tooth

tell him u been sleepin wit his bf that should get some heat of u

valerie

get some balls dude and quit being a p*ussy no wonder you are the ex i would have left your ****** *** too...

american_badass_25414

Shake it off. He's just trying to impress your ex. It's a male thing. Men always want to show the women that they aren't afraid and are always ready to fight. If you invite him to a confrontation to resolve the matter, 10 bucks says he don't show up.

chieko

Get a restraining order on him. Leave town and don't tell him where you are going. Go to a relative that he doesn't know.

tgace

It all depends on your location and your state laws. Here in NY you should call the police and file a report. If he is calling you on the phone, sending threatening letters or even e-mails, you can file a charge of Aggravated Harassment. If its a repeated course of conduct it could possibly be a stalking charge.

In my jurisdiction there are 2 basic options for orders of protection. One; you file a charge and get the guy arrested and the judge can issue an order. Or two; you can go to family court (even without an arrest) and have them issue an order. Or you can do both if one isnt to your satisfaction. Remember... all an order of protection means is that it is now an automatic arrest if the person violates the conditions of the order. Its not a magic shield, if you get an OP, CALL POLICE IMMEDIATELY if this person violates it.

Brian J

Shoot'em

Epicarus

Take it very seriously. Call the police, let them know what's going on. Get a restraining order. Take some self defense classes. Put 911 on your speed dial.

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