should i go to the police?

BRUCE ALMIGHTY!!!!!!!!

get your butt out of there,
let him go mad if you dont stop it now,he is going to hurt someone else also.i have been to prison in Belmarsh,and he needs to be locked up,
get the police today,he doesn,t deserve to walk the streets,be strong and spend time with your family,chances are he will be remanded not to be a danger to you.

Ding Dong

Sounds like a case for Jeremy Kyle to me.

Joan K

Go to the Police. Don't let him back in, seek an Injunction if he keeps bothering you. Nobody deserves to be beaten up. He will never change. Try and start a new life without him. Good luck and best wishes.

hms jollies

go to your nearest woman aid office or go to citizens advice but you must phone the police if you fear for your safety the woman's aid will put you in a safe house and the council must rehouse you as you are in danger if the house you are in is yours the police will send someone out to show you what you can put in the house ie door chain and the likes

*~Pretty Smile~*

Go to the police or you will regret that you didn't. Even if you dont want to do it think about your children and how they are all in the mix when they shouldn't be

Croxx

Yes do!!

Michelle.

uhh...YES

Domo-Kun

yes

Luli

Yes!

Get your kids and go and stay with a relative or ask someone to stay with you at home.

You are lucky he took the dog and not your daughter!

Forget the dog - do not let him use it to bribe you. Tell your children that it is being looked after and maybe you will see it again, but they need to be brave.

Do not let him into your home again!

Abiel

Yes

Naked Mole Rat

I don't know where you live but here in NYC I would tell you to make a police report JUST to have it on file. This document will help if he were to do anything against you again so you can get an offical Order Of Protection.

But it's meaningless if all you're gonna do is keep letting him in your life. If you let him in again, he'll think that he can do whatever he wants to you and come back whenever he feels....and guess what? He's right.

Just go to the police and make a report. Follow thru on a OOP and then take it from there.

I wish you luck. You're not a punching bag so don't take this crap from ANYONE...okay?

Good luck.

Aless

I think you should go to the police, otherwise he will hit you again and think he can get away with it.

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nasty mofo

yes tell them everything the move trust me move to another country or just far away

xje55iex

go to the police, this man is a danger to you and your children

It's me :)

Yes

louloubelle

call the police. explain the whole situation, about the violence as well. It might make your boyfriend go mad, but with that sort of history, and in front of your children, that does not make him a very nice person, or one whom you would want to leave your children with.
Get a restraining order stopping him from coming near you.
You owe it to your kids if not for yourself.

TURANDOT

No joking here, your time to call the police is now. In the emergency room, you'd be barely able to talk in between photo sessions of your bruises.

j1fpw834

If what you are saying is true, you shouldn't even have to ask the question. You know what the answer is. Call the police. Yes, mention the dog to them. Then forget the dog. Dump this loser and don't look back. The kids will get over the dog. They're not going to get over a dead mother. If you stay in this situation, it's also a form of child abuse. You cannot subject your children to this kind of crap.
Report it. Break all ties with him. Get help for battered women. Learn from this experience. Move on and start over.

Outlaw

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elaine.mulvey1@btinternet.com

Of course you should go to the police, he won't change they never do, you have children do you want them to grow up watching this.

GirlUK07

You should report him for each and every thing that he does so that you have a recorded history should the matter be taken further.
Be grateful that he hasn't taken your children and keep him away with an order. He sounds very unpredictable so just be very careful.

Nev

I think you know the answer to this, inform the police and get the dog back. Inform the police about the attack and have him arrested. It sounds like your in the UK and as such the laws have changed drastically in recent years for the better. You must report him for your and the children's safety. It's totally unacceptable for any reason for a man to hit a woman and please don't let him think it is by doing nothing about it.

amfound2

Yes you shopuld definately go to the police. He is a loser and you dont need him. The children do not need to see him beating you up either. Far to many men think they can get away with domestic abuse.
This is one fellow who needs stopping in his tracks.

fourofsix2003

call the police and have his *** arrested,he hit you once,he'll hit you again,and if you dont do it for your own sake,do it for your kids,they dont deserve to be raised in that kind of environment.

Big Bad Boris Mayor of London

ERR YEAH! PHONE THEM NOW

Hunger for freedom

You should definitely go to the police and report him. He has clearly shown that he's a danger to you with his violent attacks and possible death threats. Tell them everything he has done, including the dog.

Chloe H

Personally, I would go to the police, Stop it before it starts ,
Igf you dont this may turn into a violent regualr thing.
you may end up being treated this way regular,
Leave him babe.
x

Worldbystorm

Go to the police, and tell them. Do this for yourself and your children, and tell them you want some protection because you don't know what else he'll do.
Maybe you should go and stay with friends / family? but definitly contact the police.
Good luck
xxxx

brummie emma

sweetheart ive been there with my ex i didnt press charges unfortunatley now weve been bk and forth 2 court 4 the last 1yr and half if id have pressed charges we wouldnt be fightin over who my daughter lives with it would be on his record i only have photos of my injuries as proof i regret not pressin charges now

Helen Scott

This guy is bad news, and you need to get him away from you. Get a restraining order, file a report!

MICHAEL P

The answer is simple ... this man is erratic, violent and simply not good for your life for another minute. Men like this can be fickle and he deserves nothing further from you or the children. As for the dog, well you may have to put that one down to experience but you must cease all contact with this man ... you could end up getting seriously hurt, both emotionally and physically. My advice? Go to the police, take a friend and ask to see a female officer for advice only at this stage ... mention the assault and the theft of the dog. Let them guide you ,,,, they can be more human than you think. God luck

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