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Do you think it's okay for married men to frequent strip clubs for lap dances from attractive naked women?
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Do you think it's okay for married men to frequent strip clubs for lap dances from attractive naked women?

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waterberrer
That is a question for the wife to decide.


Dood
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If he was getting that kind of attention at home, I'm sure he'd appreciate the savings.


Lisa
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ABSOLUTELY NOT!!


R.Stafford
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no


elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom
No. End of Story.


Irish Dad
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I don't think so. It is kind of disrespectful to his wife.


stefanibrown74
Do you want your wife to frequent strip clubs of the male dancers, just so you know they do way more than you will ever get from the females. Think of how you would feel with a male all over your wife. Not to be harsh but be considerate of your wife's feelings, and respect her. If you have a daughter, would you want your daughter in that sort of enviroment?


...
No, that's blatant adultery.


popcorn
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No No hell no


Meredith
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A married man shouldn't be ogling other women. That's disrespectful to the wife. Men who do that are getting pleasure from the wrong places (even if it is just "visual pleasure" it's still out of place). Whatever happened to the sanctity of marriage?

The only naked woman a married man should be around is his WIFE. There should be no other naked women in his lap, or anywhere near him.


Don
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My ex went to a strip club with her current husband (women stripping). He tried to get her a lap dance, but she wouldn't bite.

I have been, but I knew deep down it wasn't right.


kennedy537@btinternet.com
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no i do not.what they are looking at is not reality which makes the wife feel insecure and frumpy in comparison to these half dressed babes with nothing pointing south no curlers in their hair or panda eyes in the morning.not only that but anything that makes some one in a marriage feel in adequate and reduces their self confidence is not a good thing.one off to see what it is like a lot of men do but the problem is when it becomes a habit and turns perceptions of what a relationship should be like in the real world.


shorte716
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Abousulty NOT


musicman47
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Speaking from a married man's point of view, I have been to strip places over the years. And I have to say that even though it was somewhat erotic, a part of me is glad that I have my wife of 17 years as my woman to go home to :)


BirdogsID
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nope.


Bailey W
ask him how much he spends on these women who could care less about him. i dont do it because i know they just want my money and they were on billy bobs lap 2 minutes earlier. I find strippers gross.


Kitty
I don't think it's "ok" for any man to "frequent" strip clubs - I mean, it's ok in a sense that he's free to choose what to do, but I personally would not be involved with a man who had nothing better to do with his time.


ceegt
No! A married man should love and respect his wife enough not to flirt with temptation and lust for other woman. No self respecting woman with put up with this; and no man of real morals and values would entertain such a thought. And that is about an honest an answer that I can give!


bethany.
i don't think it is, but that's just my opinion. if your wife is not good enough for you in a physical sense, i think something is wrong.... with you.


Charlie S
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Sure, why not. Although I personally have never understood why anyone would want to.

If I'm gonna start my motor, I want to drive somewhere ;-)


Derek
A lap dance!! Heck, no! Any woman that puts up with that is part of the problem.


Kiara H
NOOO


Bren J
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No.


John B
No, it's not. A spouse shouldn't put themself in a position where temptation might be overwhelming. There's no way it can do anything positive to a marriage.


Summer Lover
Personally I do not think this is acceptable and would be livid if my significant other did that.


melouofs
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No, and not because I fear cheating or anything like that. I just find that scene gross, and I don't want anything to do with the kind of guy who chooses that as his recreation.


Robert R
If you don't feel comfortable with your wife knowing it or think it would hurt her it is not ok.


Rebecca G
Hell no.


Rachel
No I don't think it's OK. My husband doesn't do it and he doesn't want to. I'm grateful!


missing my angel Sophia 6/27/08
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no, and mine wouldnt want to anyways.


Cletus_Maximus
Sure its Okay..

There is a BIG difference between looking in the window, and buying the dress.


tonyma64
I have been to strip clubs and my wife has been a nude model for artists She knows I have gone to strip clubs and has told me it was alright with her She asked if she could model for an art class after she saw an add in one of the papers and I told her she could. So as far as we are concerned it is OK for us to do these things





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